Do You Trust Your Partner?

Question

I fully trust my wife now but didn't for a while, she was going out most nights drinking while I was overseas. My fears were unfounded, mutual friends told me she was only out with friends. Has anyone else not trusted their partner but found out they had nothing to worry about?

We now have a much stonger relationship because of this.

Answer 1

Yes i did... thankfully, i've learned that thinking that way only causes problem to occur that would have never been if i hadn't been so paranoid. Luckily, my boyfriend stuck with me through it all and I'm so happy he did. We've been together 6 1/2 years now and i couldn't be happier...

Answer 2

The basic theme before an spouse is the trust and only trust if by any reason it breaks the whole concept of a 'life partner' goes destroyed. So it is an obligatory and mandatory duty for both the partner to without any suspicion otherwise the relationship will go off. The trust spirals whole day and night and every single minute opens room for you to improve and save your relationship, a little blow on 'trust and believe' takes you to the brink of separation so don't do this. If there is any misunderstanding try to resolve it, listen others, bear each other to listen justification and arrive at conclusion. In this dynamic world where there is a define rule of living, a clear concept of life and partner responsibility on both sides are very distinctive so there should not be any misconception or mis understanding. Don't attract toward rumors, see the things in its real perspective & essence & then take decision for your live partner. Decision in haste will spoil you and whole the life there wil be a repentance so better to maintain a meaningful life with prestigious

Answer 3

I have a very difficult time with this, trust is an issue I have been dealing with for a while. I was hurt in the past and it certainly tainted me with respect to new relationships. I never had a reason not to trust my current partner, yet I was always wary of infidelity and betrayal.
Unfortunately for someone like me, my partner ingnored his better judgement one night and was unfaithful- which only further pushed me into distrust, suspicion, and jealousy.
After much contemplation and reflection, I decided to take the path of forgiveness for a change and have been trying to work through, it is a difficult path but I hope (as you have indicated) that it will make my relationship stronger.

Answer 4

Did you ever think that she needed a drink and she needed to be out with her friends because it was too hard being home alone by herself and missing the hell out of you? After awhile you probably did. Eventually we all grow up and learn how to trust. Well, some of us don't but most do.

And yes...I trust my partner, he's going to be hooked up to a feeding tube for the next 6 months so no, I don't think anyone is going to pick him up. LOL Nah, he's a good guy and I trust him!

Answer 5

I trusted my wife but was worried a while back, well actually it was that 7th year of marriage. She admitted she thought this guy she worked with was good looking. We even became friends with him and his gf. I had thought that something was going on, but she said there wasn't. Well, his gf found a card my wife had written to him and read it to me. It confirmed my worries. When I talked to her about it, she came clean and confessed. We worked through it and are still together, 23 years! I do fully trust her now

Answer 6

Yes I have doubted my guy. We plan to be married in Sept. I doubted him because I have been hurt really bad in my previous marriage. Although my fears are unfounded, a little reassurance never hurts. Trust is a process, it can take a whlile to fully trust someone.

Good luck and hope you have a very happy marriage.

Answer 7

Well since you just answered my question about marriage and my crappy apartment, I'll take a stab at yours; there was a point, and I was engaged when I didn't trust my now husband because he used to tell me things that weren't true just to piss me off and get a reaction out of me; why I don't know. He finally stopped antogonizing me and now we're fine but you're situation must have been gut wrenching knowing the person you love is away and out drinking, that sucks; I'm glad things are better for you two now.

Answer 8

My boyfriend of two years got insecure about the fact that I had a good guy friend, that he was friends with also because his friends were putting stuff into his head that I was being unfaithful, by saying what else would she be doing with another guy? And it made him not trust me and he thought I cheated on him, but we talked it out and he understands that I would never do anything to hurt him, and I find that guys are easier to talk to so I have more guy friends, but we made a rule that we are not allowed to be alone with the opposite sex, unless same sex friends are with us. He knows I didn't do anything, but because everyone else made him worry it made him doubt my loyalty, those feeling are something that happens to everyone at one point or another.

And we also have a stronger ralationship now.

Answer 9

It was prolly really hard for her to sit at home alone at night w/ you not there all those nights.
I do trust my husband. He's also really sweet about being non-secretive or evasive about things, b/c I am a little nosey. It's just me...I'm working on it, but he helps a lot by having nothing to hide.

Answer 10

yeah, a lot of the time when my boyfriend goes out (like he's been doing lately but he eased up), he's always with the guys so i get a little paranoid and think he might be hitting on girls with his friends, getting drunk and doing stupid things. but in the end, nothing has happend. i hope.

it's good that you fully trust your wife. =] but we all need time with our friends and such.