how often should a married couple sleep with eachother?

Answer 1

Depends on the couple and what they are comfortable with.
Sometimes sickness, fatigue, stress plays a role in the frequency of it. However, if it seems to be getting too routine or almost nil, then you need to talk and work on making it better.

Answer 2

There are no rules to how often married couples sleep together. Some people claim its every day, some a few times a week, some a few times a year!! The most important thing to do is not "compare" your love life with someone elses.

The fact is, when your married, living together, having children, and working hard to make ends meet, sex naturally slows down, or occasionally goes off the boil.

Answer 3

That is sort of an odd question. They should sleep together every night. If your question is how often should they have sex together that will depend on the couple. Being married is all about compromise. So you will have to see what your sex life is going to be by judging how often each of the people in the couple would like to have sex and work it out between them.

Answer 4

Married couples vary from couple to couple in all aspects of the relationship. As far as sex goes I think most people have sex with their mates on average 3 times a week. However, as the woman goes through menopause or one or both is taking certain medications sex can dwindle to a mere once or twice a month. My advice is to keep your mate happy. Make love when it's all good and your both in the mood, have a quickie if your spouse needs a little extra attention but mostly make sure you communicate your needs to your partner and your partner does the same for you.

Answer 5

That depends on the couple, jobs, wake up times, personal habits. It can be every night. Just depends. If a person is a loud snorer, then that could affect things. If one of the two has to get up real early, that can affect it. Maybe the bed gets too warm for either person.

Some folks sleep better apart.

Answer 6

It shouldnt matter wht other ppl say it should only matter how much u 2 are comfortable with!! If u want ppl to say never or every nite so u can follow their orders go ahead but i encourage u 2 let u and ur spouse just go with the flow and do what feels right! Tht is if ur talking bout sex! If ur talking about sleeping in the same bed i would say every night!!


Hope this helps,
kristen

Answer 7

well it depends on how long your married for. in the begining of a marriage thats all you do is have sex,like 2-4 times a week . then after 5 years or more it goes down to 2-4 times a month. then have kids and forget about it!!!!

Answer 8

There are no "shoulds" in marriage, as if there are universal formulas that work for all marriages. That's silly. A married couple should sleep together as often as what works best for them.

Answer 9

Ok sleep or sex????

Sleep every night possible. In the military you get stuck way so much that it hurts not being with them.

Sex- as much as possible, but once you have kids things have to slow down. Kids literally take all your time and it apparently doesn't end till they leave home way into the future.

Old Guy- Two HS kids

Answer 10

Depends how often you like it and how much work you have done. If you both work long hours and have 3 kids then twice a week would be great. If your less pushed for time three or four times a week is good, but thats just my opinion.