couple put some question similar to this. Its been few me and gf broken up. Since than i ususally feel very sad, cant help it not to loss tears you know its very hard broken up. Sometimes i sit in my room alone and listen love song it turns me to crazy feel going killing her.Im not serious killing just phase as I cant taken it anymore......really affects me to get on another stuff. what can i do. I know i have ignored her couple when she asked me go out with her dad, friends and last week she said come to my university offer u lunch but i do not go for some reason.
2007-08-07 03:12:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i mean its been few months we broken up
2007-08-07 03:15:27 · update #1
It sounds like you are depressed. I would seek professional help/ It's okay to be sad sometimes and to listen to songs that remind you of the person but to feel like you want to physically harm them is not normal. I wish you the best of luck!
2007-08-07 03:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, do not commit murder, no one is worth sitting in jail for life. You guys broke up, and your ex-girlfriend is trying to still be friends with you, but by the looks of things, it's not working out for you. She needs to leave you alone for a while, and she obviously does not know how you truly feel about the situation. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her regarding the state you are in. What is for certain is that you will get over this, and a few months is not long enough. Make a clean brake, tell her never to call you again, so you can focus on moving on with your life.
2007-08-07 10:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds trust me, a few months is not very long to get over someone at all , it could very well take a year or two but slowly the effect and the feelings you are having will dissapear and one day out of the blue you will think "gosh i haven't even thought about her in forever" Trust me you will get over this, i promise nothing is worth sitting in a prison cell for the rest of your life. you will regret it if you do anything dumb
2007-08-07 10:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to worry about your education and learning proper English and not worrying about some girlfriend. Your explanation is deplorable and difficult to read, making me think, the reason she isn't around any more is because of the communication barrier.
2007-08-07 10:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to accept that you can't control other people, only yourself and your actions.
Fantasies of killing are about wanting to control somebody, and they are unhealthy mentally.
You also need a life outside of this dwelling and grieving. Get out and do things, and stop moping around.
2007-08-07 10:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her for a while and date other girls. Don't look at it as a bad thing. Think of it as new found freedom. Do things that you couldn't do before. Chill out with your friends, etc......
2007-08-07 10:17:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is it worth if you do you still won't have her or your self what i did when my ex left me and moved in with his partner the same day trust me it's hard but i placed myself with people who love me no matter how good or bad things are just trust that all of what your feeling will pass
2007-08-07 10:47:17 · answer #7 · answered by love to be loved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop the pity party here and move on.
2007-08-07 10:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by kim t 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋