Marriage & Divorce - 5 August 2007

you are a faithful husband is it hard? If you are not a faithful husband what drives you? Are you bored? Is it a revenge thing? I basically want to know why you cheat. Just curious.

2007-08-05 04:23:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

right now i am recieving 1700 a month in child support ...when this order took affect my ex was makeing 120,000 a year...now he is makeing about 240,000 a year but the problem is that the okdhs will only handle child support up to 2300 a month...my question is do you think a judge will give me more than 2300 a month??for 3 kids arent they intitled to some of that 1/4 of a million dollars a year??

2007-08-05 04:17:27 · 2 answers · asked by lisa p 2

Re: Pre-marital contract.
Facts: Husband & wife were married for 13 years before husband's death, & were together for 6 1/2 years before they married. Contract says Husband "will establish, in the JOINT name of husband & wife, a payable-on-death (POD) account in the principal sum of $150,000 for the sole purpose of distribution to wife at husband's death, & which at distribution shall become her sole & separate property. All interest monies earned on this account shall be deposited to the joint checking account established under subparagraph C of this paragraph 6 & used for daily living expenses, or as otherwise agreed between the parties."
Issue #1: Husband diverted $63,500 from this fund to his personal checking account. Is wife entitled to reimbursement after husband's death?
Issue #2: No interest money was ever deposited to joint checking acct & no agreement to do otherwise. Is wife entitled to interest monies on the principal sum for the term of the marriage?

2007-08-05 04:17:00 · 8 answers · asked by ARIELLE 1

can someone take half of pre marital property if no pre nump was signed

2007-08-05 04:16:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

For girls, if you can marry any guy that exists who would it be?

2007-08-05 04:03:03 · 17 answers · asked by Ayn L. 1

how do you change the way you think

2007-08-05 04:01:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in a terrible situation. Before you judge my situation from what you read, please don't tell me the feelings aren't genuine, etc. This is a very sensitive thing to me.

I fell in love with a married man. He is very unhappily married. His wife can some into our place of work and they barely acknowledge each other. They fight constantly. Shes threatening divorce, he's threatening divorce, yet neither takes action.

I'm pregnant with his child. It was a planned pregnancy. He tells me that he wants to leave his wife very badly and has even promised me he will before the baby comes. His words tell me that hes going to leave, but his actions really don't and his body language doesn't.

I'm really fed up with all of this. We think about each other 24/7. We spend all of our time with each other. He's with me all day. I've never felt so in love with a man as I do now, and I can tell by his eyes and the way he talks to me he feels the same way. Why won't he leave?

2007-08-05 03:55:26 · 28 answers · asked by amelia1500x 2

2007-08-05 03:54:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you divorced your wife during this time did you ever regret it?

2007-08-05 03:53:53 · 3 answers · asked by grtchi09 2

I am having an affair with my ex brother in law and he is married. We have always been great friends with a atraction to each other for 27 years. We lived together for a year when he seprated from his wife. He decided recently to try and make it work with his wife for his son because she made him feel like a loser dad she put the guilt trip on him. His wife said if she found out he even talked to me she would leave him. But yet he calls me everyday and sees me when I fly out there he said he made a misstake and he is in love with me but cant hurt her a second time hes afraid too because he just moved them to a new state . But yet they are unhappy and fight all the time because she hates it there. How could I let her find out with out it coming from me??

2007-08-05 03:53:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Us being his daughter & I. He has a good job that pays him $13.00 an hour.
Whenever he gets paid we go out and get stuff we need for the house and pay bills. The thing is when we go shopping, it's like he has to buy 2 of everything, One for us & one for his mom the same thing with the bills too.
I really think she's a financial burden. Shes in her 40's, doesnt have a job nor does she try to get one, neither does her "boyfriend", and she's a habitual drug user. For that reason I dont like my daughter around her.
She has a place of her own with her "boyfriend" and some other family members.
Anyway, I was wondering what you all think about this. Is it right for him to be supporting her when he has a family of his own now?
Also, his mom wasn't much of a "mom" as he was growing up. We have been together a long time.
what do you think about this?

2007-08-05 03:53:17 · 12 answers · asked by preggo&luvinit 3

His issues with his ex wife are crazy. Previously to her filing on him for child support, I knew he paid her in cash etc. I even said, with her issues, you should contact the court and change this, because she could come back and say you didn`t pay a dime, well that`s what she has done, at the time I mentioned this to him, he responded with it`s his business and such. I understand he has to protect his daughter, etc, But it seems like he could figure out something for his daughter to live with him due to the ex using meth. BUT to add more, he lives with his mother, he does work, now they have garnished his wages and we talked yesterday and he tells me that there probably won`t be a future for us now because of all this and that he feels bad for me having to go through this with him. It seems to me this ex holds all the control. They all walk on egg shells with her. It`s sickening. Aren`t any of them concerned that she is a meth addict, teacher and a mother? How disturbing is that?

2007-08-05 03:42:19 · 6 answers · asked by JuNkGyPsY 1

I am in a 4 yr marriage,and my husband refuses to say he loves me,he is also very rough during sex and afterwards I feel used,and start crying and immediately want a shower.He says fck love just have fun,and sex is fun.He won't even comfort me when I cry.
I have a severe health problem and he has taken all my financial stability,I am so shattered as a human being and do not know where to go for help as I have been turned away by everyone.
No one can understand the pain Im going through or feel what I feel,they just scream at me leave if im not happy but its not simple.How can I support myself when I am sick?where do I live???/these are things no one is willing to advise me on and I am so confused.
sometimes I think if I am a better wife and do what he wants he will give me what I want because thats what he tells me,but no matter what its never good enough.
I feel like a slut because he never takes me out for fun he only wants to have sex with me never take me anywhere.

2007-08-05 03:39:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

he will go but its not going to change anything?

2007-08-05 03:38:36 · 5 answers · asked by beba 1

I am Egyptian & I am married to american woman & she abandoned me with no reason what so ever & I lost any kind of contact with her .. I tried everything because I had nothing for her but love ..
for a year I have been struggling in every way to work everything out because I love her so much .. you can check my previous question to see how hard I tried ..
any way I didn't give up I kept trying to contact her in every way & then one day I called her cell phone & there was a man there talking to me & I talked to him & that's exactly what I knew about him & her ..,
he is mexican illegal immigrant he has been living she knew him off and on before getting married to me & now he is living with her in the same house & he knew nothing about me & her although we're legally married ..
I feel so devastated & I don't know what to do ., I don't want her in my life but I can't believe she let all this love go away & killed all my dreams just because she is too cheap to have any respect

2007-08-05 03:34:50 · 13 answers · asked by khaled 1

2007-08-05 03:33:32 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i have been with my husband for 6 years. through that he has had a drinking problem and 2 rehabs. He is still drinking well, I keep drawing lines in the sand and he keeps crossing them last week i gave him a list to complete like:go to AA, get 3 accountablity phone numbers and get help(I gave him until Friday (He did them) well Sat I laid down and he went and got a bottle and poured it in a water bottle i caught him he said he didn't drink any. well, my upstairs neighbor is a pastor and he said give me 2 weeks to talk with him but, he has tried this before . Do I give him 2 weeks to work on my husband or do i move on with my 3 yr old little girl in the low income house that we have already been approved on? I have to move in be Moved in be monday if i want it. He begs me to stay and says I didnt drink any. HELP pleaswe need advice

2007-08-05 03:11:28 · 19 answers · asked by rfry68 1

2007-08-05 03:04:43 · 35 answers · asked by Tiamaria 1

a lot of experts say that if one spouse wants a divorce just go with it like OK if you want one, i agree. that way you're not arguing anymore. some people say pour your heart out with your estranged spouse....that usually doesn't work either. here's my question. i was with a very insecure woman. she wanted a divorce because she had trust issues from the very start (obviously she'd been hurt multiple times by people including her family), accused me of affairs, needed me to be around all the time and i mean all the time. then she got scared that i'd hurt her and wants a divorce. experts say just leave them alone and move on to show them you are strong. not sure with a really insecure woman. Anybody have any advice on how i can get through to my estranged wife? it's only been a few months since we separated and judging by her anger, she really didn't want this. she said she did in her words but her anger over everything now that were getting divorced seems to show otherwise.

2007-08-05 02:48:53 · 6 answers · asked by survivor 1

What would you feel like if after you and your wife has sex and she says she wants more would you be upset like you didnt please her or would you happy that she wanted you??

2007-08-05 02:36:01 · 15 answers · asked by plumcouch30 4

2007-08-05 02:28:44 · 17 answers · asked by Katie 1

My sister is quite wealthy and this man became very attached to her quickly. I was suspicious, but then the other day, I saw his ex-wife.... she is thin and tall. My sister is very short and quite over-weight. My experince is that men's taste in body type does not vary THAT much..... Also, he has a good job, but has no savings or financial security.... I know that's not much to go on... but the difference in body types really worries me.

2007-08-05 02:08:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

besides physical features?

2007-08-05 01:32:05 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife wanted the divorce. she was depressed and emotional. we married way too soon after meeting and throughout the marriage she was jealous of anything that threatened my time with her (i.e. the occasional business trip, my children from a previous marriage, me doing anything with my friends even like going golfing once a month). i couldn't have any friends. then after awhile i could tell she wanted a divorce. told me she wasn't marriage material. kind of weird. i said OK. she left and we're going through a divorce. now she's all mad during this divorce even though it's what she wanted. she hates me now. nothing bad happened like an affair or anything. just lots of insecure fighting over nothing. she's really angry and i don't know why. i gave her all her things when she moved out. she's filing all kinds of nasty lies about me in divorce court and contacting my first ex wife and telling her lies. Why? she wanted this and is enjoying her freedom. why is she so mad?

2007-08-05 01:19:31 · 17 answers · asked by survivor 1

been divorced for 2 years---her idea---we have 2 boys--were married for 16 years. After divorce, she lost her job, tried committing suicide, moved in with a 50 year old man. I don't know what happened to her, but the way she is acting is definately not the woman i married. She tells me she is not happy, that she made wrong choice, but is still with her boyfriend. What can i do? She has moved back 3 times and left after the weekend.....................

2007-08-05 01:07:33 · 17 answers · asked by Jeff B 1

hard to say no when they ask me for some money

2007-08-05 01:04:22 · 3 answers · asked by Ag 2

It is really irritate me when I say a joke or share a news or something, and I just have to repeat it twice or three times, and sometimes she just like ah, and takes a look on an item in the mall or so. I have talked with her about that several times, and we ended up in blaming game. or sometimes, she gets emotional or upset for any simple discussion even on a world topic like global warming or some of that stuff, I can't imagine we get into bad mood for these things. and it is not related to love thing, she loves so much and I m sure of that, but I also shows love, teasing her and you can say attaching, should I stay away or shows ignoring to her so she can pay more attention?. . What do you think, do you have a suggestion or solution or similar experience?

2007-08-05 00:52:59 · 14 answers · asked by Zorro 2

2007-08-05 00:51:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-05 00:42:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

anybody help. How to apply for seperation and divorce at the cheapest way.

2007-08-05 00:28:30 · 3 answers · asked by mingmama 1