Marriage & Divorce - 4 July 2007

my wife and i have been married for 3 years and now from nowhere she gets the idea that HEY remember your old friend ....and i was like yeah so what? and she suggested having a threesome

2007-07-04 23:37:00 · 17 answers · asked by Goose 2

now flowers are lost, pot is left out..should i dump the pot too?

2007-07-04 23:15:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has no idea that I am able to access his account so obviously he has no idea that I know exactly what he has been doing behind my back. I definitely have trust issues with him. He has given me every reason to distrust him in the past.

2007-07-04 23:00:51 · 14 answers · asked by blittyboo 1

I was with someone for about 5 yrs...high school sweetheart you could say. Well, we finally broke up about 4 yrs ago about a year and a half ago I met someone new well after dating him for about 3 months come to find out hes my ex's cousin!!!!!We continued our relationship because we really liked each other and everyone says its okay but i cant help feeling like their all talking about me......so tell me did i do wrong or right?

2007-07-04 22:50:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-04 22:37:04 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous

pls. answer my question,i need your advise

2007-07-04 22:16:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are you doing the job [you always wanted to do as a kid] ?
Did you "hook" the childhood sweetheart you always longed for ?
Did you travel to the places you wanted to see ?

2007-07-04 21:05:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

They have barely seen him for a couple of years but he has always suffered from undiagnosed personality disorders(narrcissism and some obsessive compulsive tendencies) and depression. The kids didn't want to go but the custody hearing dictated that they had to. He now lives with a girlfriend and the first thing he did was take away the kids cell phone and refuse to let them call me .He has told me it's his visit and he won't have me involved in what they do so the kids have no way to make any calls my oldest (14) says she is scared of him. I told her to play it cool and DO not CONFRONT HIM but I would like to know if I have any legal room.The divorce only went through this spring even though we have been separate 2 years.

2007-07-04 20:42:42 · 6 answers · asked by k.t.e. 2

ok, i've slept with a few men, some as old as 40... and guys you don't have a clue. i'm bi and been with women...

i always feel like i'm a sex instructor, and i'm tired of the effort of training.

men need to be taught for our sake?

Men and Women My QUESTION IS?

men would you ever consider paying someone to teach you how to satisfy a woman

women do you wish men would pay someone to learn how to satisfy you?

if so what would it be worth?

2007-07-04 20:24:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've heard that many times.

2007-07-04 20:18:35 · 26 answers · asked by x-EL_TRI-x-DAGR81JCD-x 5

I have no idea why. It's not that my husband is not satisfying me, because I was the same way in previous relationships. Also, I cannot have an orgasm (at least I don't think I can). I will eventually get that "funny feeling" but I never feel or see anything come out. It is really starting to get to me. I sometimes feel that it is pointless to have sex if I am not getting the full benefit (orgasm) from it.

What can I do?

2007-07-04 20:14:24 · 19 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

Im 29, my husband 31. Weve been in our home for about a yr & 1/2. One of our neighbors has a neice we'll call her "Nina" when we first moved in she was about 17 kinda shy and not so attractive. She babysat our son she was sweet innocentmy husband was fond of her (not in an inappropriate way) he always treated her like he does his nieces, mentioning how she reminds him of his niece (I saw the similarities and shared his fondness for her) That was last summer and puberty has been VERY good to her! A month ago and used her as our sitter, my husband was mentioned how she changed I agreed with him & even complimented further since she is (to me at least) just a kid, today we had a big neighborhood bbq and she attended, this time I found him taking one to many glances at her then he again mentioned how much she changed. i agreed again but after peeping him looking at her a couple more times I got a weird feeling because she seems to be flaunting it now. Should I question him?

2007-07-04 20:08:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I console her and help the healing process?

2007-07-04 20:05:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

go out to lunch with someone if you are married? Say you have been flirting with a gurl and you ask her to lunch and your married is it wrong??

2007-07-04 20:03:33 · 22 answers · asked by And What?? 1

2007-07-04 19:57:02 · 6 answers · asked by faruqi 1

How many sex parners u had before your marriage? Does it make any difference....by the way how about now...r u satisfied with your husband or do have sex with others?!!!

2007-07-04 19:56:59 · 9 answers · asked by stiff 3.5/6.5 lov girls 1

I am dating/hanging out with a man going thru a divorce. I am trying to be a friend to him and just hang out. I am in the waiting game. I know I should go out with other men, but I finally found a NICE GUY... and I don't want to let this one get away. I know once the divorce process is over... it will get better, but in the mean time... I miss him! I just want to spend more and more time with him. And I can't... ugh

He keeps telling me how great I have been thru this whole thing and in a long conversation this week, he even was brought to tears with our convo... and said "how did I get so lucky to have you in my life?" It is because I am keeping my feelings back from him and being the best friend I can be in the meantime. Everyone has told me that it take a year from a divorce to get over or thru it. But I think this guy is worth the wait.

what to do>>>???

2007-07-04 19:50:29 · 4 answers · asked by Mitch 2

total respect.

That when you talk to her,she listens and responds to you in a respectful way? That when you need from her,she gives to you what like? That when she is upset,she doesn't talk to you like a brat? I'm not saying that she would be a stiffled, no-thoughts-of her own, overtly submissive bore. I'm just saying that she wouldn't try to correct you in public, or talk to you in a demeaning way.

I see men put up with women like this, and totally kiss her feet. Am I wrong for believing men want respect?

2007-07-04 19:45:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i say wife is a knife who cut short the life .
your comments

2007-07-04 19:42:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Father was found dead last Sunday in his home. He didn't liver a Will or insurance. His Union will not tell who he has left the benefits to for his Funeral. The Police give his guns to people that lived nearby. He has a house and two cars that I can't touch.

2007-07-04 19:34:46 · 4 answers · asked by jenni_ajaz 1

why am i seing so many hurting wives and husbands because their other one doesnt want to say i love you..or give affection/ dont they know it is causing pain? i dont understand wgat is so hard about touching someone you love....or saying i love you...how damn hard is that!?

2007-07-04 19:11:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to know what it is like after leaving an abusive(verbally/emotionally, physical some yrs. ago) relationship. Married 13 years; 2 young children and I can't take this abuse anymore. The hollering in my face, the name calling from fat *****, worthless ************, lazy, free loading deadweight, stupid, etc.Or even the silent treatment that lasts for weeks sometimes. I feel like I am dying when he does this. Even in front of my kids. I just need to go but I need a push because I feel so helpless and worthless.
I am dependent on him at this time but I know he'll have to pay child support. I have a solid work history except for my lay off a year ago. I am looking for a job though.
My husband is NEVER satisfied with anything I do for long. If I give in to all of his demands, he'll just get enraged over something trivial. My therapist says I should learn to ignore him and be happy anyway. This is not an easy task. Most people say leave but it is SO SCARY to me. Any advice?

2007-07-04 19:06:46 · 18 answers · asked by Veronique 3

2007-07-04 18:55:15 · 14 answers · asked by kivi k 1

We have two great kids and have been married a long time. But she is very emotionally distant and acts like she wants nothing to do with me. I keep begging her to go to counseling but she won't. We have no sex life and the longer I am married to her, the more angry and resentful I get. I am sorry I ever met her and so much want to get away. But for many reasons I cannot get a divorce. Plz help if you can. I am at wit's end!

2007-07-04 18:51:43 · 39 answers · asked by unhappily married 1

Do any of you routinely look for flings and casual sex? What kind of guys are you interested in? And if you are a guy looking for something similar how would he know when he comes across someone that he could ask?

2007-07-04 18:43:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean to put his woman in the mood, or make her feel sexy? it is very frustrating.

2007-07-04 18:26:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you married the person, of course you must love them to some degree, but do you feel there is someone or something that would make you happier? If so, why did you marry your spouse?

2007-07-04 18:19:30 · 13 answers · asked by Jazziland 2

my husband of 7 yrs wants to renlist in the army. im sooo scared and dont want him to go back. how do i tell him no.we have 2 children. i need help trying to explain to him why we need him home with us and not deployed constantly.

2007-07-04 18:06:45 · 19 answers · asked by sweet young thing 3

The bible teaches us and it says "do not love each other with words" then why do women want so much to hear just those few words.

For a definition of what love really is read this verse from the bible

1Co 13:4 Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud,
1Co 13:5 doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil;
1Co 13:6 doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth;
1Co 13:7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

2007-07-04 17:58:04 · 12 answers · asked by idiot 2

I'm 14 years old and my parents have been married for 24 years.
My mom recently (yesterday) found out that my dad has been cheating on her with another woman in Korea.
My dad's in Korea right now, doing "business", but I simply can't trust anything he says now.
My mom called the woman who he's been cheating on her with, but the woman is an ignorant, arrogant, and stubborn lady who only blames my mom. The lady won't provide any answers, except that they've (her and my dad) have been contacting each other through text messages and phone calls, but haven't met face-to-face.

God, I don't know what to do. My mom is going through so much pain and stress and suffering. It hurts me to see her hurt.

My dad is a lying and deceitful prick. He lied to me, he lied to us.

I don't know what to do. I don't want to see my mom suffer so much from her horrible husband.

2007-07-04 17:40:35 · 17 answers · asked by troubled son 1