How can I console her and help the healing process?
2007-07-04 20:05:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're missing the point hun. You didn't tell these fine people how since your wife broke up with her boyfriend that its been taking time away from you and me. How are you expected to find time to cheat behind her back when she's underfoot all the time now? Console her? *throws hands up* What we have to do is find her another pool boy.... and fast!! I say go straight to Yahoo Personals and write your wife up a profile...... then go down the local university and stand on the corner holding up her picture. I'll take care of the bar scene and see if there are any good looking guys willing to have a no strings attached love affair with your wife. Uhm...... if I'm late for our date...... uhm....... don't worry. It's all in the name of business. We'll get her a guy!! If we can't..... well..... maybe I"l luck out instead. *cough*
2007-07-05 07:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by Marianne not Ginger™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your wife just broke up with her boyfriend, sounds really strange to me. Healing process of her breaking up with her boyfriend??? Why should that even matter to you, if your marriage is over. Now, if her affair was just a phase in your marriage, and you still want to try and work things out with her, that a completely different story. Now, if you just want to be a nice guy to console her "break up". Just talk to her, and tell her that people are in & out of relationships all the time. You just have to be smarter next time you get involved with someone new.
2007-07-05 03:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by always51787 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur acting more like her brother than her husband..hello!! ur supposed to be jealous and angry coz in the first place she had a boyfriend! i mean where is the man in u if u knew ur wife has a boyfriend...shows ur luv for a "wife" was dead a long time ago. the fact u lived with this shows u made serious mistakes in ur married life...even if ur not living together she remians ur wife...and come on!! u cant find a new bf for her or console her!! if ur thinking on those lines i suggest u diovrce her and be just her friend...ur not possessive about her and let her sleep with another man...ur obviously sleeping with another woman urself...why r u disrespecting the sanctity of a marriage.marriage means committment remember...gosh!
2007-07-05 03:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, I understand where you are coming from. My husband and I are basically separated (although temporarily still co habitating) due to his affair. I know this girl is going to hurt him eventually (all evidence has shown her to be a bad person, but he seems blinded to it) and although I shouldn't give a damn...I really don't want him to hurt either. I know I sound like a complete fool for saying that. Reading it just now...it looks ridiculous, but it's the way I feel.
I don't know how you should console her, but I may have to do it to.
2007-07-05 07:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg you are a good husband... you are worried about helping your wife with a break up with her boyfriend.
i imagine, that if you are married, and she had a boyfriend, then she probably if she still cares about you will want to cry on your shoulder. I suppose just be there for her...
I'd say you are a loving guy to care so much.
2007-07-05 03:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by yahooanswersgirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to go back and make your question clear. because I am having serious issues with your question. You are talking about your WIFE...And you want to HELP her with her BOYFRIEND. I am confused. Did she cheat on you? are you guys separated? What the heck is going on here? I need closure with this story.
2007-07-05 03:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lefty stole my answer. Your girlfriend has been noticably absent for a while, anyway.
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This is too serious sounding of a question. You got a whole lot of good old fashioned useless moronic advice here.
2007-07-05 07:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try taking a life insurance policy out on her that includes suicide. She is soon to realize she is hopeless. This will help her because you'll be able to get her a real nice plot and gravestone.
2007-07-05 03:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by Daniel B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a good man.. I dont know if your still living together or what, but I will asume that you are still together, and she chose to make things work with you. ?? Well its a hard road. All I can say is be the man he married, and be her best friend. let her know she can talk to you still about how she is feeling. and learn to trust her agian and let her know that its not going to be fixed in the morning, but you will still be there.
2007-07-05 03:10:48 · answer #9 · answered by gabe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let her crash with you and your boyfriend for a week or so, and I'm sure she'll COME to an understanding that this is all for the better.
2007-07-05 03:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋