Marriage & Divorce - 2 July 2007

She says that she still loves me and wants me to be in her life. I just dont know what to do.

2007-07-02 23:42:12 · 31 answers · asked by Who!!!!!!!!! 1

Hi. I have had other postings on here regarding this. I am beyond inlove with this girl that is with an idiot that now just uses her for sex. Anyway I posted everything previously so if there is anyway to view it please do. People have told me to move on. I REALLY CANT. PEOPLE HAVE TOLD ME WAIT TILL THIS GUY IS GONE WHICH SHE IS CRAZY ABOUT & WONT LEAVE HIM & HE TREATS HER BAD! I asked on here when anyone thought the relationship would end etc. People have told me to back off a bit. Okay so I talk to her here & there. WELL This new guy literally came out of nowhere sorta just like showed up. Funny that she would not leave this other guy for nothing yet something starting with this new friend. You can see it of course. He is actually nice though. Who knows what the future holds but I see a relationship starting. He is also 10 years older by the way. Yes I want to see her happy but come on anyone who has been in my posision knows its hard not to be MAD. Continued.....

2007-07-02 22:32:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married for 7 months. Its my 2nd marraige. 1st , though a love marriage culminated to divorce due to dowry demands n incompatibility. 2nd marraige-arranged. From the beggining, i found my husband very quiet and non-interested in me and my life. He also had sexual performance problems which made me feel rejected but i supported him and was patient. My husband and i have stayed together for 35-40 days only since marraige as we are based in diff countries. Once we were away, i felt his disinterest in me all the more so i spoke to my father in law n told him that acc. to me the marraige is not working. I was lost, upset, confused, frustrated n angry with myself n others for putting me in this situation. I stop talking to all including my in-laws n my family. Now my mother is with me n she showed me another side of my hubby. Acc 2her, he is caring n loves me but could not express. I want to now reconcile n give our relationship a chance but my in-laws think otherwise. What do i do?

2007-07-02 22:08:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can you join the fire brigade if you wear glasses? I dont think you can but my son says its not a problem. Thanx in advance.

2007-07-02 20:26:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I'll try to fit all this in and keep it short as possible. Im married...24 years old. Ive been with my hubby for 10 years. We started datin at 15 for those of you that cant do math, lol. We have had alot of bumps in the road since we basically grew up together. We made it past all that and got married 2 years ago. I truely love my husband...but there is alot he does that pisses me off, but we always seem to get through it. Once when we were havin problems about 3 years ago, we took a few weeks away from each other...like a break. At that time a good friend of mine was in the same situation with his g/f. We started talkin and really hit it off. I almost left my now hubby for him. I think I started to fall in love with the new guy. Well we hadnt talked in years once me and my hubby worked things out and so did he and his g/f. I assumed thats how things were suppose to be or it wouldnt have worked out like that. Now, him and his g/f split and he hit me up on myspace.......(read below)

2007-07-02 20:18:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

where you can get free on line counseling or anywhere that offers free counceling to people who cant aford to pay and have no insurance??

2007-07-02 19:41:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or is this something like the bait and switch tactic used in sales?

If women are really using this as a selling point for marriage...then....he he he he.....yah...I'll buy.

Where do I sign up!

I'd love to trade my freedom and a slightly messy house for a Warden....er I mean wife and a squeaky clean house.

2007-07-02 19:37:09 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3

My wife and I have decided to separate and move towards divorce.

Should I be able to care that she is now contacting ex-boyfriends? Seems like it should be none of my business but it also seems kinda classlesss

2007-07-02 19:36:41 · 8 answers · asked by ? 4

Okay I got:

Commitment...life time of the same o same o sex
Plenty of kids...thats a ton of work
A wife a.k.a warden to control you
A lifetime of paying all kinds of unecessary bills...

Please add to the list

Thanks

2007-07-02 19:32:51 · 21 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-07-02 19:31:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anj 2

Having millions of dollars but being unhappy forever or having no money but very happy forever?

2007-07-02 18:55:56 · 7 answers · asked by victory 3

I tell him what I need and he does it. Then when it's really important or he thinks I forgot, he stops. Why does he do that? He knows I'm going to pitch a *itch. Does he like it or is he stupid? Men, your viewpoint, especially appreciated

I tell him to call if he's going to be late, he was doing good, but today he hasn't called. He knows how I get, all nervous and anxious and worried. Why doesn't he think about that when he doesn't call?

2007-07-02 18:36:21 · 17 answers · asked by Maeflower 3

My husband and I have been married for nearly 9 years. Shouldn't we be past the part of our relationship where we smother each other? Shouldn't we be past all the jealous rages? Can anyone tell me how to stop all the jealousy?

2007-07-02 18:29:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you really had to choose, and marry a person, would you marry someone who you loved (crazily) but they didnt love you, or someone who loved you (crazily) but you didnt love them?

and you have to choose one!

2007-07-02 18:15:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

she called 5 times that day to "talk to the kids" even though she was coming to pick them up at 6pm.
she moved in next door to us after I mentioned that it makes me uncomfortable when she LETS HERSELF into my home without knocking.
she bought my step-children cell phones when she found out I was pregnant. one of the kids said it was so she didn't have to call our house phone and talk to their father or me any more... and from that day forward she pretends that we don't exist... she sees us and turns her head as if she didn't even know we (or the now 13 week old baby) are there. the ex-wife won't even call my husband if she has an issue to discuss about the kids any more SHE SENDS A NOTE with a child! she USE to call about petty things ALL OF THE TIME (before our new baby)

she remarried before I even met my current husband BUT WHY do you think she's been doing all of these things???

2007-07-02 18:13:36 · 20 answers · asked by JayneDoe 5

We have problems, but I am still attracted to him. It is not all bad.

2007-07-02 18:01:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-02 17:50:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Need answer fast, Queen Bee

2007-07-02 17:44:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-02 17:40:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married to a guy for 5 years and we have a 4 yr old son. He was the best for the first three years when he was in the military. Now that he is out. He has started drinking a lot and quit a good job and got a part time one for no reason. He moved in with his brother about 50 miles away and won't help me and our son at all. One day he will say i want to come home and then the next day he says he likes being there. I am tired of his games. What should i do? I want my son to be happy first and fore most.

2007-07-02 17:33:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has always came home with a box of condoms, usally the 3 pack from the gas station. Recently he said that he bought a single condom from the cashier for $1... Is this possible or did the other condoms get used somewhere else???

2007-07-02 17:18:34 · 11 answers · asked by bren283 1

My husband of just 3 weeks .....has been lying to me for the past 3 months about credit cards. I was wondering where his money was all going to and while I was cleaning our bedroom I found a bunch of credit card statements on top of our entertainment center. We are usually so honest with one another and this is the first major thing he had lied to me about...I am stunned he kept this from me and lied about where the money was going. He says he was paying his father's land payments, because his father is helping my husband's no good sister out. I care for his family, but now we are in debt and we are having extreme problems paying our bills. What am I to think about his actions and his father's, because his dad had to have known we didn't have the money at the time to pay his land payments. I have already talked to him and forgave him...and we have cut up the credit cards, but I'm still so hurt about the whole situation. What would you do or would have done in this situation?

2007-07-02 17:15:20 · 20 answers · asked by Mrs. CT 4

Please express your opinion freely.

2007-07-02 16:59:47 · 38 answers · asked by PUNDALIK D 1

I have been divorced from my ex wife for 8 years. Everything was fine til I married wife #2. Two weeks into my new marriage she started to refuse my visitation rights. I have seen my daughter about three times since. It's been 2 years now. My visitation rights are court order, and yes I do pay child support. My ex wife didn't go to court to terminate visits , she has done this on her own. She has even called my wife & told her we were having sex. This has really taken its toll on my marriage, and my stress level is way high. I have no idea how my daughter is, or where she's at. I'm unable to get a lawyer , I drive professionally , out on the road 3 to 4 weeks at a time. Please give me some ideas , on what to do !

2007-07-02 16:59:23 · 14 answers · asked by eric D 1

She is very bitter and impossible to get along with. She will not take our child back on time. We have shared custody. She says she is sick or something and I will have to keep the child then she calls back and says I better get the child back to her or she will file charges. HELP

2007-07-02 16:58:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Somehow her name seems to pop up in our conversations everyday...and he never fails to mention how wonderful & awesome she is, what a great personality she has, that she's the best thing in that office and that most of his male coworkers think she is hot. Sometimes I feel like he is purposely trying to make me jealous. I usually just say things like "wow, that's great" or "I'm sure she is" and act like it doesn't bother me so as not to give him the satisfaction. I don't tell him how it makes me feel so that her name does not become like a "sore subject". My brother-in-law (who works at the same company as my husband) has had some serious problems with his wife for the very same reasons. Am I being paranoid?

2007-07-02 16:41:09 · 33 answers · asked by ♫ Sophia V 6

even though he hasn't had any communication with her for over 25 years when she contacted him 3 weeks ago via the internet my space...he has been online with her every waking moment....and tells me he needs to pursue a relationship with her because she was his his soul mate. he tells me he is sorry he is hurting me...but he needs to do this for him. he expects me to stand by until he decides if there is chance to renew their relationship. she is also married with kids and lives out of town. should i give him some space and see if he comes to his senses.....because i still love him very much...or should i throw him out and not wait to see if he chooses to stay with me and the kids. he has asked me to give him til the end of july to make up his mind.

2007-07-02 16:39:44 · 28 answers · asked by heartbroken 1

2007-07-02 16:37:57 · 16 answers · asked by FUDDIN 2

2007-07-02 16:20:27 · 18 answers · asked by hechizada 2

As the whole surrounding is with negative attitude with him except the wife then how can the wife help him?
but he is totaly negative for every one also wife.
he considers that he is best and no one want to appreciate me.
he always passes comment on wife who behaves positively with him. Eg, u r stupid, u r emotional fool, u dont know how to deal with ur husband, i dont know how u will comeup in life, please help me for the answer

2007-07-02 16:19:36 · 5 answers · asked by rimple m 1