what you think , if they both love eachother, would she be able to adjust the differences of culture, language and tradition in other country to be happy with her hubby?
2007-08-04 22:45:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
SV good example thanx
2007-08-04 23:05:40 · update #1
The example of Sunil Gavasker given by one person having an Australian wife is absolutely wrong. Sunil Gavasker never married any Australian lady, it was Bishan Singh Bedi Cricketer whose first wife was Australian & I have meet both of them personally, but their marriage broke & then Bedi remarried Indian lady after his divorce from this Australian wife. Second point which this India Christian lady stated here that Indian men are boring is absolutely wrong. Its not Indian men who are boring but some Indian women who are boring as they engage is all sort of criminal cases against her husband such as dowry, cruelty, domestic violence etc in case her marriage fails for any account rather then straight away going for divorce & end the matrimonial dispute once for ever, which ladies of the other countries prefer to do rather then indulging in all sort of wrong cases against the husband & his other family members. As far language is concerned, Indians have English as one of the two official languages which won't be any problem for this Australian lady. As far culture is concerned, India is a multi-cultured society that is always a thing of interest for every one in the World & they want to know about these cultures which are being followed in India. As far traditions are concerned the Australian lady will learn when she starts living here. Now let me give you example of one Italian lady who married an Indian man & not only took Indian citizenship, but mixed in the Indian society as if she was a part of it & not only she is staying in India even after her husbands death but has become a very important person from Indian political point of view, I’m taking about Sonia Gandhi.
2007-08-05 01:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 06:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
australian girl marry indian boy live happily india
2016-02-02 04:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are couples who work out and those who don't...
i think the ones who don't work out are mostly either the husband or wife completely disrespecting the other's culture and/or the in-laws causing lots of problems.
so if an Indian man is going to marry an Australian woman, don't expect her to be the "perfect Indian wife"
as for traditions many Indian families expect their daughter-in-laws to become practically their maid if they live together--so if you expect your wife and yourself to live with your in-laws, do not expect her to be the "maid" of your family that lives in the home. She is your wife, not their maid. Hire a maid if your family expects to be served hand and foot by your wife--I know the salary is very cheap over there for housemaids.
also, if she will be living with the in-laws, do not let ONLY the bedroom be her private space. Make sure to build a room attached to the bedroom that will serve as a decent living room/tv room... and of course her own bathroom.
I am in the Middle East (but am American) and I live with my in-laws and my husband and I have our own suite... living room, bedroom, and bathroom. This way if I want privacy I don't have to sit in my bedroom all the time. I have a couch in my living room and laptop and TV etc... I am so happy to have this living arrangement as I already knew I was going to live with my in-laws and agreed to it.
You both will need to make lots and lots of compromises. You will have to have lots of patients because she will make "mistakes" when it comes to cultural things.
While she does not have to become the "perfect Indian wife", she should make the compromises to work hard to come to a medium between the two of you that can make the both of you happy. If she is going to be cooking for you, be patient as she learns to cook your traditional foods. Do not turn your nose up if she cooks Western foods. That would not be fair for you to expect Indian food everyday (unless that is what she prefers along with you).
She should make compromises in learning your language and when there are traditional holidays or whatnot, that she makes an effort to participate how you all traditionally do so... so if say, all the women are spending their time in the kitchen preparing for the holiday meals, she should be making an effort in being with the women and watching them and helping where she can.
Another thing is, when she is feeling overwhelmed, give her space. Let her have some breathers. :D
2007-08-05 00:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by Twizzle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bishan Singh Bedi Wife
2016-12-16 17:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be able to adjust and not adjust is base on individual's choices to make that change.
Any race, type and color CAN be together and can live together. True love is to change for the better, adapt for the better, work for the better and sacrifice for the better future for both.
As long as she loves you truly, I don't see why she would not want to change and adapt and even sacrifice. But be sure that you be there for her to push her, support her when she falls, as adapting to new culture is not an easy journey. It's stepping into a new line of life and to relearn everything from scratch.
Be there for her and when she grows and adapt, grow and adapt with her.
2007-08-04 22:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by The Antique Pirate 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes ofcource
2016-01-02 21:33:47 · answer #7 · answered by Innocent Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sunil Gavaskar (the great cricketer) is happily living with his Australian wife in India.
2007-08-04 22:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by sv 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
na i don't think so ... India and aus. are like two different worlds...way to different then each other and also even if she survives over there what if the people in India dint accept her
2007-08-04 22:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by )*-*sweet*-*( 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am indian. Indian men are boring. The girl will run away if she stays there for too long. Its very different.
If she and he are christians maybe but with hindus the way of life is always chants prayers in temples and traditional. I am christian but know many friends married to foreignors but settled abroad. Being here is very strangling and you feel like your choked.
The in laws get bossy and tend to act out on their thoughts. If she is christian let her be with her roots.
Hindu weddings are long and full of riots and they keep chanting and singing which makes no sense. But if she likes it so be it. The meaning is not there though.
The places are different and it depends on which city she stays in. The cities are alright but each city has its ups and downs. Bombay and Calcutta are like gutters. Delhi and Bangalore are better. Madras also pretty posh.
Just make sure she is with a nice guy. There are so many things involved. Just see that she doesnt make a mistake.
2007-08-04 22:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 5⤋