Marriage & Divorce - 26 June 2007

Oh, and also their children. I've noticed in the news the last few weeks that seems to be all you hear. There was a guy in Missouri who has been charged with killing his wife and three children in their vehicle. Then the guy in Ohio charged with killing his 9 months pregnant wife. I saw on the news yesterday this wrestler has killed his wife and child and himself. In a local paper here a man killed his wife, stepdaughter, then himself. He wounded a stepson, but he survived. This seems like a lot of incidents in a really short period of time. Makes me wonder if it is drugs, steroids, mental illness?

2007-06-26 07:09:44 · 15 answers · asked by zento1110 4

...like to face the door when seated at a restaurant? I hate facing a wall, but my husband insists on facing the door or alot of people.

2007-06-26 07:08:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay he doesnt bring up his wife but when talking about her he talks higly of her..He is flirt in a distint way but any chance he gets he trys. He has made comments like my wife isnt jealous. guys what would that mean? She gets a sexual vibe from him and catches him checking her out. Not to mention he is 10 years he senior she is 26 he is 36. Na d she look like Jessica Simpson..Do you think he would sleep with her if she asked ?

2007-06-26 07:02:42 · 10 answers · asked by Babydoll 1

I was married previously when I was 21 and now divorced for almost 5 years. I am now going to be getting remarried and I am wondering if it is wrong to wear a white wedding dress for a second marriage.

2007-06-26 06:52:18 · 29 answers · asked by Jay's Girl 3

I had a couple jobs, but I was told if I stayed home and took care of the house, pool, and yard he'd pay me. the fact that I lived,slept, ate, showerd there and took care of everything was payment enuff. Now he has decided he wants me gone, maybe hes found someone else or for someother reason he wants me out, I have no job, no money, and nowhere to go, I left but now I can't even get my stuff, locks are changed. What are my rights?

2007-06-26 06:36:25 · 18 answers · asked by shllkng 1

For example, the woman may have a steady career, her own home, and knows she will make it with or without a man. Do some feel threatened by this? Like this? just curious.

2007-06-26 06:24:05 · 16 answers · asked by Caroline 1

What would you say or do?????
i have a situation where my girl and i are separated So that we can get our stuff together to make a better relationship. In the past I have caught her cheating 3 times yes I should of got the point but you tend to have more leniency when your in love. We were in a relationship over 4 years, so take that into consideration. But yes trust, honesty, and loyalty are big issues. And these are all what she has broken and she was suppose to be gaining that all back. But I did find out that she is still trying to be sneaky, she told a friend that she still loves me but told her(the friend) to be careful around me because she only wants me to think that she just talking to me and that she’s getting her stuff together. My thing is she is still tryin to be sneaky and that funny to me but a shame. But what is your input and thoughts and also what and how should I tell her that I know this??? Be specific

2007-06-26 05:55:38 · 15 answers · asked by Dawn K 1

guys that want to take things to next level ?

2007-06-26 05:52:30 · 5 answers · asked by wishingstar5555 3

They are not close at all so I’d say associate. We only talked over the phone because we live in two different states. Well, we made plans to sexually hook up but that never happened. However, I did send him some explicit photos through email. I regret talking to his friend, I guess I was just lonely and was in the zone. It was dumb and stupid. Now, my ex husband and I are back together and everything is perfect. We realized what was done wrong and are going to fix it. His friend knows that we are back together and I have stopped talking to him . I basically just ignored him and changed my phone #. I am now scared that he might forward the pictures of me to my ex husband and ruin our relationship. But I don’t wanna come out and tell my ex cause he will not want to be with me. At the same time I feel I was free and did not cheat on him in any way so it is my business. But it’s still messed up because it’s his friend. Please help. . I have prayed and I do trust in God.

2007-06-26 05:51:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I read that some married folks have an arrangment were one or both will receive corrective action in the form of spanking to help them change their behaviour for a harmonius marrage

2007-06-26 05:50:41 · 27 answers · asked by gassniffer 2

2007-06-26 05:48:12 · 7 answers · asked by Vasudevan p 2

Okay, my husband of 17 years is always accusing me of cheating (fyi... I'm attractive and he's not). Any way... he finds a receipt in the street by my car, with some Corona's on it and thinks it's mine! So he accused of me going to a bar with someone basically. He kept me up all night until 2:00 A.M and I had to get up at 6:00 am. He was questioning me, calling me names, and turning up the TV loud, sitting on me, yelling in my face to tell him the truth. At this point... I really hate him. I want out! I can't stand him any more! His behavior isn't normal, it's weird and I think he needs psychological help. I’m a good person and I have never cheated, it’s not in my nature. I can’t take it any more though. We have a house we just bought 2 years ago, which I can’t afford by myself. Any advice?

2007-06-26 05:46:36 · 52 answers · asked by luv2help 5

Why won't people accept the fact that everyone has a past. Things that they are asshamed of.. That anyone can change how their future could turn out to be.. Why can't people boost them up and support them through the process of changing instead of tearing them down and telling them they can't?

2007-06-26 05:42:57 · 41 answers · asked by movu101779 3

My alimony was modified down when my X lost his job. He now has a full time job that pays very well.
Is there any way for me to get it modified back up without a lawyer.
I can't afford one.

2007-06-26 05:38:41 · 6 answers · asked by neuroticgirl 3

The majority of the responses I received to an earlier question about a disconnect between my wife and I were centered around putting some effort into doing some little things for her. We have three young kids and I work she stays at home. To be honest right now I am mentally in a place where I am not sure if I would rather leave her a flower to make her happy or my socks on the kitchen table to piss her off on my way out the door to work. So if some of you could help me out by giving some suggestions for little things I could to get things moving in the right direction I would be grateful. It would also be great if some of these suggestions were compatible with drinking beer and playing golf !! Just kidding, I want to give this an honest shot, thanks for your help in advance.

2007-06-26 05:25:06 · 25 answers · asked by Brian 5

Or do you still love them and attracted to them no matter what?

2007-06-26 04:59:17 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ 3

A friend of mines has been in a sexually lacking relationship for about 4 years now. He has strayed b/c of the sexual dysfunction and has since been trying to reconcile the relationship, but the sex is still little no none, and boring as hell, and he still has thoughts of straying w/ someone he dated for a significant amount of time during the main relationship.

This friend wants to know how can he tell his girlfriend that she needs to up her sex game. He likes sex, he wants sex, and needs more to desire than her ''lay there like a piece of wood'' mentality.

Help me help him please!! Thanks.
**thought out educated answers desired, thanks**

2007-06-26 04:55:01 · 14 answers · asked by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4

I get married in 6 weeks, I have been living with my fiancee for 4 years, will anything actually change???

2007-06-26 04:49:00 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance' and I live together, he has three children with his ex wife. A year ago his ex-wife allowed their oldest daughter (12 at the time) to move in with us and she took the other 2 children and moved to a different state. The agreement was at the time that neither person would pay child support. He was served two days ago with papers stating that she has now filed for child support for the other two children, we spoke with her states court and they said that she did not even mention to them that there was a third child involved that lives with us. We apparently are going to have to file for child support for the child that lives with us as it is not fair that we have to support the other two but she doesn't have to do anything to support the one we have. Also, we are considering not only getting legal custody of the child that already lives with us but fighting for custody of the other two so that the siblings can be back together. What is our next step from here?

2007-06-26 04:45:32 · 8 answers · asked by Jessica 2

I am soon to be divorced after over 5yrs of separation. The wait in between was based in finances. I have a new woman in my life and looking very much like a second marriage is in my future.
I have mixed feelings however what I should do with my wedding ring from my first marriage. It feels like it would be such a slap in the face, and with children from my first marriage...it feels like it would be disrespecting them and the union that created them to just throw it away. At the same time I don't want my new wife to feel I am holding on to my ex as if she is still my wife in some strange way...any suggestions, please help.

2007-06-26 04:41:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl keep on sending sms and even emails to me and I really can't take it anymore.In the emials contains information where they go for holidays, and their IM. (cant she fake it ?) My husband denied having a relationship with her, but I do suspect he does from his look.(what about the IM ? that's his ID) Friends told me to completely ignore her messages, do you think this will stop her ??

2007-06-26 04:37:37 · 14 answers · asked by violet y 1

my bf and i live in md and his wife lives in upstate ny they have been apart for 2 yrs if not longer ,they have no contact. He knows were to find her though.How can he obtain a inexpensive divorce so we can get married?

2007-06-26 04:30:25 · 6 answers · asked by kit kat 3

he wants and the pay is not great,we make the mortgage and barley eke by with the bills,i know i need to go work,i worked for years till my father passed away 3 years ago and my husband says i need to go work full time,i dont want to do full time cause i feel that hes the man and im not going to be out there working my butt of while hes getting off early watching t.v,. and farting around and this is a big argument in our household,things are pretty strapped here but im stubborn!this government jobs made him a bit lazy!but he gets paid for all the time off so he says i should have no problem with it,am i wrong?

2007-06-26 04:28:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My kids are of legal age and I am recently divorced and would enjoy travelling and meeting new people. Want to move from current town eventually and just cant decide if okay or not..

2007-06-26 04:28:46 · 13 answers · asked by Kat 2

2007-06-26 04:27:26 · 18 answers · asked by Liza G 1

been wtih my husband for about 13 years,
when we first started seeing each other, he told me he had a strong sexual prowess, i thought it was ok because i liked sex alot too.
about 5 years ago, i caught him online with another woman on the internet, it was a rough time, but i stayed
a few weeks ago, I found his account on fling.com.
he says he loves me, but i do not fulfill his need to explore his fetishes and sexual interests, so he has turned to the net.
it wasnt until that time that I realized just how strong his prowess is, but i do not see myself in these situations he wants to get in.

Question is, for the men, is this normal for a man to have these strong urges for fulfullment outside of the marriage, and how prevelent do you think this is amung men and for the
women, do you think i should stay with him?

2007-06-26 04:15:57 · 22 answers · asked by Shake-Zula 3

Some men think that they're women should be conservative after marriage but before marriage they wanted to see a little skin...what's up with that? What is your take on it?

2007-06-26 04:15:07 · 14 answers · asked by All the way live! 2

2007-06-26 04:14:16 · 18 answers · asked by trina? 1

The issue is that my boyfriend's family is extremely wealthy, and his family is so intact. Besides, my boyfriend is a graduate of Ivy.

On the other hand, my family is not that rich (my father's business is going bad), and my parents recently got divorced. My mom has serious depression which she got from taking care of her brother who has mental illness...

If you were the mother of my boyfriend, would you be concerned about letting your son marry someone with unfortunate background like me? Or would you be ok as long as your son is happy.

Your comments will be appreciated.

2007-06-26 04:14:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a man he said his 90% to be divorce,he has been honest to me for his situation.He ask me keep our situation till further notice,i don't know what he mean by that.Should I wait for him or should i just let him go.His a muslim man!!!

2007-06-26 04:13:54 · 3 answers · asked by kimy 3