If you married the person, of course you must love them to some degree, but do you feel there is someone or something that would make you happier? If so, why did you marry your spouse?
2007-07-04 18:19:30 · 13 answers · asked by Jazziland 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
By the way, this doesn't apply to me. I am happily married...It's a general question based on a conversation.
2007-07-04 18:27:56 · update #1
Yes. I did marry the wrong person. I try to make it work but she expends no effort to do the same. She is a miserable, miserable person and I am sorry I ever met her.
2007-07-04 19:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by unhappily married 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a long story mine would be. I have known for awhile I married the wrong person, and finally got the courage to get out of the very unhealthy marriage. I am going through a very ugly divorce, a single mom, and no money. That is what I was afraid of, and facing it now. It's hard, but I have no regrets about leaving. I know there is someone out there for me who will not abuse me.
2007-07-04 19:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by trancegoddess2001 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously, you loved them and you thought that they made you happy just make sure it is not the "raw" scenario! See below:
If a person was stranded in the desert for a month and at the end of that month a person ( your spouse) brought them (you) a saltine cracker and a shot glass of water... that would prolly be the best damned saltine and water you ever had... and they brought this to you on a regular basis and sometimes just to be nice they brought you a ritz and a shot glass full of fruit punch, is it right that the person is happy with the crackers and drinks or is it wrong because they don't know that they deserve dinner?
If you don't understand email me!
2007-07-04 18:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Becky 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
LOL, I know I married the wrong person. I love him to the point I wouldn't want him to suffer a horrid death. I married him because he was so pathetic and lonely. I suppose I loved how much he needed me. That's just the problem, he needed someone to be his mommy, not his wife. He needed someone who worked selflessly, tirelessly, endlessly, masterfully, and wisely and above all stupidly, that last component is the most important, because any woman with sense would have known she was being used.
hey Becky: you should site your source, that's Eddie Murphy's bit from RAW.
2007-07-04 18:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Every ... freaking ... day.
I married my spouse because she pretended to like all the things I liked so I would marry her. Now we have kids and she doesn't feel like living that lie anymore.
2007-07-05 05:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person does you no wrong or does some wrong and asks for forgiveness he/she is a good spouse that would be true love. It depends.
2007-07-04 18:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well that was the mistake of my life marrying my husband and he is soon giong to be my x-husband after 20 years of verbal abuse >>>>thank god im not in it any more ......and now with the man of my dreams i just wish i had found this man that i love with all my heart sooner .....if youre marriage sucks my advice is this .....dont put up with it .....GET OUT OF IT !! take care xx
2007-07-04 18:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
After 18 yrs ,my answer is .
i married the right person ,ask me 18 later.
2007-07-04 18:24:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. After eighteen years, two kids and two dogs I am still in love with my husband. We have had our troubles and arguments, but I would not have wanted anyone else.
2007-07-04 18:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by Queenie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It worked at the time, but time changed her
2007-07-04 18:23:06 · answer #10 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋