I met this very attractive married blond woman. who doesnt mind cheating on her husband.im married to a beautiful woman who I do love but i want to sleep with this other one. should I do it or stay away from the situation?
2007-08-07 05:51:37 · 34 answers · asked by Jason C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You would pass up love, for lust?
There are deeper issues that you need to work out. The thing is, once you sleep with this woman, you will regret it. and then you will be torn, because you love your wife and you'll lose her. Trust me you will.
I dont think you should even talk to this woman... she has no regard for her husband, but that doesnt mean you get to have no regard for your wife and her feelings. You need to really think this one through and talk to your wife. Something is missing that you're wanting, or willing to throw away your relationship for sex... hell you could possibly be throwing away the best thing to ever happen to you for a night of TERRIBLE sex... just because she is pretty, doesnt mean a thing. Nothing is worth sacrificing your marriage, and your wife's feelings.
2007-08-07 05:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a little word but it means everything in a relationship. What you are wanting is so superficial. Look at the words you use for this other woman, attractive, blond, and sex (sleep with). You use Love for your wife. Don't blow it. It's not worth everything. My Husband did this and now there is no happy family, no house, the kids were cheated out of a lot (now and for the years to come) The other woman moved on to her third husband (not my Ex) and had another kid with in a year. My Ex and I are now single parents that have nothing and will have to work hard in this day and age for the rest of our lives. Trust is more important than Love. Don't throw it away because you can never get it back. Not even by the most forgiving woman.
2007-08-07 06:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by Margaret 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"im married to a beautiful woman who I do love"
Above quote taken from your question believe it or not?? Thing is you have a "but" directly after it. With true love there is not ...but?? In all honesty I feel horrible for your poor wife she probably has no clue of what an insensitive bastard you really are. How could you possibly consider cheating on a women you so called LOVE?? Really think about what your proposing to do here. For once stop being so selfish and stop thinking with your little friend between your legs. You are going to hurt your wife, and this so-called attractive married blonde's poor husband. If you want to cheat then face it you are not in love with your wife so be a "man" and tell her you don't love her don't be a coward and go behind her back. Either way your a jerk but by telling her she can at least be the first to know your an a s s....
I hate cheaters and believe they are the most selfish insensative scum of the earth.....
PS Never been cheated on so no I am not bitter~ I just know what I believe in
2007-08-07 06:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you really need strangers to answer this question. You're an adult (I hope...); you do the math. You know what is expected of you when you fall in love and get married. You know the consequences of infidelity. You don't need anyone's permission to be an out and out jerk and cheat on a "beautiful woman who you love". I guess you're just looking for a little validation for your wandering dingaling. Well, you might get it here. You might not. But in the end, you know what a sorry SOB you'd be if you did the do with some woman other than your wife. .
2007-08-07 06:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by dangerouspoet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say that you love your wife, why in the world do you want to cheat on her? Something isnt right dont you think?.......How would you feel about your wife doing the same thing to you? If yuo cheat on her you will feel very guilty about it, and nothing stays buried forever, the truth will come out sooner or later. Stay away from that other woman, you have your own, isnt that why you got married? You get all the sex you want and need from your woman/your wife.
2007-08-07 06:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by Juliet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love with the woman your married to if you want to sleep with another woman.
If you really care about the woman you married then file for divorce. You can save her from having a miserable life with you, because she should be married to a real man that knows how to love and respect his woman.
If you get a divorce then you can sleep with any blond bimbo and that's obviously the goal your looking to achieve in your life. Good job idiot.
2007-08-07 06:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it if for no other reason to remember it when your wife stops giving it to you. That time will definitely com. Are you capable of cheating and not feeling guilty. That takes allot of practice? Are you capable of not falling in love with the other 100%? I she? Is there aposibility that your wife is setting you up? It all depends how strong mentaly you are and if you are capable of hyding if without your wife finding a hear, her sent etc. Will you be able to make quick recovery without blushing when your wife asks a pint blank question as she will they all do. I am an expert at it and still learning more all the time.
2007-08-07 06:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know that you have to stay away from the situation. I have been in a relationship for about 4 years and I do not want to get married for that very reason. I am not sure if I am ready to commit myself to him forever.
2007-08-07 06:01:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you value your marriage stay away from this other woman. If you sleep with her you will lose your wife and this woman will move on to cheat with someone else. Sleep with your wife instead of this cheating woman.
2007-08-07 06:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Yeah you have to be a moron to sleep with that other woman, seriously.*
.If you are that inclined to ruin your entire marriage and everything you have/had with your wife...over one lust filled moment with this blonde woman, then you just need to save yourself and wife the trouble and go file for divorce. I mean if you can't contain yourself or your hormones...then do your wife a favor and leave the marriage.
.Oh and if that other woman who is married is willing to cheat on her husband, that just goes to show you how much of a skank she really is.
.Sick.
.Stick with your wife, because if she finds out that you've been messing around on her...she's going to beat your a** and then leave you.
.So don't be like all those other sorry bastards who go out and cheat just for some cheap thrill...and then wind up ruining your life and your marriage. It's not worth it.
.That blonde woman isn't going to be there for you when you need her like your wife will. Think about it.
**Do what you will.....but what goes around comes around.**
2007-08-07 06:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋