Married women who cheat with younger men, what signs do you give that you want to? If any?

Question

Title says it all.

Yes, it's morally wrong. But, I find older women irresistable. Problem is...most are married. I don't care though.

How do you know when a women will cheat on her husband with you without her "actually" saying it?

Answer 1

Yeah my wife did, she flirted made herself available... which really can't be blamed on him. But fortunately for him, he doesn't have to see me again. Evidently they picked him up and hauled his azz back to Wyoming to serve a jail term (kind of tells you of the type of person he is). In the least, he had severe azz kicking coming his way.
My advise to you, stop being such a D!ck Head and get a life before you get yourself killed.

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong with younger dating older. No, most are not married, just some of those you know. Why start a habit that will be hard to break. It takes courage to do the morally right thing. Then what happens if you get attached to one of them, then what?

Answer 3

Well, years ago a woman had decided to help me learn more about getting laid. She gave me assignments for practice. One assignment involved a married woman who seemed to show a bit of interest, but nothing blatant at all. Whether she was flirting with me, my mentor and I could not tell. Additionally, the married woman had complained about her husband a few times to me. So my assignment was to ask the woman to lunch just for a little visit with each other. She agreed. The rest of the assignment was to just straight out ask her "would you like to have an affair with me?" Insofar as everything else my mentor taught me, whether it was theory or practice, was right on the money so to speak, I took this assignment to be on the money too. It turned out that the married woman did not seem offended at all, but it also turned out that she in fact was not interested in the affair.

So, the truth is that if you get to know her a little, and get into a private chat with her, you can just ask it like I did.

Answer 4

It's not just ethically wrong, you're setting yourself up for endless problems. Think about it, if she's going to lie to and cheat on someone she's supposedly got a committed relationship with, she's demonstrating that she has no problem with messing over a partner, as long as she gets what she wants. She's got no reason to treat you any better, and nothing to lose if she treats you worse. There are plenty of single women out there that will appreciate the attention, and aren't nearly as likely to be playing self-centered head games on you.

Answer 5

That is totally not a good idea to have an affair with an older married woman! What happens if you get attached to this married woman? It will only hurt all involved! Trust me there are lots of unmarried older women who are very attracted to younger men - just put yourself out there and see what happens!
Good luck in whatever you do!

Answer 6

Ah. See, I thought you were a husband, not the younger man. So, I was going to say that if you've recently gained 20 pounds, that's a good clue. Instead, I guess you'll have to scope out the husband. If he's attractive and fit and in love with his wife, you have little chance. If he's knocking back the beers and staring at the nearest tv or cocktail waitress--game on. It has a lot more to do with his failings than with your charms, sorry to say.

Answer 7

I am 14 years older than my husband, and I strongly recommend age-gap relationships! And sweetheart, you do not have to settle for married women. Do you have any idea how many older (single) women out there would absolutely love to be flirted with by a hot young stud? I belong to an age-gap relationship forum where you can post an ad and even go to the chat rooms and search for older women. It's all free. It's called http://www.agelesslove.com . I say when it comes to an older woman, go for it!

Answer 8

if the chemistry is there between the both of you, you will know it and it will just happen. and if you get to talkin with her and she opens up about being married or her (or if she has any problems) that is another good sign that she will. If she talks about her husband a lot (very good things) she probably won't. if your a hottie and you give her lots of compliments and make her feel great she might. A lot of married women are comfortable, but not truly happy I think and sometimes their husbands don't compliment them anymore, so if other guys do that outside of the marriage, then they will probably wander.

Answer 9

Grow up!!! The bible says you reap what you sow. If you get involved with a married woman, watch out! There will be Hell to pay.

Answer 10

She will cheat on her husband when he degrades her and makes her feel unworthy and miserable. When the risk to a bad marriage doesnt seem to matter. However, I would be careful. if you want to play with the bog girls.