Marriage & Divorce - 6 July 2007

i dont think its nessasry to divorce a person as long as they didnt commit adultry. cause i believe that u mary for all the right reasons, and your only devoted to that one person. and u become one. i think its funny how in hollywood they dont stay togeather more then 48 hours, that tells me they dont have time for each other, well if you knew that why get togeather at all? its a fad. and its funny how they dont get togeather with plane janes or average joes, but skip to other celebs, because they want to be noticed more. any way i believe that divorce aint nessecsary if u love the person. so why do people do it? cause every one knows if u have kids they r in the middle of it all and it affects them and thats who i feel sorry for the most.

2007-07-06 23:50:21 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1

I love a married man with three kids, he loves me too. I am totally lost even if i stop thinking about him. I want him to be more attracted towards me. How should i do that? I love him 4rm my core n want him to love me more.

2007-07-06 21:19:46 · 4 answers · asked by JIYA@KHI 1

i been married for about 5 years im only 22 and have a 10 month old baby my marrige is realy bad we are happy for about 3 days an then comes the fights but i mean realy bad fights. all my 5 years off marrige my husband hasnt put me in an apartment we never realy live together his excuse is that he has been realy stupid before but hes changed. he always loses his jobs not no more but hes only been in it for about 6 months hes 25. like i said were always fighthing i realy love him my parents say im stupid to be in love with a low life i dont know what to do does he love me? and is there hope for my marrige or should i move on even if it hurts ? would it be best to divorce him if were always fighthing all our 5 years of marrige? will he ever change or if he hasnt change for five years hes not going to? is my love twords him blindind me? please help

2007-07-06 21:19:23 · 8 answers · asked by RUBYELISA 1

the urge to get sex outside marriage can,t be controlled at the age of 40 how to controll or let loose this urge

2007-07-06 21:13:22 · 38 answers · asked by rash0054 1

My baby Michael is married

2007-07-06 20:38:43 · 6 answers · asked by River 2

He is not sure if he wants to stay together. He calls and sees this other girl on a regular basis. They have gone on over night camp-outs together. But they are "just friends", she is "just someone to talk to". How can he not see that this is wrong? I think that he does know that it is not okay, but just doesn't care. We have 2 kids. I have been through a divorce. I can forgive and move on, but he does not even know what he wants to do. What can I do? I feel like he is just pushing me to my limit so that I am the one who leaves. But I do not want it to be over, I want to work things out and move on. Some one has got to have been in this situation. Please help me. I love him more than life and want to be together til death do us part. Please do not say that I am a doormat and should walk out. It is not that easy.

2007-07-06 20:18:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-06 20:18:11 · 22 answers · asked by tangela r 1

Not the same person I married 9 years ago. She is a very very cold and heartless person now. She has lost ability to communicate with me (not with others because she's on the phone all day). We always argue about the same things, it will be good for a day or two, but it always goes back us ignoring each other. We can go for weeks without talking, most of the time I dont even know why. Basically, I hate her more than I've ever hated anything in my entire life. Should I stay married for the sake of the kids?

She has nowhere to go, her parents are classless losers, I would not want her taking the kids back there, I dont think I could handle raising 3 kids by myself...but at the same time...man i really really really HATE this woman....

what to do...

2007-07-06 20:17:38 · 22 answers · asked by Colbert Nation 3

i dont understand what i did wrong???? i feel like such a booty call! i loved him unconditionaly for almost 3 years now, i'd write him love letters and leave little chocolates on his uniform's! (oh did i mention he's a marine!) well anyways he's been fighting with me over the stupidest stuff for the last 7 months and then he goes to his moms house (she doesn't really like me) calls me up and desided he doesn;t know if he loves me or not any more and tells me "you know we could just get an annulment and act like this never happened" i was crushed and then he says he never saw himself with me forever and only married me because of our 17 month old baby girl! then goes "oh well the food is here, i gotta go, bye" and hangs up on me while i'm crying my eye's out on the phone! i need some real advise. please someone help me!

2007-07-06 20:12:46 · 23 answers · asked by Cassandra 2

2007-07-06 19:20:58 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have an uncontrollable sex drive. im 18. i want to keep it this way for my wife throughout my life.

how can i maintain it? its rediculously high lol.

2007-07-06 19:14:19 · 14 answers · asked by varsfootball44 1

I got a phone call from him at 3am this morning Ive told him he can sleep in my spare room. He was leaving her 5 years ago and I convinced him to stay telling him that the greener fields were never that green when you got there. Am i doing the right thing?

2007-07-06 19:13:54 · 12 answers · asked by D 7

That I don't like going to his parents house because it is filthy without causing a huge fight? The carpet hasn't been vacuumed in over a year, the kitchen looks as if it's never been cleaned, and there's mold EVERYWHERE!
Not to mention all the expired and rotting food in the fridge that everyone in the family actually eats...

2007-07-06 19:10:25 · 16 answers · asked by telenanher420a 3

My sister and her husband just bought a house on land contract about 3 wks ago. Last week, he told her he wanted a divorce and she didn't have to get out right now, but he wanted her to leave. He said he still loves her, but he thinks she doesn't love him and he thinks she thinks he is worhtless. She still loves him and never has felt that way and tried to get him to understand that. He won't believe her, said the damage has already been done and that he is through. He has a woman he is talking to that he says is just a shoulder to cry on. My sister has decided that if he doesn't want her, then she is just going to give up and let the other lady have him. He won't do marriage counseling. She thinks all hope is gone and won't fight. They have been married for almost 5 yrs., and been through alot of stress the last 2 years because her daughter was diagnosed with chronic end stage renal (kidney) failure and had a transplant a few months ago. Also, the adult children won't leave the nest.

2007-07-06 18:50:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've noticed alot lately that Husbands are physically, mentally emotionally, abusing there wives. And I'm not sure why. I'm also not sure why the wife stays. I imagine the guy feeling really guilty afterwards and genuienly saying how sorry he is and saying he wants to Change. But how much is to much. Do you think the guy really does love the girl, and just is addicted just like a drug and just needs some help or do you think he is sick and there is no hope and the girl should get out before it's to late? What would you do?

2007-07-06 18:41:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad married me off at age 14 to a man 12 years older than me i meat him the day we got married it was a i honerd my dad and my vows until now, i am 46 and for first time my heart is biting for a man and he is my husbend friend and his wife is my friend but they r not happy together they r geting a divorce. i never been with another man other than my husbend so this is killing me althogh nothing happend yet but i know in my heart it will if i don't stop it now,he told me meany times that he is in love with me and i am the reason he can not live with his wife.what should i do plz help me?ps:i have 2 kids a boy 27 and a girl 24 both singel living at home with us.

2007-07-06 18:38:20 · 18 answers · asked by star p 1

I posted this question earlier, but i added more detail to the bottom.

I have been married for 6 yrs. and recently found out my husband had been calling another women. He use to call her on his cell phone. He suddenly started keeping his phone on silent and that is when i noticed on the cell phone bill (that we share) the same number over and over that he use to call. When I called the number a girl answered. I confronted him about it and he said that he was calling the girl for his best friend who is married. He says that his friend is in love with the girl. He claims that he calls the girl because his friend can't talk to her all the time. The funny thing is my husband calls this girl at 7am, and 12 pm and 4pm (which is every free moment he gets at work). He calls her every day. he doesn't call her after 5pm when he makes it home. I called the girl after i confronted him and she stated that she didn't know he was married and she only talked to my husband about his friend.

2007-07-06 18:34:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-06 18:32:25 · 6 answers · asked by im whats up! 3

She recently confessed to me while on vaca that she had an affair right after she got married to her current husband, along with two other times in which she became impregnated by 2 other men, and had both pregnancies aborted (within 5 months of each other) yet she tells her husband that she can't get pregnant which is why they have no children together. I have been on vacation several thousand miles away and yesterday she came out of no where accusing me of "posting a voice recording" of her confession on MySpace (which I didn't, even if I had my page is private and she has no way to see it). She has now took it upon herself to tell my fiance who I am supposed to be marrying in a month that I cheated on him when I didnt! I was living with her but now she told me I am not allowed to come back, and shes disconnected her cell phone. The problem is she has ALL of my belongings including my wedding dress and my fiances wedding ring. Do you have any suggestions about how to deal with her?

2007-07-06 18:25:30 · 13 answers · asked by ashley b 2

My hubby and I had a fight a few days ago. I thought he was cheating on me and it turned out to be a huge misunderstanding. I have completely moved past it and want to go on like it never happened. He on the other hand is moping around. He's on depression medication and I had no idea how bad off he was until this fight. Evidently he thinks about killing himself often and the antidepressants have been no help. I told him to go back to the doctor and get a different dosage or a different medication, but he claims that the doctor "can't help him". He thinks that I won't get past this whole cheating thing and that it will always be in the back of my mind and that I will never let it go. It was my fault. I blew it way out of proportion and I have already let it go. I just want my hubby back. It's like he's not even here. I haven't seen him smile in days and when he talks to me it's so quiet that I can't even hear him. I told him that I want my husband back and he said...

2007-07-06 18:22:54 · 12 answers · asked by redpeach_mi 7

nowadays age determines the various way to express the love.

2007-07-06 18:15:37 · 24 answers · asked by jay68mehta 1

Married to a pretty good guy. I have started to have serious jealousy and distrust issues with him. It is just little stuff through our relationship. Tonight he went out with some friends to a bar and text me ... asking questions and saying its not fun without me. He hasn't ever cheated on me. I have serious self esteem issues. I know why I have the issues. I'm not going to seek therapy for them. That won't make my boobs get any bigger. *hint. I don't want a relationship with him anymore. I'm tired of wondering if Im pretty enough for him. I don't like him looking at other girls and lusting after them. I know he does. He makes comments about their boobs and butts to me all the time. I just don't have the energy or the emotional strength to deal with his shyt. I'm tired of it. my profile on myspace is dannanicolexxx. There are some pics of the there. Hearing "your beautiful" and actually believing it are two different things. Divorce is in my head. Am I wrong? ????

2007-07-06 18:13:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am divorced and am very amicable with my ex. Not long after we split she had a boyfriend, who had a kid around my sons age. They were together for about a year and she moved in with him. They lived to gether for about another year or more. During this time it was difficult to schedule time with my son. I have a bit of an odd work schedule and she was well aware of that. We did the best we could to set up monthly schedules. There were times when things needed to be changed, and when I would ask her for this weekend or that weekend, she seemed to have something planed for her, the boyfriend, and the kids. That relationship is over. Now for the past few months I have been able to see my son pretty much whenever I wanted. She would ask me to take him sometimes for reasons that she gave me but turned out she lied. Now she has a new boyfriend and that's great but now it seems like she always has something to do and needs me to take my son for more than a weekend. I love my time with my

2007-07-06 17:54:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

well I am looking for ideas of simple stuff i can do over the next wee to show my wife that I love her. I started today with post-its on the bathroom mirrow while she was away and made sure i was "still at work" so she would not suspect it. I am looking for more simle ideas to make her know she is loved.

2007-07-06 17:42:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you let go of the past to get on with the future? My marriage has seen better days and i think in order for us to see better days again, I need to let go of many things that my husband has done in the past. (nothing like cheating or beating) I just do not know how to forgive and forget. i try but it is always in my mind. I know we cannot move foward until i let go but I DONT KNOW HOW!! Please help. Serious answers only please. Thanks in advance.

2007-07-06 17:41:48 · 11 answers · asked by who are you anyway?? 4

he can't get off of me. 14 times a week is our average. what are some others signs he is on it besides ofcourse unbelievably hard and h0rny

(night...morning...night...morning...etc)

2007-07-06 17:34:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

period I purchased a house, would my ex spouse have any rights on it during a divorce?

2007-07-06 17:34:15 · 14 answers · asked by Joe S 1

I mean "true love". We are ordered to remain chaste as long as we are unmarried. Sex is only for married people. Fornication and adultery are strictly forbidden.

OK, I understand how precious these rules are, but does that mean that "true love" will only occur after marriage? Is there true love before marriage? If so, could this mean that love is actually more psychological than physical?

2007-07-06 17:32:47 · 11 answers · asked by Ash'ari Maturidi 5

It never worked out with my lover and I but, now my baby daddy has someone else in his life I know that his not happy because I know him but do you think that I should move on or tell him how I really feel even though I had cheated.....

2007-07-06 17:25:45 · 16 answers · asked by bunny 1

We love each other very much and share a lot of things.We've never met each other pesonally, only through webcam for 6 months now, but we're planning to. I'm mexican and he's from Dubai. He loves latin culture. He's married, but unhappy and will divorce, not cos of me, but because he's been unhappy for 10 years already. He divorced a second wife who cheated him. He proposed me to marry him. We won't have children if we marry. He doesn't care that I'll be 55 when he is an attractive 43 man, he told me he won't marry any other woman besides me, cos he found his soul mate. He's had other past relationships at the same time of being married, but he says he found true love now and he has told me about them. He wants me to trust him and he encourage me to ask him whatever I want. He says he trustes me very much also and wants to come to Mexico to live for good and make up his life again. He's the General Manager of a family business, I've research on him and he hasn't lied to me. Help!

2007-07-06 17:09:35 · 14 answers · asked by JD 1