Marriage & Divorce - 26 June 2007

todays young crowd including me want to marry of our beloved one. But as per the local survey arrange marriage is more succesful than love one.i have trust on love but practical is different. r u agree or what u want to say

2007-06-26 04:12:46 · 23 answers · asked by apu 1

I love my boyfriend. He loves me. Here is the problem: he is from Jordan and lives there, but he is here this summer. Everything was great at the beginning, but a week ago his father called him to tell him to come home. Why? Because he wants my boyfriend to marry his cousin in an arranged marriage.

My boyfriend broke the news to me about 3 days ago. He spent the days before that calling and pleading with his father to reconsider, since he is in love with me. His father is not moved. Even worse, my boyfriend’s sister is getting married and she is only 17. My boyfriend loves her very much and wants to do everything to stop the wedding. His father has said that he will stop the wedding if my boyfriend comes back and gets married. Also, if he does not go through with his own wedding, he is disowned.

My boyfriend feels utterly defeated. He has given up, but I don’t want to yet.

I am heartbroken. I want to marry this boy, I don’t want him to marry his cousin.

2007-06-26 04:12:36 · 5 answers · asked by Rach 3

2007-06-26 04:04:38 · 19 answers · asked by Carl 1

I am getting married in about 2 1/2 weeks and have been debating with myself whether I should keep my maiden name. I would keep my maiden name, maybe as a middle name since I dont have one, and just add my fiances last name. I wouldnt hyphenate either. I just want to see how many women are doing this and age range. I wouldnt really tell people that I kept my maiden name, I mean they could still call Mrs. His last name. But just down on paper and stuff I would have it be my name, lastname and husbands last name. And I am not doing this because I dont think we will be together forever, if I thought that I wouldnt be marrying him! I am doing it because to me my last name is very important, I love it, its me, and I could care less about tradition in this case. So how many women out there have kept their maiden name and added husbands? How do you feel about it, are you happy with it?

2007-06-26 04:03:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wife and I have been married for 12 years with 3 kids. Sex had started to come mostly in the form of quickies and with a lack of passion. We have always been very open with each other and neither of us are the jealous type. A couple that we had been close friends with a few years back before they moved away and the wife and I rented a beach house in Florida for a week. The first night after the kids went to bed the conversation turned into a very open adult conversation. Nothing physical or even any open suggestions about the others spouse. When we went to bed my wife was on “fire”. She admitted that she thought Brad was hot and had had impure thoughts over the last few hours about him. We had the best sex we had in years. Funny thing was that the next morning Brad and I went on the “Donut” breakfast run he said that he and his wife had fantastic sex that night.
The week continued with plenty of talk, innuendos, and flirting but no physical boundaries crossed. The fact that during conversations we had all admitted that the others we found the others spouse attractive, the vacation atmosphere, and the general lack of clothing involved with the beach created a rejuvenating atmosphere for all of us in the sex department. The wife and I still use this experience 1 year later as fantasy material while having sex. Anyone else very experience something like this?

2007-06-26 04:01:00 · 14 answers · asked by Brian 5

2007-06-26 03:56:05 · 23 answers · asked by tear streeked angel 1

Is it "legal" for a wife and husband to check each other's email? I let him check mine, but he gets mad when I check his. His work email is always logged on so I can check anytime I want to. Today I just saw that he lied to someone in an email. How can I let him know about this lie without letting him know I've read his email?

2007-06-26 03:44:30 · 14 answers · asked by boogers 2

2007-06-26 03:16:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

FOR SOME RESON I KEEP COMING ACROSS MEN LIKING ALL THE SAME LOOKS ON WOMEN. I WAS WONDERING IF THERE ARE ANY MEN OUT THERE WHO WOULDN'T GIVE UP THEIR LIVES, WIVES AND FAMILIES JUST TO BE WITH A SKINNY BLONDE CHICK!

2007-06-26 03:16:11 · 4 answers · asked by tayi-baby 1

He feels that its all about me all the time and i feel like its all about him. I come home from and ask what he wants for supper and clean whatever needs to be cleaned. He's a nurse so he doesnt work all week. He clames he doesnt cook because he doesnt do a good job. he doesnt let the dog out when he gets up i do it when i get home. I do pretty much anything for him. I dont feel appriciated. He does help clean up but if he sees that i'm cleaning he wont ask to help he'll just go watch tv. we've been married 2 months now and have been having problems the whole time. He claims that he's the one giving in all the time and i guess that's why he feels like it's all about me. I dont want him to give in i want to come up with a solution to the problems. we always argue about the same things and he cant understand why. I'm to the point where i'm starting not to care. i'm a lovy dovy person and for a bout a week now i'm just keeping my distance.

2007-06-26 03:16:06 · 19 answers · asked by Just married 1

I am a christian, my lawyer says I have the right to see them but I do not want to do anything to upset them. She is really just using them against me. What do I do?

2007-06-26 03:05:23 · 23 answers · asked by jdjackson74 1

I need to inform my work but I need to know what they will do. I was researching on the internet and saw that I had 60 days to notify the health insurance. Does anyone know what the penalty will be?

2007-06-26 02:47:38 · 6 answers · asked by Itry 2

My husband has a pretty little 22 yr old blonde that works in construction f4 him and she sends him txt msg's at all hours. I say, "She is not ur friend, she works for you, period"! Last night @ 1:00am she is calling needing a ride to the airport 3 hours away. I said "H_ll no! Let her call on her friends or bf's. You've got no business going out in the middle of the night to go get her and take her all that way; you're a married man who finally spent a moment with ur family". He got all mad and we got into yet another big fight. I don't think they are sleeping together, but the principal. No I don't trust him to have female friends, because the last 2 "friends". Both before we were married, but were together - about 4 yrs ago.
So in all opinions am I right or am I, as he seems to think, a nagging *****?
Plz help with real answers

2007-06-26 02:31:36 · 43 answers · asked by tonyer71 2

My STB Ex-Husband left me almost 2 months ago for another girl, who is now CLAIMING to be pregnant with his kid, but 2 weeks prior it was her ex's kid. big mess, lots of stupid drama.

anyway, obviously i've never been so hurt in my entire life. my world was completely turned upside down 2 short months ago.

The thoughts of everything crowd my mind way more that it should, though it's getting much better every day. however, i haven't been able to picture my future with anyone else except my STB Ex-Husband. that is until yesterday. i even dreamed of it last night --- a new handsome husband, new baby, and a fairytale family life. it was the ultimate dream life, and in these pictures i'm soooo happy!

why do i not like what i see? why does this "happy picture" bother me sooo much? i dont want my husband back at all, yet it seems so difficult to move on. is this normal?

2007-06-26 02:25:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for 3 years and almost everyday we try to do something to tell each other" I love you more", well yesterday he really got me. He gave me a shower, washed me, my hair, shaved my legs etc. I told him I would return the favor...he says no go ahead and relax. So i got out and started drying off and he's says "and who loves who more?"...I need some suggestions on how to get him back. I am a stay at home mom with no car to go out and buy anything, so this has to be something done here at home with not purchasing anything! Thanks!

2007-06-26 02:02:37 · 10 answers · asked by mtcmmommy 3

2007-06-26 01:56:45 · 24 answers · asked by different me 1

whom he is with 9hrs 5 days a week..they drive around some very isolated n beautiful countryside daily...whenhe comes home i ask him how his day was..he is careful not to mention his partner...as he defended her 1 day saying that the guy he took over from gave her all the **** jobs...this did not go down well with me..as my job is backbracking...he has started wearing aftershave n looking smarter..(.not for me)...i had a dream that they are getting very close..i cant get rid of this feeling...what do u think???should i worry

2007-06-26 01:56:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-26 01:45:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been marries now for 4 years and have a 2 year old son; she has been going through post partum depression since the birth of our son, but was really good at hiding it. I feel like I did all of the right things and told her every day I love her and that she is the most beautiful women I have ever seen I’m a cuddle bug and MEANT IT. 3 weeks ago I found out she was having an affair with one of my friends for 6 months; she says she’s sorry and she will never do it again and says she doesn’t even know why she did it and never wants to lose me and I truly love her and want to make it work; I just can’t seem to move past the hurt, betrayal, and lack of trust.

Should I give her another chance or will she just do it again?

2007-06-26 01:41:51 · 13 answers · asked by Al-n-Val 2

I have heard some married people say that it's okay to "take" it. Some say that this is actually rape--and obviously illegal. Where is the line drawn? Does it depend on the mood of the other spouse?

2007-06-26 01:41:31 · 30 answers · asked by dantiuspalaptine 3

2007-06-26 01:40:40 · 11 answers · asked by yamel r 1

My mothers is from costa rica is mixed with Spanish from Spain,German or possibly Portugese,and Arb from Saudi Arabia.My fathers side is from NYC is mixed with Spanish from Barcelona (Catalonian people)Spain and French.I have no african blood in me and no indian blood in me that i know of or close to nill since all costa rica's natives went up to the mountains so spanish could not enslave them prefering never to come back down again.So that makes me a light olive skin complection?My passport says i am white.Hispanic is also not a race in my opinion but an ethnic backround and i do Not speak the launguage or know much about the culture.My Irish hubby thinks that because my mom is from costa rican our kids should be labeled hispanic or half hispanic for school purposes to gain benifits? I find it insulting because i consider myself a mixed american not hispanic?Am i wrong do i just go with it?

2007-06-26 01:31:06 · 14 answers · asked by Jenny I 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years now and I am really ready to get married. He knows this and tells me that he is not ready yet but we will ONE day. He also said that he is afraid that I will get tired of waiting and leave him if he doesn't ask soon enough. I do not want to give him an ultimatum on this because I only want to marry someone who truly wants to marry me. So how do I wait??? I know that sounds stupid but it hurts to know that he isn't ready yet and I've been ready for two years. I love him more than I can put into words but I think without marriage I may never truly be completely happy. But if I marry anyone else I also don't think I will every truly be happy either. I need some HELPFUL advice.
Thanks

2007-06-26 00:55:37 · 18 answers · asked by confused 1

I've been married for 18 months now and though I love my husband it has been very difficult. I have feelings for my best friend who is a male and feel that I should tell him. I don't think I actually want anything to happen between us, I would never cheat on my husband, I just want him to know how I feel as I think he feels the same way and just want that understanding between us. I think we both know that each other feels the same way but obviously we wouldn't act on it, but sometimes it feels awkward because its like we both think about it at the same time. Should I tell him how I feel, should I tell my husband? We are always honest. I think if I was to tell my best friend I would also tell my husband.

2007-06-26 00:52:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is my friend's chat and she allways finds fault with her husband. Now, you can come to know about their relation. Now Tell me... Will this relation be a success or will it pave its way for divorce?
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Me : I would like to spend some time alone and this sounds like the perfect idea
Husband : I don't know how safe this may be though I have no right in stopping you from doing what you want to do
Me : Awww come on ? Lighten up. Don't be so 1976. I need an adventure by myself
Husband : So when do you want to leave ?
Me : The day you return
Husband : And why do you choose that specific day to leave ?
Me : Well, I think you have abandoned me and expect me to sit around the apartment waiting for you come back
Husband : Abandoned you ? Working hard is abandoning you ?
Me : Er........I am the one who is left behind. I want you to know how it feels to be apart from me
Husband : Ummm.....I am very apart from you and it's not easy for me either!

2007-06-26 00:24:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it true if you've had sex you can't get an Annulment?

2007-06-26 00:00:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous