2007-06-26 04:14:16 · 18 answers · asked by trina? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Refer to song, " All I wanna do is make love to you." by Canadian dike icons, HEART. Research the lyrics and follow to a tee. Let us all know how it goes.
If its a boy, be honored if you name him TK.
2007-06-26 04:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by T K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a major problem and will continue to be a problem when you get married,so take some time and think about what it is you really want, a family (hubby and kids) or just a husband. You know what the problem is before marriage,just know marrying him is not going to change his mind you still have time to bail out on him. Both of you are clearly not on the same page.
2007-06-26 12:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by sweetheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on how badly you want children....If you know at some point in the future that you will want children, and he doesn't want children then it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that you shouldn't get married. Don't get married thinking he will change his mind at some point because chances are he probably won't and it wouldn't be fair to divorce him for that reason when you knew from the beginning he didn't want kids. It also would not be fair to marry him and then get pregnant on purpose. If you are deadset on having kids then do not marry this man, it is not fair to either of you.
2007-06-26 11:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you may have to re-evaluate your decision on whether getting marry to this person or wanting to have kids is more important to you...It's honestly sad to say that you have to choose one over the other but, in your situation this is the case...You can't expect for him to change his mind after getting married because you may just end up getting a divorce or he may resent you if you do come out pregnant..I think this is something very important you both need to re-discuss before making this committment....Wishing you all the best***
2007-06-26 14:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get married and he doesn't change his mind, and you trick him into getting pregnant, he may resent you for it. So, you better decide before the marriage if you really want the situation you're in now if you're determined to have kids.
2007-06-26 11:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want children and your fiance doesn't, don't expect that he will change his mind. You have to choose. You either get your fiance and no kids, or marry someone else and have children. You have to decide what is more important to you. Good luck.
2007-06-26 11:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by from_a_dark_place 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tough. Before you marry him, you need to work this out. If you cant agree on it DO NOT get married. One of you will be unhappy in the end. He may change his mind or you may but you need to agree.
2007-06-26 11:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by Lima Bean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't be married long with such fundamental differences between you. If you marry him, you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Find a partner who shares the same dreams and values you do. DO NOT MARRY HIM! Good luck!
2007-06-26 11:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetkat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In all fairness, he's already told you he doesn't want kids. If you do decide marry him, don't bring it up in the marriage, cause you knew. You really need to think about it.
PEOPLE, SHE SAID HER "HUSBAND TO BE" MEANING SHE'S NOT MARRIED YET; HE'S HER FIANCE. GEEZ!
2007-06-26 11:25:49 · answer #9 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"When I get married"
"My husband"
Are you married or not?
If you are not then decide if not having kids is a deal breaker.
2007-06-26 11:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you won't be having kids then.
You can't change someone, so either accept it or find someone who wants to have a family with you.
2007-06-26 11:35:55 · answer #11 · answered by Courtney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋