Even today the third party is to be blamed for going with the husband or wife.
As the spouses made the bonding with each other then it is the responsibility of the hubby and wifey to keep that bonding.
Is it time for all singles to tell the male/female giving the chat up line to get back to the spouse? That could be the singles responsibility. Yet should non attached people get involved in the marriage problems? What is the answer here?
I do not think the blame should rest with the third party.
2007-08-05 23:37:26 · 14 answers · asked by jupiteress 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This was a question only not an involvement.
2007-08-06 23:28:50 · update #1
no i dont think the third party is to blame.at the end of the day its the husbands or wifes choice to cheat or not.at the end of the day if the person is goin to cheat they will do it anyway. i know when iwas younger i had been seein this fella and bout 3 weeks later i found out he was married.like at that time bcos i dint know,u cant blame me for interferin in a marriage.it was the husbands choice to cheat with me not my choice to c a married amn.i ended it then when i found out he was married so no its not the 3rd partied fault.
2007-08-06 00:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's obviously that you don't even know what marriage is.
Marriage is when two people fall in love and if that's the case, the rest comes naturally. IT'S NOT A JOB! There is no responsibility! There is never a third party!
In this day and age, divorce is part of marriage. Marriage has the most ridiculous meaning, because it's treated like a job with alot of hard work. That's when they quit their job. So many people do not know how excellent marriage could be and their ruining the world, because of what their doing to children who are growing up knowing nothing about love, marriage and family.
If there is a third party in some stupid chat room, get a divorce. That is not marriage.
2007-08-05 23:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok for the marriage to work it is the responsability of both (husband/wife) 50-50.
But if it is a 3rd party involved then is a different story, no matter how many problems you have in your marriage you should never cheat, if you have the desire of cheating, that is because you dont love your wife/husband enough. Be honest and finish the relationship before you go and cheat.
If you are single and you are seing somebody that is married and you know that then is also your fault because you are interving in a relationship specially if they have kids. What goes around comes around, if he is cheating on his wife, he will cheat on you. You became a guilty person because you are destroying a marriage. Is an stupid excuse to say oh! but he wasnt happy!, oh! they have to many problems. Let him finish what he have so he can offer you something secure! and something where you wont feel guilty.
Cheating is cheating there is no other way to put it.!
2007-08-05 23:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both husband and wife are responsible in making the marriage work without anyone else's involvement.
As for singles, they need to keep in mind that they are probably chatting with someone else's husband or wife. No, singles should not be involved in anybody's marital problems because they do not have the experience to assist.
Blaming the third party for coming in between is just so easy to do than owning up and confessing that we have erred. It doesn't help at all.
2007-08-05 23:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by Nora C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The blame should rest with the two people having the affair. It is up to the third party to think about how they would feel if someone was cheating with their spouse. Besides, if they will cheat with you, they will cheat on you.
2007-08-05 23:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Both Wife and husband have to be faithfull of course, if you are married and you cheat or you are thinking of cheating you shouldn't have got married in the first place.
but let's say the wife is having an affair, why would it be the husband is fault? if you are a single person and you know, the woman/men is married leave it alone or be prepared to get part of the blame.
2007-08-06 00:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by Maon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The blame doesn't rest with the third party. However if you know the person is married you really shouldn't date them until they are available. Especially since karma will come back at ya when you least expect it.
2007-08-06 00:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so you got caught chatting with a married guy and are now mad the wife is upset with you. You don't want to accept any blame for him and in fact feel if she wasn't such a jerk to him, he wouldn't have been out there in the first place. The 2 married people are equally responsible for it. If you meet someone you like to chat with, do it. They can explain what they need to at home.
2007-08-05 23:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by mikebnchprss 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my hubby and i are one nobody else matters ,if it is down to one the marriage is not a marriage and if they want to chat others up they should be single i go out have a laugh with all my male friends but they know me and i go home with my hubby
2007-08-06 11:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by blueendred 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the blame should rest with the two people in the wrong - the two people having the affair.
2007-08-05 23:41:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋