Marriage & Divorce - 26 June 2007

i went with his grandmother and our 2 daughters every thing was chillin untill he called to see wat i was wearng . who cares i had a bikini top with sum shorts not even a bikini bottom SHORTS . were still not speaking wat did i do wrong he new we were going

2007-06-26 23:56:49 · 17 answers · asked by j&me4etErNitY 1

we have not disclosed our love to each other but we are engaged in a joint bussiness and we meet almost everyday even if i dont go to office he comes to my home to meet me ,that gives us immense satisfaction . my husband is in abroad and visit india once in 6 months . pls help.

2007-06-26 23:55:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been estranged from my husband for just over a year. My current partner & I would like to get engaged - is this possible?

2007-06-26 23:46:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

after finding out that my man of nearly 20 yr relationship has been fooling around with a woman i thought was a friend of mine, and deciding to forgive him and try to work things out since we do have a 12 yr old daughter to consider as well as all the years we've been together, i didn't want to just throw it all away, because i really do love him with all my heart and soul and i feel this is just a bump in the road and we can get past it. my only real concern is that he thinks there are 3 sides to this story... his mine and hers and i don't feel that she should have any say so in how we work things out. She knew perfectly well that he had a family already and decided to get involved when she discovered we were not getting along. Instead of being a true friend and trying to help us resolve our issues she took advantage of the situation and played with his heart and almost had him convinced that he was in love with her. I thank god that she was exposed to be messing around with another

2007-06-26 23:36:06 · 15 answers · asked by narrisah 1

2007-06-26 22:22:06 · 16 answers · asked by sweet 1

I'm not talking about just a sex thing...i mean when people are pretty much engaged or getting close to that point...why is it such a bad thing to live together? Shouldnt that be a good thing? A test period before they get married so they can see how it will be AFTER they are married, and know better if it will work out? You should learn how to live with each other and make sure you can stand each other before you tie the knot, shouldnt you?

2007-06-26 21:52:54 · 13 answers · asked by 17*mezzo*17 3

How could it happen?

Why?

Have you ever been there?

What would you do?

2007-06-26 21:03:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

name everything you can think of. thanks

2007-06-26 21:00:56 · 21 answers · asked by That Guy Drew 6

This is further to my question posted some days back reg. my husband . He again pledged his diamond ring and told me that he has pledged it for the sake of his brother's friend who repaid his brother's credit card debt as this friend was urgently need of money then atlast I asked that boy and he refused of borrowing any money from my husband. In addition to this I found out just a few days before he had pledged my earrings which I had hidden inside the cupboard fearing that he will take it some how he has found out and pledged it. My family members and myself asked him why he is spending so much of money whether he has got any habit of gambling, drugs /drinks etc he is refusing of having anything. Now my people have come to a conclusion to keep a condition before him that he has to tell the truth what for the money is spent if he doesn't come out with the truth we will go for separation. I really don't know what will be the outcome. One thing is sure I do not want to live with hm

2007-06-26 20:54:44 · 14 answers · asked by janu 1

2007-06-26 20:42:46 · 13 answers · asked by Samuel P 1

I say Godliness...use a different word to fill in the blank.

2007-06-26 20:19:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing this woman for the past 5 months, we met when I was sitting with a friend that was a girl, waiting for others to turn up, and she walked in with friends & came over to our table. I caught sight of her & her of me, our eyes locked and the emotion was intense. I later found out that she was married & had 2 children, there was something about her that I couldn't say no, neither could she.
We started to see each other while she was with her husband, spending nights 2gether in hotels then 1 night we got together, and decided to stay an extra night, we pushed the boundaries & she and I got caught. I think she wanted to get caught!

She decided to leave him, she spent loads of special time with me, falling in love. they got married cause she was pregnant with there first child, and know she has gone bck to him because it better for the kids, but she is truley unhappy, she says it's for a 3 month trail if it doesn't work then she is all mine...what do i do?

2007-06-26 19:45:56 · 20 answers · asked by grandcuemasterflash 1

Married 15yrs and she has lost all desire for sex with me or anyone..what to do now?

2007-06-26 19:41:22 · 20 answers · asked by luckycobalt 3

2007-06-26 19:36:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

trusting too much a guy i dated for almost 2 months now. He claims to hate liars but am seeing otherwise. He lied about his true feelings towards me. He just lured me to believe so he can sleep with me and ye we did. Sadly, I have put my body & soul into this but I seem to have met the same old 'playboy' man from mars.
Has it ever occur to you guys that hurting a woman (in particular) can happen the same to your sister?

Ok, now guys & gurls..hit me hard so I stop seeing this man. I hate myself for giving in too soon. I hate sex without love. Say all that you want to say..help me convince myself that I have been used & that i should stop seeing him.

Thank you & will appreciate your opinion.

Posted it here..bcuz I want to hear from the older folks (no offense)(mature ones..i suppose.)

2007-06-26 19:27:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-26 19:23:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I seperated 6 months ago, I left him because of his attitude and infidelity. After healing from the hurt, I decided to work on the marriage, he says he now wants a divorce after all this time he has wanted to go to councling and save it. he says he want's to see if his relationship with this new women will work. He says he still loves me, but how can he love me and be with another. He says he does not want to rush the divorce. Should I just get the divorce or try to win him back?

2007-06-26 19:20:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to what my mother should do to get rid of it. Me and my sister are not getting any way. my mother is 42 year old.

2007-06-26 19:15:02 · 11 answers · asked by SANDY ROCKS 1

2007-06-26 19:09:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is like a super duper promise....sucks!

Regular promises are hard enough to keep...but "vows"...come now wemen give me a break.

When's the last time you broke a promise?

People can't even keep their new years resolutions...and those are supposed to be "serious" too.

2007-06-26 19:05:27 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3

that I cannot have the type of sexual relationship that I want with the woman that I am with (currently my wife). I have always been able to have a satisfying sexual relationship with any of the women that I have previously been involved with even at the end of those relationships. I am at my wits end and don't know what to do. DO NOT tell me to "Spank my monkey", of course that is always an option and that gets old too. I like to satisfy my woman during love making and the emotional toll that it is having on me and our relationship is immeasurable. I am starting to doze off at work during the day because I cannot sleep at night because I am not being mentally fulfilled and the abundant frustration is starting to take a major toll on our once well healed relationship. I DO NOT KNOW where to go in our relationship at this point. I am a good husband, father, son and community leader. But here I sit again up for another 2-3 hours when I should be sleeping. Thank you for any help.

2007-06-26 19:01:49 · 20 answers · asked by donmattingly3 2

2007-06-26 18:55:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean, I always thought that men had the control in the relationship really. I just need help to understand why so many men fault women, when they have not recognized or either fullfilled their role or moved into the lead role. It would be my course in a situation like this to be upset with my personal self and effect change! I know we all bring our "stuff" to the table, and having stated that, I find that I look for a man to lead more than he is aware that it is necessary, effectively. I think that personal goal setting and improvement is key, and necessary for a truly fullfilling relationship. I consider that I ask questions of this nature, tenacious in a prepatory way, having already been in a long term marriage and looking forward to the next and positively thinking, the best! Sincerely, peace and thanks!

2007-06-26 18:55:43 · 7 answers · asked by duccees 3

we are freinds but used to date. he is marreid now he knows i still like him but i know he is married and we are keeping it on a friend level. he has metnioned several activites she is doing that sounds like abuse to me adn that hes scared to leave her becuase he is scared he wont be able to aford child support payments. im in a legal class right now tonight we learned how to calcuate child support i sent him a link to the online child support calculateor and told him its ' in case he is curios ' cuase i know thats one of his worries , and then like a hour later i was talking to an abused frined of mine and looked up an abuse help site for her and several of the signs of abuse sounded like my guy-frineds wife. i wrote him out of concern and said that i foudn this site and several of the abuse signs fit his wife and that i was trying to be helpful as a freind and im sorry if i am wrong and overstepped my boudnary but i care about him... a friend of mine just pointed out that this might

2007-06-26 18:49:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to go back to being just being boyfriend and girlfriend....its there a way to do this?

That way I don't have all these wacky rules I have to follow...

2007-06-26 18:47:33 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3

Now that you have moved on in life, do you regret the changes that have taken place? Was the grass greener on this side of the fence?

2007-06-26 17:41:23 · 10 answers · asked by realchurchhistorian 4

My husband has had an emotional relationship with someone. He say's that it never got physical, but they talked and e-mail each other alot and talked about a future together. I have been sick and drugged, but I am better now. I confronted them and they have agreed to stop. He is there for me and my children, but I am very insecure. I'm trying to just move on, but not sure he is telling me everything. I feel I need to know to protect myself or just to be able to make an informed decision. Do I really need to know particulars? I feel if he doesn't tell me, he is still fantasizing about the relationship.

2007-06-26 17:34:04 · 10 answers · asked by Nicole 3

You probably already seen a similar question....Your wife has been seeing this guy for 8 months...during witch your time in bed with her gets shoot off all together.

When I asked why she was comfortable with hime instaed of a female, she exclaimed that we really must know, he was gay. WOW. We were all taken aback. A Week later, she says he isn't gay, but likes guy people.And she said, he has two little girls. This guy does hypnotise my wife.

MY WIFE SHAVED HER PUSSY LAST NIGHT...SHE SEES HIM wednesday.(this is tuesday night)

I want to get ahold of her panties when she takes them off and have then tested for sperm. Any ideas?
In the mean time, I, her husband, gets nothing, nothing nothing.

She has been tanning everyday, and is starting to look hot again.

Is she cheating or not. ???????????????????//

2007-06-26 17:27:57 · 18 answers · asked by not for now 2

Alot of people called me gay because i said i loved my freinds more than mi life, but of course the lord n family come first, but now im irritated because im sensitive, not like im cryin, but now im bothered!! Am i gay because i love my freinds and always worry about them n think they r pretty? I LIKE A GUY THOUGH! please help now im kinda scared, i wanna live a life for jesus i dont wanna be a lesbian! Why do people say this?

2007-06-26 17:18:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

staying up tonight and what time is it where you are....and where are you?

2007-06-26 17:05:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous