my man is 40 and divorced with a son, things didnt go so well, i want to ask a general question for those who are divorced, do you think u can fall in love harder a second time?
2007-07-09 17:03:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think you Just have a better idea of what marriage is all about and what you want in a husband.
2007-07-09 17:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by TOR TOR :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time your to young to know any better so you think the second time around you know a lot more. But what you don't no is what you bring with you,you bring all the anger you had in the first marriage .Now the third marriage is the charm, you know all the mistakes you made in your first and second marriages and how to avoid them.Being older and wiser doesn't hurt. How do i know all this,I was been married 3 times.
2007-07-09 17:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am not divorced but my parents are. And they hated eachother and now have both found two people who they say they are madly in love with. But my Dad says he thinks he and everyone can have to great loves. There first love or marriage when there young and happy and want to have kids. But then you grow apart and its hard to stick with one person all your life, the second person is someone more muture that you can grow old with and retire.
2007-07-09 17:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well only if the person makes it harder but other then that no way cause my parents r divorced and they fell in love wit different ppl a lot easyer the 2nd time!!!
2007-07-09 17:06:20 · answer #4 · answered by Alexis H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if they have a disaster the first time they are more careful the second time around. i have also seen couples call it quits divorce then marry eachother again strange but they have been married 20 yrs the 2nd go round
2007-07-09 17:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by sweet young thing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it makes a difference whether you have never been married or if you have been divorced 10 times. Love is love, it's something you cannot control.
2007-07-09 17:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
After divorced , you will understand your husband more deeply ,and can fall in love with he ,and i think after the divorced and married again ,you can live more happiness
2007-07-09 17:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by tiger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes, but I also divorced my 2nd, but then on the flip side we are getting married again in vegas
ain't life a circus
2007-07-09 17:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by leslieguelker0517 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes one can always fall in love, just because one went through a divorce doesn't mean love is over with.
2007-07-09 17:21:39 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. I had a friend who toke five years before he even found some one he could trust to date on a regular. He is married now, but he was very untrusting while he was dating.
2007-07-09 17:14:30 · answer #10 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I was in love with my 1st hub. and we divorced..and my 2nd hub came along and i am very much in love w/ him. You learn from your mistakes the first time so i tried it again and will be my last.
2007-07-09 17:12:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋