Marriage & Divorce - 27 June 2007

I caught my wife in bed and I had already filed the divorce papers...should I really send this in?

2007-06-27 23:55:38 · 25 answers · asked by dopefilmmaker33 1

2007-06-27 23:26:06 · 13 answers · asked by Lucid Dream Weaver 1

and i know in my heart there have been others. But' this last one I can't seem to shake and as hard as we try to get it back good its like we take 3 steps forward and 2 back. We argue all the time. How can we, or can we make it back to the way it was? I feel soooo depressed and just lost. I love him but even after his actions it seems the only time he is nice to me is when he wants to be intimate. I NEVER deny him, nor have I ever. Actually, he is very spoiled. I just can't get over the why? Was 5 minutes in a truck with trash (and she was...if she was a good nice girl i would say so) worth throwing away 13 years and destroying 2 innocent lives. And we actually have a GREAT sex life. I could use some advise. The only reson I'm still here is because of my 11 yr. old son. He looked me in the eye the other night crying and said "I just don't think I could go on living without the two of you together. Enough said. Sincerely, djm

2007-06-27 23:25:11 · 9 answers · asked by djm 1

i am really depressed i go on with everything but i have a hateful son and a husband who is an *** its almost like they want me to be sad what should i do

2007-06-27 22:53:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-27 22:51:20 · 16 answers · asked by lucy a 1

Okay my husband and I got married when we where only 17 and have been married for almost 10 years we have had ups and downs but things worked out until recently. In the last 3 years he has taken a job at a mill and taken on the atitude of the people he works with. He lies about little things and I always catch him but he won't quit doing it. He will say he has a saftey meeting after work and it is going to run late and he will really be golfing. he made plans to go to a football game out of state with four guys I didn't know and instead of telling me they were going to stay the night he made up a story about their car being broken into and needing to be fixed. Then he also started chewing and I knew he was. I found a can of chew here and there for over two years and whenever I asked him about it he would say it was someone elses. Then he finaly gets caught in his lie when we are out with some of his friends from work. These things are so dumb but I don't trust him what can I do?

2007-06-27 22:33:19 · 8 answers · asked by lovesty 1

But how does someone like an ex-wife have the right to ask for it when there has been a seperation for 4 years and she had gain all property, no children were involved, and to top it off, she has had to kids while still married, with someone else. The Husband had tried to file for a divorce in 2003 but the wife was considered as a run away, but now in present time wants the divorce, new boyfriend has joined the army and is in Iraq fighting as we speak. The soon to be ex- wife now wants the divorce and wants spousal support. The husband has no other children and had given at the time of the split all property. Taking nothing, Walking out empty handed. Tell me what you think on the situation. Put yourself in the husbands shoes and tell what you would do now since she has done the wrong.

2007-06-27 22:14:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I see it too often. He supposedly says he is going to leave his wife but this is just a ploy to stall for time-and some women fall for it and have meaningless relationships that contribute to the demise of a marriage with no respect for the other partner or themselves. Why settle being second fiddle?

2007-06-27 22:02:33 · 13 answers · asked by Lady Pink 2

A friend of mines father died a month ago and his estate was obviously passed on to his step mum which obviously caused no problem and was understandible. Unfortunately his step-mum died 2 weeks later after falling ill. He was upset by this. But now his step-mums daughter is saying that he will recieve nothing as his fathers and stepmums fortune will be divided up between his stepmums children.

If it had been a long time after that his step-mum died then this would have been easier to take but 2 weeks has grated on him as he gets nothing and step-mums children get everything. He would much rather have his father back than money but he doesnt see why her children should get all of his hard earned money. No wills were made by either party

2007-06-27 21:59:31 · 9 answers · asked by colesey72 4

pls i need your help,i always like to jealous always worrying that lots girls like my bf, when we talking on the phone if there is girls voice, i will always ask him who is she, if i dont ask him i wont be comfortable,i know its not right always ask this kinda question, cause i dont want him to get tired of that, he likes to talk to people,guys and girls, i do everything for him really tried to be perfect, but i feel that he never thansful for that, and he is not be touched by everything i do to him, i wanna know, how can i get rid of the jealous and how can i make him be touched,what should i do to mae him realize that im the best one for him???thanks

2007-06-27 21:51:05 · 6 answers · asked by sweetie 1

my hubby is out of the country,we talk and chat but so boring. and i got irritated sometimes coz he got a lot of time playing online games i talk about it to him and he just said , try to understand it coz it his his past time,he never goes out have fun,our relationship get boring and most of the time he is playing online games and spend big money for it. and im afraid that one day im not inlove with him anymore.need advise thanks

2007-06-27 21:45:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-27 21:45:11 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I used them a few years ago - they seemed judgemental to me....private couns. are very expensive too, but if it meant we get both get our point across without rwoing with each other...should we do it? How do I convince my wife it would be a good thing?

2007-06-27 21:43:48 · 10 answers · asked by jonoxk 3

me and my husband are getting a divorce, and he wanted the dog was this right, because I really gave it to him

2007-06-27 21:26:01 · 4 answers · asked by joe b 1

No i am not young just want to know what people will do in my situation. If you have a relationship and you think that everything is find. You don't mind him in his video games even if you think that he my be to old to be playing as much as he do? He is 28 going on 29. I understand hobby but he will play all day and not even say hi baby or nothing just get something to drink , eat,and/or bathroom. I don't want to seem not understanding but i also think that with his work schedule and mine we should spend together time? I'm hairstylist and he has a night job. What would you do in my situation?

2007-06-27 21:21:55 · 9 answers · asked by confused! 1

There has been talk about making it physical. I think he more than she, but she certainly hasn't stopped it. He is trying to find a way to get away for a night with her. Is this considered cheating?

2007-06-27 21:03:30 · 10 answers · asked by Millie C 1

I am married and my wife has a friend that she is always texting. it is another woman and they always write that they miss each other every chance they get. my wife told me that she never sees the woman. I found sexual messages on several occasions between the two. i have confronted my wife plenty of times on it and she say that is just how they talk. what am i missing here? is she cheating when i am at work and if not, why does she have to be so secret. i have seen alot of things that i have not told her, cause she will deny it all from her cheating. when i ask to meet her friend, she tells me no and why do i need to meet her. why will my wife not be honest and stop hiding things from me. she claims to love me, but something is very wrong...

2007-06-27 19:53:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-27 19:08:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is a good provider(house, car etc...) and he thinks I am being very ungrateful.I told him that I AM very grateful for all that he had provided but I am lacking the emotional connections with him.We are like housemates and I can't see myself living like this for the rest of my life.We've been married for 30+ years.

I have mentioned my 'problems' about 3 years ago and many times since, but he is always saying that I should be grateful and that he is happy living this way.I told him that as long as one party is not happy,there is a problem!

So I suggested counseling and was told to go alone since it's MY problem.I only want this emotional void to be filled.He is so distant and aloof.I am so tired of having to initiate everything that I give up, so no sex (it's the result not the cause),no touching,no talking,no nothing.. so sad!

Should I just stay and be grateful for all that he is able to provide and be deprived emotionally? Does going for counseling alone help?

2007-06-27 19:04:15 · 24 answers · asked by Montana Skye 2

2007-06-27 19:01:30 · 6 answers · asked by snowygirl 1

I've been married for 3 years now and I love it at times and then I hate it. We've tried to work on our problems, but it seems that we're always getting into it about the same stuff. It's good when it's good, but bad when it's bad. I love my wife to death, but I just don't think that it's going to work out in the long run. Should I continue trying or just let it go?

2007-06-27 18:57:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My g/f of 5 years has been displaying these signs, tell me if she is cheating or what you think.. I am suspcious of her cheating on me with my old enemy, who knows we are together

1. Hides and deletes text messages and calls
2. VERY protective of her phone
3. Still mentions facts about this one guy as if she's talking to him. Yet she says, "He told me a while ago"
4. Admits sometimes, "I had sex with him 3 times in a row..." with a smile and then says she's kidding.
5. Her messages and times between sent and received don't add up. She's deleting a few them, yet she says she's not hiding anything.
6. Been going out A LOT while Im on night work. Says she is with her friend, but ALWAYS conveniently leaving when I call.
7. Always going to the bathroom with her phone
8. Physically fighting me when I see her phone "light up" She will wrestle and punch me so I don't get it

2007-06-27 18:56:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 30 and I came to us 3 yrs ago my wife is us citizen, I have some problem with my wife, my wife parents are living with us and i'm not happy about that she don't want to get independent and also she don't want me to don't see my family which they're living in another state I haven't seen them since I came here i don't know what should I do can I use the law?

2007-06-27 18:55:12 · 7 answers · asked by john 1

Why waste time getting married if you already have doubts that it may not work?

2007-06-27 18:50:34 · 11 answers · asked by Briana 2

the guy i like has an abusive wife. we are ' JUST FRINEDS" casue niether of us wants to be a cheater. although we both like each other and have admitted so. anwyys he emailed me yesutrday and i wrote him back and sent him a link about abuse and told him his wife fits several of the crieteria of abuse and that i m just trying to help out of concern & care and that i am just bein a freind and i hope he is not offended cuase i felt like he was reaching out to me by telling me some of the abusive behaviors hes had to endure. i aslo sent him a child support calcuator becuase he was concenred on how much he would have to pay if he dumped her and im in a legal class and we are learning how to calculate the paymetns online at the courts web site. today he didnt write back. do u think i've scared him off, or am i reading too much into it?

2007-06-27 18:42:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a verbally/emotionally abusive marriage for 13 years(physical by choking me 3x in the past over 4 yrs. ago). We have a daughter 7 and a son that's 5. We are 34. he is very verbally and mentally abusive from calling me horrible names, that he doesn't need me, I'm worthless and sorry( b/c I was layed off over a yr. ago and have not yet obtained a job. It's a tough economy in Michigan), fat *****(I'm not fat and if I was he still has no right), lazy(our place is immaculate). Well I am just at a lost. I have left 3 times and returned hoping things could change to no avail. In counseling now but I don't think he takes it seriously. He works in the evening so I miss paying singing gigs all the time b/c he refused to work in the morning. I feel like I'm wasting away trying to be the perfect housewife for a man who treats me like ****. I don't hardly do anything for me to keep up with his demands. He's only nice sometimes. He says he's not forcing me to stay here. What to do?

2007-06-27 18:41:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My question is for a nother friend. She is married to a soldier, he was deployed and after his return she found out that he was engaged with a nother women. Why do men do this to a faithfull women? Why do men cheat and why soldiers of hornor do such a thing?

2007-06-27 18:40:53 · 5 answers · asked by lonley 1

Ladies, I often wonder if you know where this is?
Only some men know weher the erogenous zone on a womn is. However, how many women know where a man's is?

2007-06-27 18:37:55 · 11 answers · asked by Humbal 1

Me and my husband have been separated for 8 months we still talk but he doesn't seem to want to be bothered with me when I try to make things work out. Yet he still smiles and laughs with me he says he's not seeing anyone, yet he seems he's trying to keep me away and acts as though he likes it likes it like this.Its been 8 months, why do you think he's still trying to stay away from me?Im tired of living alone and taking care of 4 kids on my own.

2007-06-27 18:29:03 · 11 answers · asked by justagirl 3

I heard too that the child was killed the next day after the mom or something too. Could you imagine being that boy and seeing your mom like that? Then your own dad turning on you? How frightening

2007-06-27 18:16:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous