If a man is passive, meaning he doesn't chase you, i.e. he goes along with things you plan and asks you to go places also and you go together, but he doesn't chase you and you end up doing at least half the work and may be even more-- does he love you or is he just friendly? What if you were married to him, would it get on your nerves if he didn't have the initiative to plan couple-things or he wasn't romantic?
If he were honest, positive, financially secure, healthy, nice person and you two got along, will you marry him if he proposed? Is it worth not having that fire, that passion-- is it worth not being chased and not knowing if he HAS TO have you and be with you or he was just ok with being with you? would you date him? Marry him?
If you did marry to someone like him, what happened next?
Gentlemen -- what do you think?
2007-08-07 05:48:53 · 10 answers · asked by supergirl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do not sell your self short. If you are a passionate person hold out for it. Some men and women don't need active love or sex to feel complete, they are like a satisfied dog by your feet.
Find a man that makes you want to climb the walls and do things you never thought possible, make life full.
Of course if you are a fat plain gal, be glad you got someone and shut up.
2007-08-07 05:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by btceng64 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. He would have to feel the same attraction I'd have for him. It takes two and if he didn't chase me, I find someone else who will.
This is just a taste of what you will be going through after you are married. If you see the red flags now, take it as a sign and move on.
2007-08-15 00:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you still are living in a dream world of being "in love".
"In love" is only seeing what you want to see. See only the good in a person dreaming of a perfect life together.
"Loving" is more like a warm blanket. Its total acceptance of another person (good&bad). Its truly knowing them and still accepting them. Its the comfort to be yourself and still be accepted.
The chase doesn't last forever.
2007-08-07 15:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I'm going to be 18 soon n Ive been with my boyfriend since i was 16. his 12 years older than n he have a son age 6. during the past we used to had little problems usually cause i was jealous but now we get along so fine n he treats me like princess. if he proposed bout marriage with me, definitely i will agree. since we've been together my mother never accepted him because of his skin color but Ive always defend him n i guess now my mother have realize how we truly love each other n she no more bothers about our relationship. i think it takes time for a relationship to grow n you should never give up just because of misunderstandings
2007-08-09 10:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The choice is up to you and no one else can answer it for you. Love is nothing like Disney movies Pro tray. You will search until you are old and gray for that handsome prince, with all the features you are longing for! No one is perfect!!! If you love someone, let them know, or let them go. It is that simple. You have to decide for yourself
2007-08-15 06:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by spawanee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are either quite young or very immature and not looking at the big picture. A guy will be more romantic with the right woman. Maybe you aren't the right woman.
2007-08-07 12:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Opposites attract. I say go for it. At least date him and see where it goes.
2007-08-13 18:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just described my husband, i love him very much and he is who he is i would not change him for the world, yes he drives me crazy sometimes but i'm sure i drive him just as crazy
thats what love is you take the good with the bad becuase the good is so great you don't see the bad
2007-08-07 12:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by kittypurrrrrrr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it deoends, if he is this with all other girls or just you. ANd you need to knwo what you truly want...and if he can't give that to you, maybe things just aren't meant to be anything more
2007-08-07 12:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by zhouyu30002000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH????
2007-08-07 12:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by JayJ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋