first i found an earring in my husbands truck...say's it was his. he actually has been wearing this earring, but i never noticed it in her ear previously. kinda strange...long and dangly...even shinny too! today i found a pair of panties in his truck...told me they're his, he just loves how they feel. i've been watching that man like a hawk now, and he has been wearing the panties! any helpful advice here? thanks!!
2007-08-02 10:41:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you and your husband are just really weird.
If you have 13 children which I doubt you do.....maybe you need to spend some time with them instead of asking all these silly questions on yahoo.
2007-08-02 10:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
He is either trying to find a little fun in sex these days... I would suggest YOU add a few things... these things seem weird... or he is the BEST cover-upper I have ever seen!
He may not be at all gay... he might just be floundering for a little excitement. Some guys like kink and your love life might be too safe for him to enjoy. Try adding some kink and see if this does it...
It could be a fetish too... he could have fixated on something because he is bored. If this is the case... at least he didn't cheat and you can pull him back by being creatively kinky in the bedroom.
If you take 4 straight weeks and try kinky things and rock his world, I bet he would forget the panties... you can't expect his physiology to match yours... it will always be higher so manage it.
2007-08-02 10:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like a coincidence that you only noticed him wearing an earring AFTER you found it in his truck, same with the panties. It's kind of hard not to notice that kind of thing beforehand if you're married. My best guess is that he's just really careless about leaving that kind of thing in his truck if he's cheating, but is just trying his hardest to cover his tracks.
2007-08-02 10:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by Edward Cordana 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is a bad cheater - but at least he follows through with his lies, lol.
Sorry, I dont mean to laugh at your misfortune, but you know how when you catch someone at something, and they lie about it, they have to act out the lie for a while so that you will find it more believable. That's what I would think is going on...
Did the panties fit well? Cause if that's the case...it's a little weird that the girl he is cheating on you with would be the same size as him, unless he is a little on the thin side himself.
2007-08-02 10:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by Barbi 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty suspicious. Did the panties actually fit him? I think you should do some more detective work...the dangley earring story doesn't sound very convincing. You should follow him when you think he's up to no good, you need more evidence!
2007-08-02 10:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what kidn of earings did u find (ones where u need a earing hole or clipons)
he maybe neither - soemtimes people (yes, men too) just love how things feel on thier own skin
oh yeah, i just read your name - do u act the life of the party around him? he may just feel as though youre trying other men
edit: i wouldnt be sure about noticing things, im blind as a bat when it coems to details
2007-08-02 10:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My initial reaction is to think that he is cheating. Keep watching like a hawk...maybe he really is just a freak.
2007-08-02 10:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by Tom T 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He's either a cross dresser or bangin' another woman (or another cross dresser). This should be posted in the jokes & riddles section, because it is quite comical.
2007-08-02 14:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by dm 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
woman to woman... if your gut is telling you something- Listen to it! I speak from experience.... whether he is gay or cheating (I would believe the latter) isn't as much as the issue that he is hiding something which to me is the same thing as cheating. If you aren't satisfied with his answers and still feel it in your gut.... do something about it.
2007-08-02 10:48:29 · answer #9 · answered by Kishauna_P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating now he's just trying to back up his lies. Luckily for you, he is a bad lier and even worse at hiding stuff from you.
2007-08-02 10:47:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you know how to read GF? Cause the writing is on the wall. Will you stay with him if he is gay or cheating? If he is gay, ask him for tips on the perfect bj. Now you can pick up men and bring them to him.
GL
2007-08-02 10:46:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋