Marriage & Divorce - 9 July 2007

I have been unhappy for a while. Now we have a baby who I adore, but I am not happy and my wife is unhappy about my unhappiness. It is effecting the baby's sleep patterns. SHould I go? How long should I stay? Most divorces occur within the first year after the birth of the first child.

2007-07-09 23:37:55 · 26 answers · asked by Mandy 1

I have come across a lot of working mums who must work 2 or 3 jobs, attend school (High, College or University) and look after children. Are the wages really that low in the States?

I'm not from the States, but our minimum wage is $12.00p/hr and I thought that was low.

2007-07-09 21:44:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a man is married (prenuptial free) to a woman who's father dies and he leaves his daughter a considerable amount of money, and they get a divorce, will the husband be entitled to half the money? This question is hypothetical.
A second situation: what if the wife's father died BEFORE she was married? Does this change how the money will be dealt in case of divorce?

2007-07-09 21:40:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi All. I am wondering if you think this is reasonable, or not. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and he says that he wants to be with me forever, but will not legally marry me because he is afraid that since I am on Med-ical (and SSI), that if he dies, someday (before I die), that the state will possess his house and property instead of it going to family. He has put a lot of money and hard, long hours of work into building his house, so is this a reasonable concern of his as to why we should not get married? It especially bothers me because I am a Christian and feel that marriage is a commandment, as oppossed to just living together. Thank you, everyone.

2007-07-09 21:12:48 · 9 answers · asked by Monic 2

Has anyone ever thought the grass is greener, then jumped and realised it wasn't? Or was it?

2007-07-09 21:08:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-09 21:03:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met my dearly boyfriend this June, we really hit it off and both wished a happy ending. However, he just filed a no-fault divorce and is sorting things out.
is that one year I have to wait till to marry him?
Can we engage within this one year?

2007-07-09 20:59:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was with my ex for 5 years, my partner i'm with now, i have been with for 2 years we have a baby together and are engaged but i still love ny ex and cant stop thinking about him sometimes i hope i could be back with him but then on the other hand i love my partner i'm with

2007-07-09 20:43:49 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had some issues in the past where I was emotionally abused by my bf. I got past that and dated a while but nothing worked out. I decided to stick to my morals, love me, go to college and do something with my life with no drama, no man. I did get my degree and have my own place and feel ready to start over. That said, I'm nearly 24, still a virgin, and have very little experience relationship wise than that of most people my age due to some setbacks. I feel over the abuse part, but I am not very confident with being physically active with a man (not just sex), not because I don't want to, but because I haven't done it very much, and at my age I will be expected to have. I feel like a 14 year old that wants to know how to kiss, how to make out, etc.. I've met this wonderful man that has been divorced and I don't want himto run on me because of this, any advice?

2007-07-09 20:11:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really dont understand why couples do these things it doesnt make sense to me why they want their marriage to be like this..My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and neither 1 of us would ever wanna be with another man/woman..It seems so wrong to me and doesnt seem like a real marriage....Are their husbands/wives not enough for them,dont they worry about catching an std from somebody,dont they worry about their husband/wife leaving them for another person..I think when your married making love should be just between a husband and wife and not other people..Doesnt seem like their totally committed to their marriage and each other...Does anybody agree with this.

2007-07-09 19:56:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-09 19:33:34 · 25 answers · asked by 6th Finger 2

..even those who were never my boyfriend. I have always kept in contact (mostly through email, occasional phone calls) with male friends and ex's throughout my life. I have some wonderful male friends that I have totally shut out of my life because of my husbands jealousy issues. Most of these people dont even live in the same state! I finally agreed to do this, however, as I guessed, this did not solve the jealousy issue. I asked him the other day to see what he said, that if I signed up for a class and the instructor was a guy could I go? He said no. We have only been married for a little over a year, been togeter for two. This has been an issue basically the whole time. Now I don't have any social life, he accuses my girlfriends (and they arent even single) of wanting to go out and look for guys. I have not ever spent any time with another male since I have met him. Have not given him a reason to suspect that I would cheat or anything. Do you throw away your friends? Is that healthy

2007-07-09 19:22:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

oh im married to my hubby but i love another man....

I WOULD BE CRUSHED if my wife was even CONSIDERING another man!!! I'D NEVER CONSIDER ANOTHER WOMEN!!?!?

scares me...these questions...

2007-07-09 19:19:19 · 14 answers · asked by varsfootball44 1

What is an appropriate punishment for a 16 yr. old for sneaking out of the house in the middle of the night and lying. Is grounding for 1 month ( no cell, no puter, no friend activities) too much?

2007-07-09 19:17:47 · 20 answers · asked by undone 4

My husband's being a jerk. He keeps taking off and we have a 3 yr old together. We just moved, he lost his 23 year old brother. I know he's stressed, but he has a family to think about. I know he's under a lot of stress, but I don't think it's fair to our daughter that he keeps leaving and coming back. I know he's not cheating on me. He just stays at his aunt's house and drinks. I am fed up and lonely. My daughter is everything to me and I want to do what is best for her, not me. Please help!!!

2007-07-09 19:08:14 · 17 answers · asked by mishka 2

ok im CRAAAAAAAAAAZY bout sex. total freak, love the whole jungle scenario....doin it like the animals...love the costumes and bunny outfits the 6 inch heels, EVERYTHING.

ok, but here's the THING...all of this i want to share with my FUTURE ONE DAY WIFE...(not married yet)

but im going to college in a month, and i would like to fool around with a FEW girls...not a bunch b/c i want to do SO much with my wife one day...

sound ok?

2007-07-09 19:06:04 · 14 answers · asked by varsfootball44 1

There's a man that likes me very much but there's another man that I'm already married to that tells me he loves me very much as well! Also we have children but I'm am very interested in the other gentleman.I don't know what I should be doing or thinking!!!!

2007-07-09 19:05:06 · 19 answers · asked by Carebear 1

I left my husband 6 months ago but came back because he made me a bunch of promises, which he broke with in a month. We started marriage counceling at that time but he quit after about 5 sessions. For the past 2 months I've gone by myself and all he has done is hide in the bedroom from me and the kids. He hasn't expressed any interest in returning. He does not talk to me about anything and the only answers I ever get are "I don't know" and "I don't care". When he F's up, which is on a pretty regular basis and I get upset, he just asks me "How do you think I feel". Should I feel guilty for leaving him? I'm so confused!

2007-07-09 19:05:03 · 9 answers · asked by Blue Love Aura 2

A close friend of mine is havin an extramarital affair with her boyfriend.She got married recently but to my surprise she is not really attending her husband and find ways to stay away from him.I m really upset about all this as i don't want things to get messed up.If anyone has a solution then plz reply.

2007-07-09 18:58:52 · 10 answers · asked by himanshuset 1

ok what if you are in love with your ex of 5 years but he is married to someone else but you know that his wife is just using him for money and his car and he tells you in emails all the time he misses you and loves you almost everyday would it be bad if you try to break up their marriage cus you feel he is still in love with you

2007-07-09 18:22:31 · 14 answers · asked by shorty28 2

i need to know what kind of insurance you need to have on oneself. so i can get ideas and jot them down, and begin to look them all up to find the cheapest ones.

2007-07-09 18:08:30 · 7 answers · asked by anna panda! 1

How to draw a line in being open to our spouse and to what degree should we allow our spouse to have? Like if he has secrets of his friend, is it wrong to share with spouse?Is it wrong to allow spouse to know them? If spouse refuse to share, does it mean that spouse does not trust us or hidden agenda?

2007-07-09 17:51:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you love about marriage?

What do you hate or dislike?

What would you change if you could?

Serious question, thank you in advance for your honest answers.

2007-07-09 17:46:26 · 8 answers · asked by >Golden Ticket< 4

Ok here's the scoop my wife of 3 yr's has a dairy and she writes about everything. So about a month ago she was in a bad mood. I asked her what was going on, she said everything was fine. But I could tell there was something going on. So I read a couple pages in the dairy and found out 2 things. 1 she has a text buddy who she says when the text the thing he says lights up her world no matter what mode shes in he brings a smile to her face. 2 she says she has a fatal attraction happen to her. Where she recieves calls in the middle of the night with someone proclaim his love for her and the whole nine. So I comfronted her on my findings know its been almost 2 months and we have not had any kind of intimate contact (kissing hugging etc.). Now who should be madder her or me?

2007-07-09 17:40:26 · 17 answers · asked by Raqi Killer 2

We have planned an anniversary trip to San Antonio and are going to go out for a nice dinner and carriage ride. I can't think of what to get for him, though. Any input is appreciated!!

2007-07-09 17:37:38 · 5 answers · asked by heartsonfire 6

ok. My dad got remmaried like two years ago. and i gained a step sister 9 years younger then me. I live with my mom most of the time. but anyways i found out my step-mom is trying to change susanne (my step sis) last name to mine. and i don't want her to have my last name. it is the only thing left the me and my dad only have. what do i say? this?:

"i don't want susanne 2 have price for her last name. i would be okay with scarberry-price but not price. sure her dad might not be in her life but ur my dad. and i am NOT okay with her being a price. i accepted bro becuz he was there before me and he actually is a blood relative. but susanne has her own dad there are not. i want to be your only little girl, bcuz i am ur only little girl. she can call my dad, dad, but that is it. dad, i hope u actually hear my story unlike when u were first getting married, u ignored me. when susanne took MY room, u ignored me. but i could deal with thoughs, BUT NOT THIS ONE! at least hear me"

2007-07-09 17:28:36 · 27 answers · asked by FL๑Яida GЯL ♥♥♥ 4

2007-07-09 17:17:44 · 25 answers · asked by angle eyes 2

My In-laws never appreciate what my parents do for the grand kids? I hate this part. My mom goes out of her way to help me out and on couple of occasions I did mention it to my In Laws and they pretended as if they didn't even listen. I am not happy with this at all. What should I do?

2007-07-09 17:12:37 · 15 answers · asked by c 2

Today I met with my Lover and this is how it went down:

Me:How could you go back to him after you told me you loved me,We talked about having a family.After the way he has treated you you giving him anther chance?

Her:Im sorry,I just want whats right for my daughter.Im putting my feelings aside for now.

Me:What does your daughter have to do with you having a physical relationship again with him?

Her:Im just trying to do my part in this.

Me:Once you told me you loved me I felt like you were mine.I feel like you cheated me.

Her: (Tears fall)

Me:Im not saying no one can love you but You know no one will ever love you like I did.I came along and I took away the pain he caused you and now you leave me hanging.You wouldnt B standing here if you were sure of what you've done.But you made your choice,I hope he's worth it.I know what I did was the wrong way but I regret nothing cause I loved you.

Me:(holding her)Goodbye Luv

Her:(crying)Goodbye

The End

2007-07-09 17:08:14 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

my man is 40 and divorced with a son, things didnt go so well, i want to ask a general question for those who are divorced, do you think u can fall in love harder a second time?

2007-07-09 17:03:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous