Marriage & Divorce - 2 August 2007

A clean home is great, but its like all the time, and I think its an anxiety issue. What can I do to help? BTW I hate the vacuming noise esp during the day.

2007-08-02 09:21:46 · 21 answers · asked by relaxrx 2

My wife just made it clear to me that it's either her way or the highway, she left me 2 years ago and we've been separated but have been in contact, and apparently being some kind of couple still. When we married we were philosophically and religiously the same. Afterwards, she changed her mind about those issues, and kind of left me cause of my nomad-like lifestyle (I do move a lot), and more cause of my beliefs.

Now, she tells me if I don't go to her and stay there it's over.

I don't know if I really have a question, I just feel about it. But I don't want to give up something that I know it's real (of course I don't want to upset people with different beliefs, i just feel that way).

Any word or advice, or just a "damn man, too bad" is welcome, specially from women.

Thanks.

2007-08-02 09:16:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-02 08:56:53 · 88 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is for all the people out there that have stood by me and gave great answers during the difficult time my wife and I were going through. I took tons of advice and just sat my wife down and laid it all out. She kind of understood and of course did protest some. But all in all in the end....we have made love just about every night and are even holding hands again outside. We have been married for 12 years and have two great boys. Thanks again everyone.....

2007-08-02 08:53:08 · 9 answers · asked by IRSTAS 4

They were sleeping on the floor. Mind you I was up in Bed sleeping. It was 11.30am. I didn't know it was going on and I just found out about it like 5 minutes ago.....

Should I inform someone?

2007-08-02 08:46:13 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-girlfriend got married 6 months ago. We were together for 3 years before this, and "taking time off" turned off to a breakup. It was never official, things just happened. Soon after we brokeup, she married an old friend of hers.

I am depressed, sick, I love her and miss her so much and would do anything for her, but this has made me sick. I wanted to get back with her, then I find out she got married.

Well, she is married for 6 months now, and has constantly called me. As of 2 weeks ago she called me and told me she was very confused still and not happy whatesoever in her marriage. that she loves me and misses me. She told me didnt know what to do. When I told her to divorce and marry me, she said she didnt know, she was making herself crazy, just too confused. I asked her not to contact me unless she was getting divorced as this was just making me feel worse.

Can I do anything else? Press the issue more?

2007-08-02 08:42:20 · 37 answers · asked by parkland5654 1

I bought a silicone dildo (safe, non-latex) on-line. It wasn't cheap but I know my wife could use silicone instead of other materials that make her itch. HOWEVER, this morning I get the UPS package, take out the box and HAHAHAHAAH... the thing is freakin' huge. Two inches around. Like a baby's arm. Do I send it back (they allow that if original package was unopened -- it is transparent) and get my money back, or do I show it to my wife who may one, get turned on... two, laugh... or three, get grossed out and wonder why she married such a sicko. Help

2007-08-02 08:33:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

in order to take care of his girls on visits...His ex-wife says she can't have them. The power of attorney gives her the right to do everything from taking care of school things to getting medical treatment...even though the ex- wife has custody and it is shared parenting can the power of attorney help her keep visitations after they are married

2007-08-02 08:33:26 · 7 answers · asked by jstahrsgal 2

So when having sex with other women...all I have to do is let her know about it before it happens.

COOL!

I like this technique wemen. Who knew there was such a great loophole in marriage.

Thanks,

Flavio

2007-08-02 08:31:52 · 27 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-08-02 08:31:15 · 8 answers · asked by SHAWN 3

I'm totally confused about what to make of my wife's relationship with some of her coworkers. I really trust her completely, but don't trust her coworkers at all. My wife is gorgeous and she's also extremely friendly and smart. There have been three or four occasions over the past year when she'd be telling me about a guy who she'd become friends with. She mentioned one guy had been putting some pressure on her to go out to office-party type things because he wanted to get to know her better. I asked her why he couldn't get to know her in the office. She said I was overreacting. Another guy started asking her to go jogging with him, she never went. Still he gives her apples every day, which she takes. He also tries to impress her by writing her some emails.

She continually reassures me and always tells me how much she loves me. I trust her completely, but I just can't settle my mind about why she gets all this attention all the time unless she's somehow sending signals to them... It also seems so disrespectful of her to not be more upfront with these guys to the point where they won't try anything. This sort of thing happens when guys think they have a chance and act on it. Some guys are just real ladiesmen and can impress any woman. I hate knowing that they see her as a potential, and I hate knowing she somehow lets them see it that way.

And now, in her new job, she's been telling me about her new manager, a 31 year old guy (she's 25), handsome, successful, single, cocky. She'll be working in the same ofice as he, and she stays late regularly and she travels with him together across town. Now I really wonder about what sort of working relationship they have...

2007-08-02 08:29:25 · 14 answers · asked by Rohit 1

Is it true that you have to be married 10 years and one day to draw your husband ss.

2007-08-02 08:29:25 · 8 answers · asked by robbie D 1

When i am at work..this guy talks so badly about his wife sometimes and sometimes normal. Then he flirts terribly. But he won't leave her nor do anything to resolve the terrible situation he says he is in with her. What do you think of this?

2007-08-02 08:27:00 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

we argue about anything and everything what he has done hasn't done needs to do but doesn't do and i'm at my wits end

2007-08-02 08:13:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

So.. I have this ex. & we are now " best friends " we broke up b/c I cought her straddling another female in a car( fun stuff!) anyways.. I moved ( NC to FL ) & went t work for Disney(funner stuff) .. we didn't talk for about 4 months. then she called 1 day it was like we never stopped talking. I am back home now for 6 months. We are somewhat unseperable. She has crazy girlfriends that I get into physical fights with b/c they attact me... well b/c she chooses me over them. but I cannot figure out why we are not together. She gets crazy jealous when someone else steps into my life & threatens her rank. but she brings people in and out of her life all the time --have yet to get jealous. When we first got together she had asked me like 4 times over a period of like 2 months to be with her. finially said yes. then she ****** up & I broke it off. We didn't talk b/c she was mad at me for breaking it off. Does that mean that she care alot about me & doesn't want to get hurt again?? anyone?

2007-08-02 07:53:55 · 19 answers · asked by Mac-Down 1

its very urgent n i need to help her. the couple havent registered at the police n their lawyer says that no one will object as its not completed. should she just tell her family?

2007-08-02 07:45:47 · 10 answers · asked by Ness 1

2007-08-02 07:39:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

men...if you've been wuth a woman for four years and only a week ago you send her a text message saying you loved her so much and the next week you told her you didnt love her anymore you loved her in the beginning wat does that all mean??

2007-08-02 07:37:04 · 22 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4

my fiance knows i hate this girl, and his phone broke recently and they werent able to retrieve his old numbers. so he got his new phone yesterday and today at lunch i took it with him sitting right there watching me, and i found this girl that i hate's phone number in his phone... he said its b/c if she calls he can see its her and not answer it..... i think thats bull.... do i have a right to be mad? what should i do????

2007-08-02 07:35:49 · 15 answers · asked by bad girl 2

my bf of 4 years told me last night he found someone else and he doesnt love me anymore i just had an abortion for him 2 weeks ago how do i get over him i still love him but he wants nothing to do with me i feel soo numb how can i move on??

2007-08-02 07:34:15 · 11 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4

pleasure themselves in their sleep? I think my husband does at night, but I am not sure, and he does not remember anything in the morning...we are very open and he discusses things like that with me, so I don't think he is lying, I just don't think he realizes it. Is that common for men?

2007-08-02 07:32:29 · 31 answers · asked by Lola 2

2007-08-02 07:32:14 · 6 answers · asked by IVELINA C 1

2007-08-02 07:27:58 · 15 answers · asked by IVELINA C 1

ok- here is my situation..i am dating a married man who has been "seperated" from his wife for almost 2 years now. him and his "wife" have both moved on and are dating other people and BOTH are fully aware of the others b/f or g/f. he has bought his own house and moved out. i now live with him and his children. he keeps saying he is going to file for divorce, but i haven't seen any papers yet or anything. i have fallen in love with him and his kids and we are totally happy (except for the divorce papers) also, there is a lot of money and family business's involved in his marraige, so i can see where he is coming from on that. but is it that hard to file and start the process already? i don't know much about divorce, b/c i have never had to do it before...any advice is welcome...thank you

2007-08-02 07:26:16 · 18 answers · asked by jazzygrl3 1

my boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years, before that we were together for 4 years. I caught him cheating in february with a girl he works with she'd sent him a text message saying "I love you". He confessed. I chose to forgive and forget, he cried and told me he was sorry. in april, he left me, he didn't give a specific reason just that he was unsure about our future together. a week later he came back. I took him back and we worked on our problems. last week, he seemed a little distant I confronted him and asked him why he seemed so distant, he said it was problems at work. I asked him if he still loved me,he said yes, and that was the end of it. the next day I went to the doctor He seemed a little upset at the fact, but I thought nothing of it. On my way to the doctor's office, he called me and told me to go to my mother's house after the doctor's office because he was moving out again! It's been almost a week, and I've gotten two text messages from him. One asking if I was alright, and another saying "hold on to hope because i am not done with you love me". Yet he has not called, nor has he answered any of my calls or text messages. I feel like he might be spending time with the girl he cheated on me with (who by the way has a boyfriend). I don't know what to do in this case, or what to think. What should I think? What should I do?

2007-08-02 07:20:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

this has always puzzled me for a very long time.most boyfreinds and now my husband all do this, can anyone shed any ideas on why this is.

2007-08-02 07:20:37 · 34 answers · asked by michelle h 1

A friend told me they do and now it grosses me out to use the same shower as my husband. Please be honest.

2007-08-02 07:06:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-02 06:57:26 · 16 answers · asked by LordVader 4

2007-08-02 06:50:25 · 11 answers · asked by Afro 5

The text message said "I'm naked" and then "you better delete this before your wife sees it. I confronted my husband and he said it was someone he talked to a while back and she continues to call him. He is a tattoo artist and has tattooed her in the past...she's a stripper. (UGH!) I trust him to not cheat physically, but I am still totally bothered by this. After checking the phone bill I did see that ,indeed, he had called her as well. Since I have confronted him, I have not seena ny phone calls either to her or from her on his phone. Should I chalk it up as a mistake on his part and move on??? How do I confront him about his outgoing phone calls to her???

2007-08-02 06:40:43 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous