i dont wanna be jealous anymore?

Question

pls i need your help,i always like to jealous always worrying that lots girls like my bf, when we talking on the phone if there is girls voice, i will always ask him who is she, if i dont ask him i wont be comfortable,i know its not right always ask this kinda question, cause i dont want him to get tired of that, he likes to talk to people,guys and girls, i do everything for him really tried to be perfect, but i feel that he never thansful for that, and he is not be touched by everything i do to him, i wanna know, how can i get rid of the jealous and how can i make him be touched,what should i do to mae him realize that im the best one for him???thanks

Answer 1

you will feel this way, its normal , now you just have to get over it, your first problem may be , your putting him on a pedestal, take him down, and sit him next to you, you have to bring up your self esteem, he may be great, but he is with you also, do you think its for pity, your not going to be perfect no matter how hard you try, but what you can do is just be you, take it easy and when you feel jealousy coming on take a deep breath and think your not all that bad, as far as him being touched, he likes you, hes with you, don't give him more than you should and always keep it respect full,

Answer 2

There is no love without trust. You need to talk to him, and ask him to help you to trust and love him. Tell him that you want to be a better person for him. Jealousy will destroy a relationship. It destroyed mine. He was so jealous that every time he had a few drinks in him, he accused me of doing things I had never ever thought about doing. I finally had to leave him, even though I truly loved him. I just felt hurt and disrespected. I felt that if he really loved me, he would have known that I would not have done those things to him.

Answer 3

Yeah your jealous and controling already . I feel sorry for that poor sap of a bf . Good luck with keeping a guy from now on ! It sounds like hes not in love with you anyway find someone weaker and meeker to let you do it to them .

Answer 4

having feelings of jealousy are normal. dont make them the problem if there isnt one.
I wasnt being jealous towards my ex when we were married...i relied on faith that he would do the right thing. but, if someone breaks the rules they will even if you show jealousy or not. but just being jealous when there is no problems will cause problems. but, uno, it makes me wonder now...if I was wrong to not be a jealous person. maybe a little bit of it makes your partner feel more wanted and needed? dunno. go with your instincts i guess.

Answer 5

*sigh* that's normal for us, girls. Yes, I know he might be cheating on you or somethin' but, here's the thing to do. tell him your true feelings about it and say you wanna be w/ him so, tell him never to cheat on you.

Answer 6

just relax...