What would you feel like if after you and your wife has sex and she says she wants more would you be upset like you didnt please her or would you happy that she wanted you??
2007-08-05 02:36:01 · 15 answers · asked by plumcouch30 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok I wasnt clear enough...I wasnt saying I had not had a orgasm ..but I was just ready for another go around
2007-08-05 03:56:09 · update #1
That depends on how intimate and understanding u both have. It also depends on the mood,situation and various thing, at times men want more.
I would not get upset if i was asked rather i would give more but after a little gap.
2007-08-05 03:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
not a guy, but I always turn to my fiance and tell him this. Its like as soon as I'm a bit rested, I'm all over him again and this lasts all night. He never minds it and actually enjoys it. He says I'm insatiable in a joking sense and just understands that I have a high sex drive. I think that many men misunderstand a female sex drive. Not all women are satisfied with one orgasm. Which, if as in your case or mine, could make them feel like they're not doing something right. I guess it depends on the guy, but given the many complaints here on YA about wives not wanting sex, I'm sure some of the fellas here would DIE for a woman who wants to go all night, every night. My hubby loves my sex drive and thinks its just soo sexy that I'm always wanting more.
One other thing, its possible for men to have back to back orgasms! GASP, yes it is possible. You just gotta know how to work it. So if your guy has climaxed and not ready to go again, try out different things to get him back in the mood... if you consistently take the lead after he has climaxed, not only will you be satisfied, but you can get him used to multiples too.
2007-08-05 09:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how we were asked. if the question came from a disappointed tone in their voice, it would probably affect the males ego, and hurt his feelings a little. then that session in the bedroom would be over. and if the woman wasnt quite there to an orgasm, and she said, babe, i need a little more attention, we would know what you meant and would happy handled it. and if the woman was just loving the man, was already satisfied, and just wanted more of being that close the the fella, we would jump for joy that you're happy, and just cant seem to get enough of us. we love that. hope this helped.
2007-08-05 09:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jack 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, i wouldn't feel upset nor would I feel i hadn't satisfied her. In fact to me, it makes a guy very happy b'cause sometimes he's not sure if he should ask 4 more and likes it when the gal does.
And this did happen to me on many occasions during my second marriage.
Hormones and sex drive during certain times trigger this "need" for more, men have it as well as women.
Wait until it happens at 3am and u havta wake him outta a sound sleep for not one session but 2 b'cause u just had a dream about him or something like that, that happens also...just go 4 it and enjoy.
2007-08-05 12:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on whether or not its immediately afterward or somewhat later. The thing with guys is that once they finish they need time to rejuvinate, it usually takes longer depending on age. Even young guys like me, 21, need a minute or two. What he probably took offense to was that you unconciously implied that he didn't satisfy you. And because he may have not been ready for another go when you asked for more. Thats the same thing as saying you're not good enough to satisfy me. Instead of taking it how it was intended, it is a giant hit to his manhood. My suggestion is understand a guys mentality more, he's your husband, you should know him better than that.
2007-08-05 09:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would be happy that she wanted to. If she wants more than what I'm doing, then she is finally being herself with me and she wants this relationship to work. Now I can be more open to my sexual needs from her also. Sometimes good things do come to those who wait, but not for those who wait too late!
2007-08-05 09:51:18 · answer #6 · answered by John Henry 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I ask for a half hour to recoup, usually by then she is out of the mood. That's why I stress lengthy foreplay.
2007-08-05 12:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by diamondbullet66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy that she wants me, but a rule i abide is dont pleasure
my self before the woman is pleased
2007-08-05 10:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by luvs n need of luv 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's just in one of those frisky as a kitty moods huh?
2007-08-05 10:02:17 · answer #9 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No ive still got my fingers and tongue to finish her off
2007-08-05 09:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by havanadig 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋