Marriage & Divorce - 29 June 2007

i want to have a affair with a married woman because my wife well not give me sex,it has been three years,just because i am married does not mean i lost all my needs,i have tryed to talk with her about it,any ideas??help,i am horney

2007-06-29 23:47:58 · 33 answers · asked by notsohardtofigure 3

I was unpacking some things at my boyfriends last night and came across some of my old wedding pictures. I showed them to my boyfriend because he wanted to see them awhile ago.

A couple of minutes later, I went back into the same room as him and asked if he could see us getting married. We used to talk about it when we first met but haven't in a long time. I then asked if he ever wanted to get married again. (He's been divorced 2 times). He said "To the right person."

This offended me and I asked him what I am to him then. He asked if I think I'm the right person and I said no. He then said "why do you say that?"

He said I read into things too much, I'm insecure and he loves me. I don't know what to think by his comments though. And honestly, I don't know if I ever want to get married again.

2007-06-29 23:36:56 · 12 answers · asked by torn 3

2007-06-29 23:29:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

what were the consiquences?do you regret it?are you having one now?

2007-06-29 23:15:44 · 15 answers · asked by hunniiuk 5

why the divorce incerese in development country?

2007-06-29 23:01:01 · 14 answers · asked by ilnaz_nia 1

ok we were dating/having sex etc... like four years ago. we had a fight and within a month he already moved in with another girl. this is his current wife. i tried to get ahold of him and get him back an dhe ignored me. when i finally got ahold of him he bragged about his new woman and how happy he was. he called again to brag that he got her pregnatn. he even called and aksed me to sleep w/ him whlie she was in the hospital over night after she had his kid. i said NO. i got sick ofh im and chewed him out and did not talk to him for four years. years later we ran into each other on a web site. talked on email and such both admitting we miss each other and he said im his soul mate the one who got away. and also during our 3 years of not talking he has married the mother of his child. he kept talking how much he loves me and she is horrible to him , bla bla bla. then says he cant dump her cuase he will have to pay child support. he still wants to talk to me on the side but ONLY when s

2007-06-29 22:33:15 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband does not have sex with me for the past 9 mons, he left 3 mos ago, i have not seen him since, before he left i would ask him if he had someone else, he said no, now please explain to me how can a man, my husband sleep next to me and have no intrest in me, he would not touch me or kiss me while we were in bed. but the weirdest thing is this, when we not in a bedroom setting let say when we go out or even around the house he was very loving with me, he carress me , he will hug and always ask me to sit beside him, he was caring. but i can not explain how he just stopped having sex or making love to me, he would simply fall asleep in bed and towards the end fall asleep in the sofa, I am a very confuse wife and my self-esteem is in the bottom of the ocean,if someone is going thru this please let me know, thank you

2007-06-29 22:18:20 · 8 answers · asked by karen c 2

My husband cheated on me emotionally, not sexually, two years ago. I found out when his girlfriend tried to blackmale him. He confessed and called the police. We went through counciling and later decided to try to have a baby. Now, I have a month old baby and found out that he has been cheating for the past year and even proposed to her! I want to work it out. I love him and want our family to stay together! What can I do?

2007-06-29 22:08:31 · 22 answers · asked by Mandy 1

my two kids are four now and dont look anything like me , they actually look like two of my coworkers:( everyone can see it:(

2007-06-29 21:53:02 · 11 answers · asked by franco blanco 1

im not sure?

2007-06-29 21:41:36 · 13 answers · asked by verbal kent 1

2007-06-29 20:30:32 · 13 answers · asked by kajal m 1

2007-06-29 20:00:26 · 18 answers · asked by anish s 1

2007-06-29 19:53:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm home with the kids while he's out drinking and having a good time. I guess I'm not worth enough to be taken along.

2007-06-29 19:41:51 · 9 answers · asked by SugarFreeRedBull 1

My fiance loves to dance and i have tried many times but i just have no rhythm. At this 35+ club, he likes to dance with close friends. I know there is no way that he would cheat on me, but the fact that he wants to touch other women like that bothers me INCREDIBLY. Am i wrong? Please be honest.

2007-06-29 19:24:20 · 13 answers · asked by shanleywins 1

He goes everynight with his guy friends, i have a feeling he is cheating on me, or maybe doing drugs behind my back, he keeps coming home with all red eyes and just wants to go to sleep. How do i ask him if he is cheating or doing drugs without him getting mad at me. I dont want to hear "let him do drugs", he stopped when we got together and he seemed really proud of himself, now i dont know if i shoudl be proud or pissed off, if he still is doing them.

2007-06-29 19:08:09 · 14 answers · asked by wavemaster1821 2

My girlfriend is selfish ,she's also a taker more than a giver, she has the worst mood swings, and she's never wrong. I now ,break up with her right. She just told me she's pregnant. Any advice on how i should with handle this or maybe the best way to handle a situation like this one. Should i stay or should i go?

2007-06-29 19:06:31 · 17 answers · asked by Nas 1

2007-06-29 19:05:22 · 21 answers · asked by ericaasberry 1

why do i get so furious when i know he's been "playing" cribbage with the town whore. our sex life is all but over. it was great but i cannot bring myself to enjoy him or the act because of all the emotional abuse and because he is with a whore once or twice a month. why do i get mad. i don't want to be with him and when i am i wish it would end quickly. he pleasures me mostly. i can't even stomach the thought of doing anything for him, he has her, why should i. why can't i just let it be. who cares. anything but this dumb whore and i go off the deep end.

2007-06-29 18:57:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He works hard and makes good money. Loves his kids and his kids love him. Is talented and intelligent. The problem is he doesnt back me up on anything or support me in anyway. He ignores me almost completley. He is passive aggressive and is constantly "pushing me down". He tells me what to do all the time, how to drive, what to say, what mood I should be in etc. I am no longer attracted to him physically or otherwise. He says things are all my fault because of my prior depression issue that kind of soured things to start with. Now that Im better, hes not there for me. Its like its too bad to fix now. Hes not a "friend" or a lover. He spends umteen hours playing war games on the computer to escape from being with me. If I try to talk to him, he says Im blaming him for everything and that its me who needs to change for things to get better. Or he gets way defensive. It always turns into an argument. Hes impossible talk to and just thinks Im a complainer. He thinks it all me

2007-06-29 18:46:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-06-29 18:30:53 · 2 answers · asked by Aija 4

P.S. This question is only meant for the Indian audience. Please do not answer if you don't know what I am talking about...

2007-06-29 18:16:49 · 7 answers · asked by M 1

i was at lunch and these two girls sat down at my table, and they are talking and one says to the other my husband has E D problems it was loud enough for all of us to hear!!! now when this guy comes to work to pick up his wife we will all know

2007-06-29 18:16:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We hardly have sex, however when we do it's fantastic, but I can't decide if the sex is really good or am I just desperate.

2007-06-29 18:11:17 · 13 answers · asked by Sharon W 2

My husband recently took on a new job that requires him to work more hours and they are odd hours. All this week he is working from 5 in the afternoon until 2 in the morning and often times he just works until there is a break and he is allowed to leave with no set departure time. They have a no cell phone policy so he can't even call me on breaks and check up on me. We have a 7 month old daughter and currently I am taking summer classes. For about the past 3 months we have been home pretty much all the time together and im not used to not having his support and help. When he is home he just sleeps and drinks beer. I'm trying to finish my degree and currently I don't have a job so he is the sole supporter of the family. I am thankful for his job and the money it gives us but we rarely see each other, our sex life is gone and when we do see each other we are so frustrated that we just fight! Is it time to call it quits? By the way I'm 18 he's 23 and we have been married about 9 months.

2007-06-29 17:55:13 · 36 answers · asked by barbieisagoddess 3

I've been with my husband for 6 yrs. We have a child & 1 on the way.

Sadly our marriage has been hanging by a thread for some time now. We're becoming so incredibly different, and not in a healthy way. I'm 24, he's 27. In our early years, we liked to go out a lot, and you might even say we were bar flies. This past year, I have finally started to mature and want my life pointed in a different direction. For example, I want to be family focused,start going to church, maybe volunteer work, etc. While I like going out and doing things, I definately have no desire to live the party life anymore.

He seems to think that I'm calling quits on my life, and doesn't want to be "married to a grandma". His mentality is stuck at that of a 19 yr old's. His friends are huge drinkers, that barely ever work, and pathetically live at home still.
When we try to talk about it, there is no resolution. We argue until our faces turn blue. We both want the other to change.

Should I consider divor

2007-06-29 17:42:51 · 18 answers · asked by Lyndsey G 3

I handle all the finances and I wish that my husband would do it. The only problem with that is he was terrible at it. That is why I took it over when we moved in together. When we got married I was already handling everything. Sometimes it is very stressful and his ex-wife ruined his credit. Sometimes I feel like I am the husband and he is the wife. Does anyone else feel like they could step back in time to the 1950's and let the husband handle everything?

2007-06-29 16:44:27 · 13 answers · asked by csize 2

We have 3 kids, just had twins 3 months ago. I've tried everything, talking to him, letters, books, counseling. He tries to make me happy with THINGS. He buys me everything. But when I ask for his time, or intamacy, or foreplay, he can't give it to me. I know he has issues, maybe I do, I don't know. I love the man, but I am very lonely because he is so closed. I don't work. Couldn't possibly support the three kids alone. I have no family or friends to turn to becuase he was always jealous or angry with something they did and I chose him. Wondering how the hell I even got here. Sick of feeling so alone. This yahoo answers sometimes feels like my only human contact besides my babies. Isn't that sad? I know you're thinking he's abusive, he's not. Just very closed and angry all the time. Try to make him open up and laugh and it pisses him off. He's around all the time, so he's not cheating, but he's never "here". Always tv and computer. Says its relaxing. Any advice?

2007-06-29 16:20:40 · 23 answers · asked by shelby 2

Back about 5 years ago I met a man on the opposite side of the country from me. We fell in love and I was going to move out there but he got scared, etc. Needless to say I didn't move. We kept in touch a little but hadn't seen each other since this past week at a work conference. Now here we are both married, him for almost 3 yrs, me 2 yrs. Seeing him was as if we picked up where we left off 5 yrs ago. I was able to ask the "why's" and we both admitted that we wished I had moved out there. Neither one of us are happy in the sexual part of our marriages. We rekindled old flames and now here is where I am at odds. I guess I feel like if two people have such strong feelings and chemisty why shouldn't we be together? We still love each other. Do we ignore it and go back to our lives as if all is normal? It was all I could do to be at home today and see my husband as I wished he was this other man. Advice?

2007-06-29 16:18:37 · 10 answers · asked by Stacy J 1

I have been married now almost 10 years and we still are not where most ppl are in there marraige....mu husband believes that he is the only one who can do what he wants to and he believes that he doesn't have to help me financially I mean I literally have to borrow the money I need from him and pay him back...........he doesn't have any respect for me or us as a family.......I know that I am tired and ready for a new begginning should I talk to him AGAIN or let it go, I have everything I could want for myself and my kids but no happiness........please help

2007-06-29 16:09:01 · 20 answers · asked by ms attitude 1