Or do you still love them and attracted to them no matter what?
2007-06-26 04:59:17 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not disgusted or displeased with my wifes appearance or weight.
When we married many many years ago she was a nice size 8 and around 110#.
Today after 2 children she is a full time working mother and wife that is still extremely attractive in sizes 12-14 and her weight is closer to 145. I don't mind because there is a little more of her to love.
I might also add that she takes care of herself, has her hair done regularly, dresses well and takes price in her appearance.
2007-06-26 05:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I suppose it depends on how shallow you are.
Do you think men still function as well or look as cute as they did when younger? They go bald, lose their teeth, get pot bellies or worse, yet amazingly they still think they can get any woman they really want.
Delusional.
Women on the other hand think men will leave them when their breasts head south, or they get a chin hair, or an extra pound or seven.
Equally delusional
Love is really blind, and deaf too sometimes. That's why its better to love what a person is rather than what they look like.
If you are in it for the long haul, take a minute and look at the Fiftieth anniversary pics some newspapers run, Does anyone look like they did fifty years later? Does it really matter?
2007-06-26 05:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by justa 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
I look at it this way no matter how our bodies change over the years we (Women) can and do have sex well in to our later years we are far more superior to men in so many ways... lol for men along with age comes other big problems the only rocking they can do is siting in a chair... lol
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2007-06-26 05:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
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2016-09-28 11:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is still happy with the way I look. He is continually telling me how good I look in a new outfit, or calling me sexy. I sometime look in the mirror and wonder why. He loves me and as they say, love is blind. On the other hand we both take care of ourselves, and although I have gained a few pounds I am much more secure with myself now then when I was younger and I think that it shows.
2007-06-26 05:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by Paulette S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I loved my, now ex, even after she gained quite a few pounds after our marriage. She on the other hand tried to always find fault and after looking long enough found enough to give her reason enough to cheat and later leave. It just never ceases to amaze me how shallow people can become and are when they obsess over something like that. love is supposed to "unconditional" and weight gain shouldn't matter. You should still love the one you're with.
2007-06-26 07:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by mcbobly2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a double standard with them. They say it doesn't matter in the heat of passion and they want us wives to make the first move some, but when you do their suddenly tired or not in the mood.Then they complain about us . And it's true their loose they looks just like us. They gain weight and loose their hair and get lazy.
2007-06-26 05:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
22 years with the same women and I'm still hard enough to cut diamonds every time I see her. The body has changed over the years with age and I' still as horney as day one. Only time my attraction will cease for her is when they close the coffin lid, and plant me with permanent wood. She knows the effect she has on me.
2007-06-26 06:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
see my husband dosnt have that problem he loves the way i look and after 2 kids i look really good ... alot of men have issues to were they have to be blonde with d cups and ect.... **** if that was everyone in the world it would be messed up ...
love ur husband and or wife for they way they are not for what they have ...
2007-06-26 05:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by MOM to megan eli jaiden and ryan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋