They were sleeping on the floor. Mind you I was up in Bed sleeping. It was 11.30am. I didn't know it was going on and I just found out about it like 5 minutes ago.....
Should I inform someone?
2007-08-02 08:46:13 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know for a fact he would never molest or do anything sexual to the kids.
2007-08-02 08:49:41 · update #1
Yeah I think it's wrong, and there are a lot of issues with the porn, but I thought that was taking it way too far. and yes he was playing with himself.
2007-08-02 08:53:44 · update #2
No offense taken to all of you that called him names. I've called him worse.... You all got thumbs up for the bashing!
2007-08-02 08:56:10 · update #3
That makes me cringe. I'd kick his **** out of my home. What a moron to do it in the same room where the children were sleeping.
Jesus, it can't be that important to him, can it?
2007-08-02 08:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by ron-D 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It sounds as though the children did not see the porn so there's no harm there. However, had they woke up and seen whatever he was looking at, there would have been some serious explaining to do on his part.
If you are not comfortable with him looking at porn at all or with the children in the room or in the house even, tell him so. Personally, I find it inappropriate that the children could have been subjected to the porn. If you feel the same way, then tell him. If you see that there was no harm no foul, then let it go.
You'll have to do what you feel is best.
Best of luck
2007-08-02 08:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by tranquilpsycho 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Bottom line, all guys pretty much look at porn once in a while, but he should not do so when your children are in the room. That's completely inappropriate. Maybe couple's counseling is in order here? Sounds like you two have some underlying issues that need to be addressed. Good luck.
2007-08-02 09:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by Andy S 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They've got these GREAT internet filters like K-9 that are completely FREE and block those websites.
Men are pigs, he was being irresponsible. Tell him if he does it again, you're going to vut off his man parts, stick them in the blender & feed them to him for breakfast because you can't risk your children being exposed to that kind of behavior.
He'll get the hint ot he'll be scarred for life, either way the problem is solved, right? No, you don't need to call someone - well, maybe a therapist.
2007-08-02 09:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is wrong. First of all, they could wake up at any moment and see it on the screen.
Secondly, don't you find it odd that he can enjoy something like that while there are kids in the room.....creeeepy!
EDIT: I just read that he was also having fun with himself. There were children present! I would throw him out....that is just way too disturbing. He is sick and I don't think you should be wasting your time on Answers. Take your kids and run.
2007-08-02 08:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany L 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Is he watching it on TV so they can see or hear it when they wake up?
Or is he looking at some porn pics on the computer with the kids on the other side of the room? Big damn difference.
2007-08-02 08:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by David B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want your children to be exposed to that. I find it sick that he would do that. If he needs to watch porn then he can do it alone when the kids are in there room asleep. I think that you need professional help to ask such a question, and I feel sorry for your children
2007-08-02 08:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm just sad that you had to add the other part about the children. It's wrong for your husband to look at porn.
It's totally sickening and depraved of him to be doing that with them in the room. It is disgusting. What the heck are you doing with a perve like this, let alone having his children?
2007-08-02 09:10:19 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Seriously...I am assuming that your children are younger than 13...so of course it's wrong to be expose to sexual images...u need to talk to your husband...ASAP!! IF he doens't listen...then u need to talk to an older adult and see what they say...if they say it is wrong....call the cops...better yet skip...plan 2...call the cops!! I don't know what the cop will do...but if they don't do anything..always make sure your kids...are not down watching tv with your husband....sleep or not!!
2007-08-02 08:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by Alisha J 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would be concerned, he could be a pedophile it's obvious he has no self-control and this is some sort of addiction, I mean even if you watch porn you wait until no ones around or watch it with you. But he couldn't even hold out until later. Watch Him!!!!!!
2007-08-02 08:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by The Mrs. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes inform him not to do this, If it was kiddie porn turn the sick mother fckr in to the police.. edit> he was playing with his self while the kids were in the room huh? that's sick and if you don't get the kids away from him your a sick fcker to.
2007-08-02 08:55:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋