Marriage & Divorce - 7 August 2007

2007-08-07 14:46:34 · 15 answers · asked by chris o 1

I work at a shoe store, and an older man (in his 50s) came in the store with a young woman who had to be in her early twenties. I thought they were father and daughter until the girl said her husband's birthday was coming up and she wanted my help with picking out some shoes. Then she gestured towards the older man and said that he was her husband.

I personally see nothing wrong with an older man dating a younger woman, and I'm sure they get a hard time from the public wherever they go, but I just want to know everyones opinion. What does everyone think about this?

2007-08-07 14:43:40 · 41 answers · asked by Kat 5

2007-08-07 14:21:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-07 14:20:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out a couple of days ago that my husband has been telling women he works with intimate details of our marriage specifically about me. I've never met these women but he's telling them everything I tell him in confidence. I feel embarraced and humiliated. I've asked him to stop but he becomes angry and doesn't see that it's a problem. I don't want to tell him anything anymore because I'm scared he'll tell them.

What should I do?

2007-08-07 14:18:55 · 19 answers · asked by rhaevyn 2

2007-08-07 13:42:37 · 39 answers · asked by physco 3

2007-08-07 13:40:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

the other day me and my friend went out to a bar.i dont go out much at all. anyways i went out and got trashed however my friend did to. she said she couldnt drive so i called a taxi. while we were in the parking lot she asked a guy for a lighter. she is married to just like me. anyways this guy happen to work with our husbands and she asked him and his girlfriend and his other friend to take us home. they said ok. when we got there she invited them in . however i was agianst this i wanted to walk home. she took my keys and told me they would be leaving. i have a husband who is very jealous and i knew the minute they took us home i would be in for some yelling. anyways i told my husband everything . however he doesnt believe me and thinks i screwed with one of the guys. i would never do that. i know i was in the wrong place and the wrong time i wished i had never went out. my husband forgives me one min and then is yelling at me about it the next. is my marriage dommed?

2007-08-07 13:32:08 · 19 answers · asked by pualla walla 1

I don't understand what i ever did to him to deserve this.

http://shouldidivorcehim.com/blogs/Miss-Ogany.aspx

2007-08-07 13:28:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-07 13:27:47 · 9 answers · asked by curlyannf 1

2007-08-07 13:27:46 · 12 answers · asked by Sunset 7

my partner got offered a really good new job, it means we will have to move. we are both all for it as it is the best for our family.
Although when they rung him he panicked and forgot to ask appropriate questions, the job hasn't been taken. My partner is still on night shift, not home for another week, should i ring now and ask questions as i am pregnant ans cant fly much longer, or should i wait til my partner gets home.
is a week too long to leave it??

2007-08-07 13:21:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-boyfriend agreed to pay $400 per month in child support five years ago. He paid that every month for three years, then told me that he came upon hard times and asked if I could go with accepting $200 per month until he got more on his feet. For the past two years he's paid the support on time, but he's gotten a better job where he makes $35,000 per year. His wife also brings in about $30,000 per year. We have no court orders for child support. Now he's decided to work and go back to school. Should I get a court order for support so that he won't stop paying it or so he won't reduce it again? Would he be asked to pay more? What's the normal amount a person receives in child support per child?

2007-08-07 13:21:06 · 18 answers · asked by Amanda M 5

A friend of mine has separated from her husband who lives nearby. For the past year he takes their 3 children on a sunday for 5-6 hours. Wanting to move on she is going to mediation. In mediation however, he is asking to have the children 3 1/2 days out of the week. Is this reasonable? My friend is concerned that the children will not end up having a stable relation. She does not mind the husband having the children for 3 days - but only days rather than sleeping there as well, as her husband (a taxi driver) is currently living in a flat above a shop where other guys also stay on and off. In addition he is appealing a decision by the CSA of paying 30 per week child maintenance, claiming that out of the £150 per week he makes he only has £11 per week left after expenses. My friend knows he is lying but cannot prove his income. Do you think he will get the children for 3 1/2 days including nights?

2007-08-07 13:15:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I split with my 'wife' down in California back in November of 2006.
She had pretty much said i have to take care of our child (a 4 year old girl) because she couldn't provide for her until she got her life together. (she was out partying and sleeping around). On 12/20/06 I moved back up to Montana where I have family and people who can help with the care of my daughter. I've been here 7 months now and my daughter and i are legal residents of Montana and I am working on a suitable parenting plan. Now my 'ex' got a new boyfriend and is living in his place and decided she wants her kid back. So now she said she can send someone up here and take her away from me because i don't have anything in writing from her that said i can take her kid out of state. It wasn't kidnapping! She abandoned her family and left me with no child care and 1/2 the income we needed to live. thats why i moved out of state so my daughter would have a stable life. Can she get away with this or is it against the law?

2007-08-07 13:05:37 · 12 answers · asked by zwickjd 1

Sexual thoughts can be triggered by environmental factors (women wearing immodest clothing, suggestive stories etc.) What do you do to be faithful to your spouse and keep unwanted sexual thoughts out of your mind.

2007-08-07 13:05:20 · 17 answers · asked by wakefullife 2

My husbands friends all sit on one side of the scale or the other. Some say a woman has to be a size10 or less to even be considered for dating/marriage and some say the dont care what size she is.

Does weight/size really matter to you????

2007-08-07 13:04:26 · 16 answers · asked by rhaevyn 2

i been married 15 yrs and my husband lies about everything.im wondering if he is lying about loving me. i took vows and really love him. i do everything for him. he supports me financially but thats it. i know he isn't cheating, but this constant lying is getting to me. i have spoken to him a million times about it and he tells me he will stop but hasn't. what do i do? im so naive i thought he would really stop. what kind of love and trust is this? will he ever stop. i was believing everything he said and then i catch him in the lie. should i send him to a pych dr, or what? please help as im so depressed and constantly crying.

2007-08-07 12:53:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-07 12:49:20 · 21 answers · asked by ilih2006 1

my husband and i are getting a divorce, he lied to me in the beggining and told me he talked to a lawyer and he filed for divorce, i move out and two weeks ago he tells me that he lied he did not file for divorce. we are still getting one but my husbnad still has not filed for divorce yet! what is taking him so long? we live in seperate homes now and my husband is still treating me like his wife. he is still taking care of me and giving me money, he has not lacked in taking care of me. i refused to move make in with him because of the lie about divorce. i want him to pay for it so i want him to file first. i already have a lawyer and iam to c him on thursday. why is my husband taking so long to file for divorce? every time i ask him about it he says iam filling next week, next week comes no paper, the next week and the next week and he still has not filled! he says he tired of everything and he is moving to florida but he has not left yet! what is wrong with the idiot?!

2007-08-07 12:44:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i married my bf this march we have been together for 5 years. my mom doesnt like him bc he isnt working at the moment bc of a serious back injury. after we got married she decided to call him and tell him he shouldnt have married me and that he stole me from her and my dad and that he is useless and lying about his injury. i havent talked to my mother since its been almost 2 months. my dad always says my mom crys all the time bc she misses me but she refuses to apologize. i feel so betryaed they didnt even get us a wedding gift i mean how am i supposed to feel? what should i do?

2007-08-07 12:42:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-07 12:21:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently was crushed by the man I loved for many years. He out of blue tells me hes gay. this is only after 7 years and three kids later, the crush was when he said he has been sleeping with other men for the last 9 years. Tell me, how could a person do this to another person?

2007-08-07 12:17:48 · 5 answers · asked by pamperedhappy 1

How do you define it. where is the line drawn? I recently got into a debate about hand-jobs with a friend of mine she said that it was not cheating I say it is. I thought why not put this question out there and see what I get back, so....

What do you define as the line when you cross over into infidelity?

2007-08-07 11:53:10 · 22 answers · asked by cisco_cantu 6

2007-08-07 11:52:24 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-07 11:40:18 · 16 answers · asked by Sammy 1

Honest answers please!

2007-08-07 11:34:02 · 34 answers · asked by Dave H 1

What could the attorney do for him?he still has to pay

2007-08-07 11:31:30 · 10 answers · asked by michelle 5

Both my husband and I have good paying jobs. I had a major depression with pshcotic features in Dec 06 and was hospitalized. I have been recovering ever since. I have been working and I am looking to make 35-40K this year. I made 65-70K before I got sick. My husband is on me, telling me I need to work more. But that is what caused me to stress out in the first place. I am trying my best but how do I handle this? Am I being fair?

2007-08-07 11:25:45 · 19 answers · asked by girly girl 2

2007-08-07 11:24:56 · 13 answers · asked by gregdean 1