2007-08-05 22:38:11 · 6 answers · asked by sandy b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Look one up in the Yellow Pages and call. You can usually get a free initial consultation to see if you like the therapist.
Ignore the first person who said they aren't worth the money. Most counselors will definitely tell a spouse when his/her actions are harmful. Heck, I had a therapist tell me that my husband was dragging me down by his addictions, and she told him, too! I think it helped him a lot.
2007-08-05 22:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by ddd 874 587 545 543 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
If you live in UK then RELATE are good at giving you some advice. They won't make everything perfect but they will put you on the road to communicating with one another and exploring compromises and seeing the relationship for what it really is.
Relate allows you to go as a couple or alone but if you can get hubby to go too it may be a lot more benefical to the two of you. If he loves you enough to work this out, he will make the effort.
I hope the two of you get issues resolved and go strong!
Good luck!
Lx
2007-08-06 05:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by SunshineApple 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the first point of contact we made was when we had a argument and went to bed mad at each other and then woke up and went all day with out talking at all to each other and it was awful. so we went and saw a marriage counselor and worked on our marriage with open lines of communication and then we found God and our lines are open all the time and we know that when we have a conflict, god is always open to hear our prayers 24hours a day 7 days a week. have a good one ...
2007-08-06 10:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by THE UK WILDCAT FAMILY 10 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Marriage counselors will not help people. They are kind and compassionate like the liberals most of them are, and will not render the proper form of rebuke that is needed.
Marriage counselors are psychologists, and they are devoid of spiritual understanding, except for individual exceptions. They are a waste of time and money.
2007-08-06 05:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
do you need this can you not sit down together and talk about it lay all your cards on the table and get it out i the open?if you cant talk then go see someone?if you have kids get them out the way And go somewhere on your own make up life's too short hope all goes well?
2007-08-09 14:21:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call and make an appointment.
2007-08-06 05:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋