I was with someone for about 5 yrs...high school sweetheart you could say. Well, we finally broke up about 4 yrs ago about a year and a half ago I met someone new well after dating him for about 3 months come to find out hes my ex's cousin!!!!!We continued our relationship because we really liked each other and everyone says its okay but i cant help feeling like their all talking about me......so tell me did i do wrong or right?
2007-07-04 22:50:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You know what I've come to believe in life??? People are ALWAYS going to talk!!!! Know matter what you do or where you go someone will ALWAYS have something to say. People are just like that. If you want to go ahead and continue your relationship in my opinion - by all means please do so.
2007-07-04 23:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by blittyboo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong about it. People will talk behind someone's back no matter what they do in their life. Worrying about it will only serve to give you ulcers. If you guys are happy...go for it!
2007-07-04 23:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do wrong if you didn't know they were cousins. But the fact that it's bothering you now that you know says it's not a good thing.
2007-07-04 22:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong! First of all, you didn't know before you started dating, and 2nd of all... who you fall in love with is not entirely your choice!
2007-07-04 23:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by Christine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt do anything wrong, but you have to think really deep about this, if you'll be able to continue. i think it's best to speak to him about your concerns. i dont find anything wrong but it would be, indeed, not pleasant at all to find they are speaking about you. find how their relation is, maybe they're not even close.
good luck!
2007-07-04 23:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by larissa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u didnt do anything wrong u didnt know he was his cuzin and now that u do know and it is bugging ur mind than it isnt a good thing after all!
2007-07-04 23:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking to him is the best way. You didn't do anything wrong
2007-07-04 23:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did.nt do wrong sweetheart xx
2007-07-04 23:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋