Doesn't discus you when an older man dates or maries a young women and when a ollder women dates or maries a

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younger man?
Im talking about 20,25 or more og an age diffrence.I know people whould say its non of my buesness as long as there happy and love each other.Think about it this way e.g Imn 18 my dad is 47 and my mom is 43.If they both got divorced and my dad dates a women who is 20.@ years older then me ill be discusted and im sure if i was my dads age and my daughter was my age now ill be discusted with her dating a man close to my age.Im not the only one who feels this way even open mind people have this feeling alitelbet but wont admit it.Why cant people love some one there age?Women think older guys are more mature and older women feel younger men give beter sex.I think they all have personal problems and selfestym issues.

Dont coment on my spelling because I suck at spelling.

Answer 1

Okay well I guess I could see where your coming from but I'm 19 I'll be 20 on the 11th and my husband is 10 yrs older than me and I married him because I love him.... I didn't marrie him because I'm a gold digger or because he's more "mature" because honestly I think I'm more mature than him but anyway yea like WAY older men marring WAY younger women or visa versa yeah that's just SICK!!!

Answer 2

You are 18 and young. I used to feel the same way when I was your age but at 42 now I have learned that age is really mostly just a number. I am single and prefer to not date men above 42 because I do not find most around my age and above physically attractive and also because I have many interests and I am a very energetic person. I prefer younger however I feel 20 - 25 yrs younger is too young because we all change so much between 18 and our 30's and up.
Older also does not always mean smarter and wiser...some of them have a few loose screws and younger does not always mean stupid and immature as I know younger guys can be very smart and mature...
it really all depends on the person.

Answer 3

Your spelling isn't so much the problem, as it is hard to understand what you mean.

Is your dad dating a 20 year old? And you are also 20? I understand why this would cause you some distress, but unfortunately, what it comes down to is that for men, 20-year-old women are much hotter than 50-year-olds. It isn't superficial, it is all about instinct, and it comes down to fertility (younger is more fertile).

However, I imagine it is difficult for a 40-something guy to actually spend all his life with a girl that much younger due to her immaturity. Just give it time, I am sure he will get over it. But talk to him if you feel strongly about it.

Answer 4

men learn how at a age you posted on your parents to b happy and women see younger men to well have a sexual relanship where theey are getting older and one thing a woman who see.s a younger man dont thinnk of is he let his buddies know and there goes her name right in the mud. . in my opion?

Answer 5

Spell check!

Answer 6

So buy a dictionary.