I am Egyptian & I am married to american woman & she abandoned me with no reason what so ever & I lost any kind of contact with her .. I tried everything because I had nothing for her but love ..
for a year I have been struggling in every way to work everything out because I love her so much .. you can check my previous question to see how hard I tried ..
any way I didn't give up I kept trying to contact her in every way & then one day I called her cell phone & there was a man there talking to me & I talked to him & that's exactly what I knew about him & her ..,
he is mexican illegal immigrant he has been living she knew him off and on before getting married to me & now he is living with her in the same house & he knew nothing about me & her although we're legally married ..
I feel so devastated & I don't know what to do ., I don't want her in my life but I can't believe she let all this love go away & killed all my dreams just because she is too cheap to have any respect
2007-08-05 03:34:50 · 13 answers · asked by khaled 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think I can go on with my life and everything , I am a medical student and I have so much that can keep me busy and I don't want her in my life anymore,
I just don't know the reason why she did that ?
and I am not living there I am living here in Egypt because I have college and i don't know how can I divorce here , I can sue her here but this won't mean anything there .,
I feel so betrayed and this is messing me up ..
I don't want her in my life but I heard that maybe she is waiting for me to get my license so she can sue me for money and I want to avoid that ..,
she is so mean and what she did is even more degrading to herself in the first place ..,
I just want her out of my life without having to do something I can't afford ..,
and how can I report this guy to the INS ?
2007-08-05 04:39:11 · update #1
You can sue your spouse for adultry in S.Korea, but i don't know about the rest of the world. Someone of her level does not deserve your love and respect. As hard as it may seem, move on slowly. THere are plenty of women out there for you!
2007-08-05 03:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by baryons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one~ report the other guy to INS.
Number two~ SOME states will allow you to sue for what is called " Alienation Of Affection" However, it is rare and hard to win; but a possibility, perhaps.
You might also have a shot at a suit for "Intent To Cause Emotional Damage" Something like that. Again, I think that is very hard to win.
There is a woman out there, I promise you, who will love you as you deserve to be loved.
I am sorry you have experienced this.
Karma is a wonderful thing~ in due time, she will have to face that. What goes around WILL come right back around. I promise you that.
Hang in there.
2007-08-05 11:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately,there isnt much legally you can do to her except file for divorce and move on with your life. You cant sue her for much in divorce court as these courts tend to lean toward the wife so youre not going to get anything in a way thatll punish her like you want. The most you can hopefully get is the divorce and the fact that she will realize exactly what she lost in losing you. Sorry and good luck
2007-08-05 11:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank God you don't have kids with her. File for divorce as soon as possible. All forms are available at your local courthouse, or, even better, get a lawyer to do the work for you.
Then, find someone else. and consider yourself lucky you don't have to pay alimony or child support.
P.S> Walk like an Egyptian!
2007-08-05 10:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not sue your wife for cheating on you. She has moved on. If you are a green card holder rather than a citizen, or have only been in the states a short while on a green card (through marriage) I suggest you see a lawyer as soon as possible, as your divorce will affect your green card status.
2007-08-05 10:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mama~peapod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One: call INS, they'd be interested in him.
Two: move on. A person's love (which is obvious you have for her) is too fragile to be treated as she did. Try to find someone who has the same respect you appear to have for love. Despite loving her she is an utter waste of time. She treated you like this once, chances are she'll do it again.
2007-08-05 10:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by sassy and evil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude>
Chances are, if she was able to do that so easily with out even saying anything to you ,the love was gone on her end or it was prabably never even there in the first place. So i`ll advis e you to move on and both sue and devorce her before you got hurt again.
2007-08-05 10:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by daynerampersad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't sue your spouse for adultery in the U.S. and if that is where you were married then you have to divorce her in the U.S. You can divorce her on grounds of abandoment. Doesn't matter WHO she is involved with he has nothing to do with your marriage. So posting about him is irrealevant. Oh and quit whining, that is so unbecomming of an adult.
2007-08-05 20:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is take care of yourself. I know it is devestating to find out someone you love and have invested in so heavily is not the person that you thought they were.
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF... give yourself a break and pursue this divorce in whatever manner that you feel is in YOUR best interest.
I'll bet that someone else will be very lucky to find you someday.
2007-08-05 11:17:43 · answer #9 · answered by Bentley 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the american man's life.Dump this trash,move on.Your real girl is waiting for you,you wont be able to find her with this black cloud hanging over you.
2007-08-05 10:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by jojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋