2007-06-26 01:40:40 · 11 answers · asked by yamel r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Were you snooping? Shame shame....none the less, you say something now and you'll end up the bad guy. Best thing to do is keep it, gather further evidence if there is any, and state your complaint once you have enough evidence that he can't deny is infidelity.
That is the biggest mistake we women make...jumping to conclusions, instead of building evidence so the little worms can't wiggle their way out of it.
2007-06-26 02:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not enough to find a woman's card or telephone #, do you suspect your husband? and how do you know that the card was hidden. Well you don't need to answer all that , but ask yourself whether what you are about to do will help your marriage because you don't need to start what you cannot finish or you end up becoming the bad guy.
What you should do is to give him back the card when you people are very happy together so that if he is holding something back his conscience will not let him rest and then he will stop.
2007-06-26 02:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by G.I noel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it a business card? Call it first to make sure it isn't "Marie from Capital One Bank" or anything...discreetly! Then, yes, confront him, but do it in a calm manner, do not fly off the handle or you won't find out anything from him except for denials. He's your husband, not a casual date! You have every right to ask, yes. But don't jump to conclusions - it may be something work related or such. Good luck.
2007-06-26 01:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you have suspicions anyway, or you wouldnt have found something hidden. Yes, confront him and get it over with. Things out in the open wont drive you as crazy as not knowing. Good luck.
2007-06-26 01:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Proves again how stupid men are when it comes to cheating. No honey, don't make it that easy for him. SImply take the card and tape it to the Microwave, so he'll see it first thing in the morning. Then don't say a damn word about it for the next couple of days, see what how he responds to his guilt and being busted first.
2007-06-26 02:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by bettercockster1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to confront him about it if your ever going to have a chance at fixing the problem. Just be ready for the lies that will follow and don't be a fool. Think with your head, not your heart.
2007-06-26 01:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by Flex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront is a kind of harsh word. I would try to calmly ask him what it is and just say you found it somewhere. If he responds in a shady manner, then worry.
2007-06-26 02:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if he's ever called it or not. He could have just been given it and put it away and forgotten. Look for proof of something more before you say anything.
2007-06-26 01:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by urstruly8604 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would leave it laying in plain sight, beside his dinner plate, on his night stand. Somewhere you are going to be when he sees it. Then when he looks it over, explain where you found it, then ask why he has it. Good luck
2007-06-26 02:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you should, you couldnt live with yourself if you didnt.
2007-06-26 05:44:37 · answer #10 · answered by LV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋