my boylover cheated on me four times can I trust him?

Answer 1

well......Next time pick someone with these qualities!!!

I Need A Lover that won't drive me crazy I Need A Lover that won't drive me mad I Need A Lover that won't drive me crazy
I Need A Lover that won't drive me crazy Someone to thrill me, and then go away I Need A Lover that won't drive me crazy Someone that knows the meaning of ah - Hey hit the highway

Well I've been walking the streets in the evening Racing through this human jungle at night I'm so confused, my mind is indifferent Hey - I'm so weak, won't someone shut out that light Electricity runs thru the video And I watch from this hole I call home And all the stonies that are dancin' to the radio I got the world calling me tonight on the phone

I Need A Lover that won't drive me crazy I Need A Lover that won't drive me mad I Need A Lover that won't drive me crazy
Someone that knows the meaning of ah - Hey hit the highway

Well I'm not wiped out by this poolroom life I'm livin' But I'm gonna quit my job, and go to school, and head back home
Now I'm not asking to be loved or be forgiven Hey - I just can't face shakin' in this bedroom one more night alone

I Need A Lover that won't drive me crazy I Need A Lover that won't drive me mad I Need A Lover that won't drive me crazy
Someone that knows the meaning of ah - Hey hit the highway

I Need A Lover that won't drive me crazy Someone to thrill me, and then go away I Need A Lover that won't drive me crazy

I Need A Lover that won't drive me crazy I Need A Lover that won't drive me mad I Need A Lover that won't drive me crazy
Someone that knows the meaning of ah - Hey hit the highway

Answer 2

Honestly... it depends. Usualy the answer here should be "No, don't trust him", but it strongly depends on the situation. My boyfriend was cheating me aswell, but after a few "last" chances and when he realised that he is causing me pain and he can loose me... he stopped. A little more than one year since his last time passed and i am a bit more relaxed about this now, but i still can't trust him the way i would if he hasn't cheated and ofcourse i can't forget it. And i never will! It's still affecting our relationship, so if the question is "can he stop cheating?" the answer is "yes, he can, it's possible (at least for some time)", but if it's about your trust - i think he've lost it already. And to regain trust in such situation is realy way too hard... but not impossible if you belive it worth. The choice is yours

Answer 3

The fact that this question even crossed your mind is a huge clue to the answer. No! If you are looking for a magic "number" beyond which you should lose your trust, there is no such thing. It depends on you. "Trust" is an individual's judgment so it's not the same all the time. What do you sincerely feel?

Answer 4

Dear JABULILE M. your boyfriend has cheated on you 4 times and you want to know if you can trust him. If you want to remain his door mat then yes. let him walk all over you. If someone had cheated on me even once the door would be opened and slammed behind her butt, there has never been a second chance in my book, as I see it. Once a cheater always a cheater, but 4 times, come on JABULILE M do what your heart thinks best and kick this bum out of your life, this relationship is not for you if you want happiness.
Best wished....David

Answer 5

I think you probably know the answer to this yourself! Anyone who cheats four times has proved to you he cannot be trusted. The question should be, "Do you want to have a boyfriend whos cheats on you?"

Answer 6

Did you ask your self this question the first time its obvious that you cant trust him if he has done it 4 times then it would be hard to trust him with anything if it were me then I would have made the relationship history but that’s your decision to make I think you disserve better than somebody that treats you like trash instead of royalty useless and disappointing do what you feel is right and never turn back on the decision that you have made that’s something that everybody shouldn’t do. =)

Answer 7

No,you should not trust him. I am really amazed how can you believe him.He did it 4 times and you didn`t do anything. ok! one time it can be, but 4 times. This is disgusting ! If i was you then I would have kicked him out at first time only. Don`t believe him now otherwise you have to pay for that.

Answer 8

simple answer, no sorry but no

I dated a guy for a year, lost my virginity to him, loved him, thought he was in love with me, still says five years later that he loves me but yet cheated on my at least 3 times (if not more) during a year. I still love him and have feelings for him but never again can I trust him.

Answer 9

OKAY something you need to know , once a cheater will always be a cheater.and once beaten twice shy. i am sorry to say but you should not be in this relationship. my advive to you his to really be stron g ans move on althouggh men/women do change but that will happen in about 1 in a 1000 and do yoou yourself belive it will never happen again come on it has been 4 times what more prove do you need, they only person who his hurt in this relationship his you / kids if you have one by him/her. be strong and say know or you might be waiting until he changes if you really belive he will change. whta ever decision you make make sure you choose the one which will make you happy , it might be hard but you need to be strong about your decision. stay blessed

Answer 10

Trust him not to do it again? You know the answer to that one. If you are willing to accept him on those terms, fine, but get used to it because he will never stop. Perhaps you put up with it because he has compensatory attractions, like money.

Answer 11

No way he is sowing his seed he sounds young and not ready for a lasting relationship just go and enjoy yourself and don't take it to heart find some-one your age all the best