Is it normal for a woman not to shower on a daily basis? Is it normal for a wife to buy intimate under garments and not show them or wear them around husband?
2007-08-07 08:00:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its normal for people to not shower daily, but usually at least every other day. Personally I think that a shower should be taken everyday though. And no its not normal for her to buy intimate clothing and then keep them from her husband thats not cool.
2007-08-07 08:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by freakishleah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if she bought intimate undergarments and she doesn't wear them around you, does she even wear them at all? and if not, what is the point in blowing money of frivolous items you have no intention of using?? if she does wear them, have her explain to me why she would buy intimate apparel and not show you. I, personally, see no point in buying lingerie just so I can be the only one to look at it. a cheap bra and multipack of panties from WalMart would fit that bill! I think you need to have a talk with her and ask any questions you feel like you need to be asking, cause I think I'm probably thinking along the same lines you are, and I don't even know your wife. as for the shower, missing one on occasion is one thing, like if you're chasing kids all day and pass out on the couch or fall asleep with the kids getting them to bed. but to miss one frequently is not normal.
2007-08-07 15:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by flgalinms 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh goodness ... nooo definately not ok for a woman to not shower on a daily basis ... she needs to do this ... i'll shower knowing that im going to go work out in the garden immediately and work up a sweat but i can shower again after ...
intimate underwear issue!!! ... hmmm who would want to see her in the intimate underwear anyway if she didnt shower ... ughhhhh ... doesnt sound nice ...
whoever the question is about ... someone needs to be having serious talks with her! ... for her own benefit really aswell as everyone elses! ...
she sounds like she might be one of those women you stand behind in the supermarket que, unaware that everyone behind her is making screwed up faces and pinching there noses so they dont have to smell the smell!!
good luck with this!
2007-08-07 15:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by Rєвє¢¢α 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's buying "intimates" and you don't see them - then someone else probably is.
Also - she is likely not showerring in FRONT of you because she has something to hide (i.e. a hickey that's not from you).
She's showerring daily - I don't know of a woman ALIVE that would go muplitple days without, unless they can't (out camping / in military field exercise / etc).
I'd be extremely suspicious. Trust your gut.
2007-08-07 15:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by aa889d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't she buy the under garments for her husband? And most women do shower daily. That's just gross.
2007-08-07 15:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by LaLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some don't shower everyday. The undergarments do not have to be shown to or worn for the husband. She can do with them as She wishes. They may make Her feel very nice. Buy Her some. Encourage Her to wear them when She wants, not for you! Ask Her or beg Her to wear them.
2007-08-07 17:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by sAm cbt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if I had to guess at what's going on I'd say she's depressed. Depressed people can have a hard time even getting up and brushing their hair at times. Maybe the undergarments are because she wants to be attractive for you but then she doesn't have the self esteem to think you would actually want to see her in them. I have personally bought undergarments that I never wore because I worried about how I would look to him.
2007-08-07 15:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, my wife cheats .
So think of this she wears the new stuff for the other person and when the are through she showers there
Mister, I am really sorry. I wish I did not think that, but I do
2007-08-07 15:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by yumboy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have you asked her why she doesn't wear the undergarments? there's got to be a reason. maybe she thinks you won't like them. as for the showering thing let her know that she needs to be clean. thats just good hygiene.
2007-08-07 15:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by towmater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i disagree with some of the answers. she can very well still be cheating. maybe you're not seeing her shower because she's showering at someone else's house right before she comes home. makes sense?
2007-08-07 15:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋