go out to lunch with someone if you are married? Say you have been flirting with a gurl and you ask her to lunch and your married is it wrong??
2007-07-04 20:03:33 · 22 answers · asked by And What?? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
let me ad this you have been emailing for months now and have went on a lunch date and didnt have your wedding ring on.... and would like to go on another lunch date
2007-07-04 20:07:31 · update #1
Bottom line.... YOU TOOK YOUR WEDDING RING OFF TO HAVE LUNCH!!!!! no one does that unless you WANT wayyyyy more then just lunch.
IS it wrong YESSSSSS your MARRIED!!!!!!!!! A business lunch is one thing but, you don't take your wedding ring off for a business lunch or ANY lunch unless you are looking for trouble.
2007-07-04 20:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by hotelmajor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emails, Flirting, Lunch dates, with another woman. And you ask is this wrong?. Why ask here. do you really think people are going to say, it's ok to do this. What does your wife say, bet she didn't tell you to post this question. Grow up man, cheat if you want to cheat, you don't need peoples approval. Maybe your wife can do something nice for you, cheat as well.
2007-07-04 22:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what you need to ask that will answer your question.
"If my wife were looking over my shoulder and I was aware of it, would I still be acting the way I am?"
If you answered "Yes" than it is not wrong if she does not get mad. If you said "NO" than you need to avoid the situation which will only dig you a hole.
Any affair will not have a happy ending. At some point in life, there will be a price to pay for your wrong doings. There is also the cliche
"Would you like it, if the situation was turned around?"
Evil is tempting you and you need to conquer it.
Good luck
2007-07-04 22:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by Respuesta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, so long as your intentions are honorable. If you ask her to go out to lunch because you want to make a date with her, that's wrong. But just lunch is fine.
2007-07-04 20:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it really is innocent, you can keep your wedding ring on and let her know you are in a relationship that does not involve cheating. Since you email so often, this little communication should not be a problem.
Or are you secretly wanting something and just trying to find ways to justify it in your mind?
2007-07-04 20:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're flirting with a girl and you're married?
My opinion would be no you shouldn't go to lunch with her. However, my advice to you would be to ask your wife how she would feel about it. And if she seems to not like the idea then ask her if she'd be willing to go with you. If she still doesn't like the idea then drop it all together.
2007-07-04 20:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful Awakening 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its wrong to flirt with another girl if your wanting to take her out while being married.
2007-07-04 20:07:50 · answer #7 · answered by cowboy_fan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, doing stuff like that is the exact reason you will end up divorced, and alone... If your wife allows you to breathe when she finds out.. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned
2007-07-04 20:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by j_elam22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're already questioning it then there's obviously something telling you that it's not good.
What did you parents teach you? Listen to the little voice in the back of your head.
2007-07-04 20:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the poor girl!! is it wrong? well, removing your ring are your intention to make her think you're not married. flirt with her but let her know you're married. is she gets hurt later on, then its her problem but dont make her find out you're married but you're not wearing your ring. it thats me, i will think of something to hurt you emotionally more than you did me.
2007-07-05 00:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋