Marriage & Divorce - 6 July 2007

I have seen and answered a lot of these kinds of questions so I thought I would get your opinions.

I am not happy in my marriage (you regulars will know that already). For those of you have are familiar with my posts, you will have a better understanding but I will try to give enough details here. I don't feel loved. My wife was living with her mother still (at age 22ish) when we met. We moved out of her mothers house and have been together ever since (15 years now). Our sex lives had gone from typical (a couple or three times a week) down to only once every 2-3 months. I almost left end of last year. She was always unhappy. Now she seems to be in a better mood most of the time. Sex is up to once a week, but is cold and emotionless. She acts like I matter, but even that feels fake. I am still unhappy and can't talk to her because she takes what I say and uses it to attack me.........more coming.

2007-07-06 04:18:00 · 14 answers · asked by s1lvermidnight 3

We are an Indian family and we have a serious problem with our eldest brother's wife. They have been married for one year on 1 March. Not only is she refusing to make food for her husband or take care of her baby boy (born in January), but also she is becoming verbally abusive towards her in-laws (Bahiyaa and bhabhi are living with us).
Last week matters have gone worse, and she hit her husband on the chest, in consequence to which he suffered from a minor hear-attack.
The girls family are also threatening our family.
Although we are a traditional family, we do not see any option for the safety of our family.
I would like to know if it is possible to file a divorce and how long it would take, as well as whether we would have to pay this lady compensation, considering that the harm is coming from her side.
ONLY SERIOUS ANSWERERS PLEASE

2007-07-06 03:52:04 · 12 answers · asked by Parvati 1

My husband and I have been together for 9 years. We have children together. For the past few years we have had major problems. We have gone to only one session of counseling and I felt it really helped and wanted to continue. This was months ago and everytime I ask him when are we going back he simple says, "he's not the soul bearing type of person. He does not like people asking him questions repeatedly. Then he says, he does not feel it is that serious, we have other things going on in our lives". My thing is, if he feels like this, then he is not serious about working out our problems. We have tried it our way: just talking it out, but it results in bigger fights. I really don't know where else to turn or what else to do. I am even at the point to where I don't feel love for him anymore. I don't think I can give what I am not getting. Am I wrong? What is there left to do?

2007-07-06 03:41:52 · 14 answers · asked by destinyawaits 1

After years of husband having issues with porn and he agreed he would not watch anymore you found out he had been watching for the last year. He said in counseling that he didn't need it and knowing how I felt he wouldn't have to watch it again. Before I hear from everyone who sees nothing wrong with it this isn't about wether porn is ok but rather about someone blatantly disrespecting your wishes.So with that said would you be upset? Believe me I am not a prude by no means but the porn issue goes way beyond just watching every once in a while.

2007-07-06 03:24:03 · 24 answers · asked by confused one 1

i need help dealing with this hurt, my ex really hurt me, its been 2 months and it still feels like someone ripped my heart out, she turned against me and pretty much tries to hurt me all the time, but i still miss her, im always trying to piece together what went wrong and in doing that i just get angry, and i know i should just forget and move on, and i have tried but for some reason at the end of the day im back to thinking about her again, i get the odd positive momment where i think nah i don't need her then a few momments later im back to feeling really low, the most common answer is move on, but i am unable to move on, i feel so rejected and betrayed its just so difficult to let go, i either miss her or am angry with her, how do i seal this deal? she mean't so much to me and she kinda still does, how can i switch these feelings off?

2007-07-06 01:51:30 · 20 answers · asked by webbster 2

My husband wants to go to a bachelor party in CA (we're in boston) in Oct. I'll be 8 months pregnant. Even if I wasn't pregnant I wouldn't really be happy about this, but at 8 months along the idea of it really upsets me. The bachelor is a nice guy but tends to be very wild. Am I being selfish by not wanting my husband to go? I'm reluctant to say no as I'm already considered the witchy (with a b) wife who gets upset if he goes out to often.

2007-07-06 01:46:02 · 20 answers · asked by Jennifer D 2

First make sure you are in good shape, go to the gym and workout 5 days a week, treat it like a job because it actually is a job. You must get your body in tip top shape to trick the man, dress like a scank, have lots of sex with him. Do all the things to him you won't ever do again after your married! Act like other men are interested in you only after you do all of the above or he really won't believe it. Act like you will make a great wife and mother (fake maternal qualities) you scrag. It will be too late when he finds out the truth. Cook, cook, cook, however, don't eat until after your married. Once you follow these guidelines you will have your man, your house, your child. You must continue to trick him the job is not done. Now you must get pregnant. You are close to the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Let him know this will not change anything, try to keep the laughter deep inside like you have done the entire time. Good luck!

2007-07-06 01:26:05 · 18 answers · asked by sowhat 3

iam still married I left on bad terms with my husband after he gave me a black eye,.. also he punched me so hard i could not breathe he cheated on me numerous of times... Now i have a hard time foucousing,listing, comprehending, now i isolate my self from everyone except for this guyI have a boyfriend but he says he loves me ... after 7 weeks... plus he iss soo skinnny..... and he lives at home. and he brought up saying his friend said "is tara looking forward to having kids"

2007-07-06 00:42:08 · 9 answers · asked by Tara S 1

aslo im dating this 27 year old that lives at home and a truck driver... but the only thing i cant stand is his teeth!!! also we have only been dating for 7 weeks and he said he loves me! but iam still married to ryan my husband.. but we are not leagally divorced yet. what the hell should i do:>

2007-07-06 00:37:36 · 3 answers · asked by Tara S 1

the sake of our adult daughter. She's in her last year at uni and we don't want anything to get in the way. He's just a fat slob that watches tv all day. Like I said, we have nothing in common.....Divorse?

2007-07-06 00:35:48 · 46 answers · asked by In the same boat 1

WHEN SHES DOING THE SAME EXACT THING?..HOW WILL IT ALL SETTLE?

2007-07-06 00:15:42 · 9 answers · asked by kqueen 1

2007-07-06 00:03:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous