Marriage & Divorce - 29 June 2007

If your wife or g/f asked you to masturbate in front of her would you,or would you think thats weird?

2007-06-29 10:18:15 · 10 answers · asked by the_kikione 3

my husband is deploying in a month. lately i've have highly emotional. i'm feeling depressed and then getting mad at my husband, but i feel guilty about it. i'll feel fine but then find myself feeling very irritated for any little thing. i don't want to feel this way but i can't help it. i want to support my husband because i love him and be there for him. two things i can think of either i'm pregnant because i have the symptoms and i'm a week late OR i'm PMSing bad. any advice or something please. :(

2007-06-29 09:59:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let me start by saying I was married for almost 18 years, got divorced made some stupid mistakes and lied to get myself out of them. I have been trying to get back with my ex-wife but i thaink from all the things that have happend that may no longer be an option. I am trying so hard to show her that I can never do such harmful things to her again, but i think she may be past all of this. she recently started to date and its killing me not that i didnt also but now i know what it feels like to be on the other side of the equasion since she told me she really likes this guy who has more to offer her money that sort of stuff. i can only offer myself and my love and being faithfull and no more lies.

2007-06-29 09:57:30 · 12 answers · asked by Jev 1

my husband has short time sex i dont have orgasm
im female 30 age
what can i do?

2007-06-29 09:56:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am an INDIAN and live in LUCKNOW (UP) .My wife left my house in 22 june 2006, can i get a divorce as there is no contact and no relation with her .?
I was married in 1997 (arranged) and since then the in laws had lot of invovement in my personnel life,i purchased a house worth 20laks in her name (all payments done by me and ther is a loan too in my name from ICICI),on 22 june 2006 she left my house taking out all gold etc and she also never loved me and my daughter.she has not come back and she has since then not bothered to see her daughter too. I am passing a hard time as the basic education ,upbringing is a trouble for me for my daughter. can i get and how could i get a divorce .I have written and sent letters to ssp LUCKNOW THROUGH REGISTERED POST,plz help,i have not gone to court till now as i am in private job .what should i do to get a divorce

2007-06-29 09:55:06 · 6 answers · asked by vinaychoubey 1

I was married in 1997 (arranged) and since then the in laws had lot of invovement in my personnel life,i purchased a house worth 20laks in her name (all payments done by me and ther is a loan too in my name from ICICI),on 22 june 2006 she left my house taking out all gold etc and she also never loved me and my daughter.she has not come back and she has since then not bothered to see her daughter too. I am passing a hard time as the basic education ,upbringing is a trouble for me for my daughter. can i get and how could i get a divorce .I have written and sent letters to ssp LUCKNOW THROUGH REGISTERED POST,plz help,i have not gone to court till now as i am in private job .what should i do to get a divorce.

2007-06-29 09:45:38 · 26 answers · asked by vinaychoubey 1

I was married for 8 years & my bro in law (sis husband) is good friends with my ex. Me & my ex husband do NOT get along for many different reasons, it was a horrible divorce, & everyone in my family is very well aware of this. I have a boyfriend now, who I have been with a little over 2 years & who I plan to marry. So naturally I bring him around for family events and etc...What is bothering me is that 4th of July is coming up and I'm concerned that my brother in law is going to invite my ex husband over. This makes for an uncomfortable situation, not only for me but for everyone. I know he's my brother in laws friend but I feel it's disrespectful to everyone to do this. I know how my parents are, and they will probably feel awkward because it's like okay,so do we talk to him? Do we not? I just think that him being there will make everyone walk on egg shells when we should all be comfortably enjoying ourselves. Not to mention, he is no longer a part of this family. Any thoughts?

2007-06-29 09:40:14 · 36 answers · asked by glittereyedg 4

I know a man have been cheating on his wife all their marriage,I also know her,she is a very jealous woman,she would divorce him if she know. I also feel very sorry for her because she do not know. should I tell her?

2007-06-29 09:39:39 · 35 answers · asked by sska 1

2007-06-29 09:38:16 · 31 answers · asked by Lue R 3

What is he thinking? He thought it would be better if we lived apart for a while,and I agree.The kids aren't really understanding it all.So I got a place, getting everything slowly but surely, but almost everyday when I say i'm going to my place(kids are sleeping at his becuz I didn't have new beds until yesterday)he tells me I can stay and eat and even stay the night there if I want?And even gone as far as waking me to go get into bed.But everynight he's playing his game.On sun. I went to be with the kids but they were at the movies and he played his game,barely talked to me,but then invites me to dinner with them,and told me I didn't have to go back to the apartment I could stay there.He is acting nicer and i'm thankful for it but why?Why now?
A little 411-we have been together for more then a decade but in the last 1-1 1/2 yrs. it seems that we fight and argue about anything but nothing.Neither one of us wants our family to break uphowever neither one of us are backing down

2007-06-29 09:25:52 · 18 answers · asked by bjustnape 2

2007-06-29 09:24:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm at the pharmacy and this woman comes up to me and says, "I dont know how to tell you this, but if it were me I would want to know....I saw your husband at the bar the other night and he was bumping and grinding with this woman on the dance floor. She said, in her opinion, he should only be dancing like that with his wife. To me, it must have looked very bad for someone to feel so compelled to tell me that. I just think thats wrong. If you are married and cant "reasonably" dance with someone else, then you shouldnt be dancing at all. Am I wrong? I dont dance like that with other men. The only one i want rubbing all up on my body like that is my husband; and he obviously dont' share that point of view.

2007-06-29 09:21:54 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-29 09:09:40 · 2 answers · asked by abdallahi s 1

I can't seem to stop, people think i'm strange and now i'm starting to wonder. I have several pornographic dvd's along with a whole collection of movies that i have made with various partners. I sit around some days and feel bad for enjoying this type of thing so much, like i don't want to leave the house and i'm embarrased. Sex is on my mind 24 hours a day and always has been. Is there a place to get help for this?

2007-06-29 09:05:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont drink, hang out in bars, dont physically or mentally abuse, I am not bad looking. I do travel alittle. I do more than half the house work. I just dont understand.

2007-06-29 08:57:11 · 14 answers · asked by Rodg 1

What can i do to her to keep her wanting to come back for more? (Besides going down on her)

2007-06-29 08:52:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every now and then I hook up with this guy. When we get intimate, it's great. But midway through, he goes limp. Isn't he turned on?

2007-06-29 08:51:10 · 7 answers · asked by Shelly 1

and sympathize with them?

Or do you realize that there are two sides to every story and that you're only hearing the one that the single parent wants you to hear, so that you will sympathize with them and validate their decisions?

Does this change for you if the parent you're speaking to is a man or a woman? Has custody or doesn't?

Do you have any interesting stories of people who you used to believe with regards to their sad victim stories, but now realize that they were making it all up (either conciously or unconciously)? Why do you think they were doing that?

2007-06-29 08:32:25 · 14 answers · asked by Maureen 7

we just broke up and she is planing on taking the baby out of state

2007-06-29 08:12:13 · 9 answers · asked by Guillermo G 1

I am in my middle thirties. My husband is 40. We have been married for 13 years. I am very interested in sex and would like to have it as often as possible. He used to want sex all the time. Now he says he just doesn't have the desire. We have had sex twice in the entire month of June. In the past few months, I can probably count on one hand the number of times we've had sex. There is no conversation, no emotional connection, there is no non-sexual intimacy (hand holding, kissing, back rubs, nothing) and now there is no sex either. I try to initiate and he says "Why can't we just lay here together." I have tried numerous times to tell him how I feel this, although not everything, is very important in our relationship. I have tried to compromise with him and ask him for sexual attention 2-3 times a week. He says, "Why is there a number on it?" He doesn't understand how hurt I am over the rejection, loss of affection, love, care, etc. I'm afraid divorce is in the near future. Any advice?

2007-06-29 08:11:31 · 25 answers · asked by WS 2

2007-06-29 08:01:04 · 13 answers · asked by julian b 1

Other statistics:

per 1000 people per year on average:

marriage rate divorce rate

Germany: 5.2 2.37

France: 5.2 1.98

Holland: 5.6 2.12

Japan 6.3 1.98

Israel: 6.6 1.74

Poland 5.5 1.09

South Africa 3.5 0.85

Denmark 6.7 2.54

Australia 5.9 2.61

United Kingdom 5.1 4.19

United States 8.2 4.19

From 2005

2007-06-29 08:00:27 · 12 answers · asked by cotterall&elaineadams 2

Oftenttimes I've heard the terms "retreating" or 'going into his cave" described when a man walks out on an argument or disappears. My husband used to do this early into our relationship when living together & even early in our marriage.
He used to go off & disappear, later finding out maybe a week later that he was staying w/ his brother or some other guy friend.
Are women supposed to try & understand this? Well I did test a few times whether he was where he said he was and yeah, he was just off in his cave "retreating" or whatever. He doesn't do this anymore, but it doesn't make it any easier to forgive even years later. This behavior clashes w/ my own fear of abandonment and rejection And caused me to become very angry, resentful and hateful towards him. I feel this behavior destroys relationships and don't see why anyone would act this way if they really love the person they are with. I used to suffer so much when he did this, if it wasn't for our 2 boys leaving him wld be easy.

2007-06-29 07:55:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

how old were u when u got married and how old was your spouse?...where did yall get married and how many people were there?

2007-06-29 07:54:02 · 57 answers · asked by I love Dionne 3

2007-06-29 07:51:19 · 9 answers · asked by cotterall&elaineadams 2

My wife and I separated.

She took me for granted in the past. Now, we're getting back together.

She's realized what she's done and her feelings are strong.

I agreed to move back in a month or two, but her feelings for me are much stronger than my feelings for her.

I agreed to move in...but my feelings need time to re-develop; if they ever develop 100%.

We hung out last weekend. She asked me today how much I miss her. I said "a lot."

But I really don't miss her a lot. Maybe just a little, honestly.

I can't go on like this. How do I explain to her that I don't want any talk like that, or any talk about kids together and stuff like that?

When she talks like that, it pressures me because I don't feel the way she does.

I need her to relax and let my feelings develop.

2007-06-29 07:38:28 · 28 answers · asked by hershey highway road thug 2

I have told my wife several times that I want a divorce. She will argue back and threaten me. Later on she will be nice and act as if nothing ever happened. I am bound determine to go through with it at first. Then she starts to act nice and I cannot bring myself to go through with it. I know we both are very miserable. We do not sleep in the same room and we rarely talk to each other unless it is her telling me to do this or that or to argue with me.
She has made it where I do not feel comfortable when I am at home. The only thing that brings me happiness are my kids. When I get home from work she has a fit it I sit down and try to relax. She has a fit if I watch any TV. She insists that the kids are not allowed to eat any meat. I am suppose to clean up after her and the kids when I get home. The kids are as old as 16.
I have never been with anyone who is as evil as she is. She lets me know how she hates my family and friends. She is a compulsive liar.

2007-06-29 07:30:17 · 28 answers · asked by soon2bdivorce 1

I am worred about my future, with marriage. Indians have arranged marriages, like about 75% these days. My parents and my parents parents had arranged marriages. But I dont want to have them because It would feel weird getting married to a man who is actually like a stranger to a girl. My parents only saw each other once and they never met again until the night of theyre wedding. Isn't that kind of unfair? Dont we need to meet the people our parents are going to marry us too?

I have decided by myself that when I go to college I start dating indian men. I dont want to get married to a complete indian stranger ( by the means of how my parents choose things this guy might be ugly too). So how do you love a arranged man for you? How do you connect? How do you have a honeymoon with this "stranger"?
Can someone please explain why indians have arranged marriages? Can someone please explain to me why we cant let modern civilaztion take over?
Thanks
Nithya

2007-06-29 07:25:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, my real question is, "Can you lust after your own spouse, or are the lusty feelings just part of the package, with no harm, no foul"?

2007-06-29 07:21:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with him for three years now, and this has been on and off our entire relationship: this whole porn issue. I am at my wits end here... we are both in leadership positions at our church...and we are engaged now! ENGAGED! He is the youth minister, and I found nasty porn videos and thumbnails in his laptop! The bible says when another man looks at another woman with lust, he has committed adultery with her in his heart and mind. So, he has cheated on me. I love him, but I can't deal with this in a marriage OH NO. Should I give him an ultimatim or should I tell him GOODBYE. (remember we have a youth group) ( I am praying about this, but I would like some opinions....)

2007-06-29 07:14:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous