2007-08-07 04:26:49 · 18 answers · asked by bella-d46 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You know sometimes we look at ourselves and say you know i bet are lady would like to see us dressed up and looking good,instead of the i dont care what i look like syndrom. Could also be Mid Life Crisis if he is close to the age. I go thru phases like that some what even though i not into grunge look,but there is times where all i wear to work is slacks and nice shirt ect otherwise its jeans and nice shirt. there something to slacks polo and nice shoes unholie underwear and socks that match.. Sometimes its good if another women comits to help boost are selfesteem it can make us think of how we want to impress our women. If you are truly doing the things a spouse is suposed to love doing with there hubby-i doudt you have anything to worry about. If you have been like left wing femnist women surge you should worry...
2007-08-07 04:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by keithleyjustin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The automatic assumption that he must be fooling around isn't valid. It'd be bad to just immediately go there without some more proof.
There are any number of possibilities.
It's very possible that you or a coworker said something about how he looks and he's just trying to fix it. You'd do the same if someone said something to you like "you'd look so good if you wore...."
It's also possible that he saw you look at someone or you made a comment about some guy on TV (like "damn he looks good") and now he's trying to compete for your attention.
Tell him you've noticed. You'd want that if you were trying to look hot for him.
2007-08-07 11:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by CoachT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is taking some pride in his appearance and wants to look good for you. However, if you are noticing other changes, such as longer hours at work, excuses for missing engagements with you, hang up phone calls, he may be having an affair.
2007-08-07 11:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Could be a number of reasons....might be trying to impress you. Might be fooling around. Might want a new job promotion. Maybe you said something one day about how he looks.....guys can be sensitive too. Just ask him.
2007-08-07 11:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by Magic Man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I hit my early 30's I did the same thing, we start thinking of the way we use to look and feel, and get motivated to get back in the shape.
2007-08-07 11:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by the_wayward1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Maybe he just wants to feel better about himself. Why do insecure people always think there is something nefarious going on when their partner seeks self improvement?
2007-08-07 12:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by jstgrace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is trying to impress you. Take notice and tell him how nice he looks. Good Luck!!
2007-08-07 11:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Compliment him, go out together, have sex, if he's willing to do these things with you and he's not singing while combing his hair, it might be o.k. Just observe, don't jump to any conclusions, (yet).
2007-08-07 11:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by sorri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u already know that little stinging sensation that u get that wierd feeling in ur stomach when hes dressed up and walks out that door u already know its out GUT instinct. watch him keep ur guards up.its coming
2007-08-07 11:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by sean a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to impress someone, either it's you or it's someone else. You'd better figure it out!
2007-08-07 12:45:35 · answer #10 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋