2007-06-27 21:45:11 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kick his butt out the door and report him.
Being drunk is NO excuse.
2007-06-28 01:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by vampwithaheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT NOW!!!!! It doesn't matter how drunk he was, he has no excuse for this. Been in your position and it took me 2 yars to get out.My boyfriend would hit me and abuse me. I stayed as I really thought he would change but he bever did . I t was only when he hit me in front of some one, something he had nevre done befor that I went. Don't let yourself go through all that. DON'T CRY, it was not your fault, you are a good person with an ahole of a partner, he does not deserve your tears.
Hope things go much better for you in the future.
Remember it is NOT YOUR FAULT.
2007-06-27 21:59:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once an abuser, always an abuser. my advice would be to definately go to the police. If he does it once he can do it again. chat with your mum, or a sister if you have one.
Dont cry, ACT. Your town rape crisis centre or a womens centre can give you lots of support too. Drunk or not, this should never happen to any woman, EVER. If it was my partner, I would never be able to trust him again and would get him out of the home immediately and keep him out with changed locks too.
Good luck pet. regards Gill
2007-06-27 22:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry this happend tp you! But why was he out getting that wasted w/o you to start with. To me he sounds like a leave her at home do what he wants then come home and take it out on you. Do you think he got turned down "rejected" at the bar then came home and took you. You need to go to the police, get a restraining order and go stay with friends or family! Not unless you want to be treated that way.... I would of been gone last night right after deforming his you know what!!!!!!
2007-06-27 23:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by 2shy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me once, I mean once! I told him to leave, I contacted the police and made sure that friends were aware of what he'd done.
If you have a strong male friend, ask him to be with you when your partner gets home. Make it clear to him exactly what he did! and how it has made you feel. Don't let the excuse of the drink let him get away with it. If he forced himself on you, whether married, long term relationship or one night stand, its rape.
I wish you strength, luck doesn't come into it. You need to be strong enough to either kick him out or walk away. Life carries on, and it gets better once you are away from such a guy.
2007-06-28 02:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi honey it is a terrible thing when some one you love hurts u like that the same thing happened to me and i thought he wouldn't do it again but he did, i know how u feel but one thing i definitely know is u need to report it as it will go on it took me 8 years to finally stand up to my abuser please for your own sake do something now before it happens again don't be scared there are plenty of organisations out there that can help you like women's aid CALL THE POLICE and get him charged i know it will be difficult but honey if he can do that then he doesn't love you. Cry all u want but always remember its not your fault and you don't deserve to be treat like that. Be strong and good look.
2007-06-27 23:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by sea salt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Tia, you must be feeling dreadful, what your partner did last night was completely wrong and in the eyes of the law is it see as rape, if you had said no that meant no, he had no right to violate your body even if he is your partner. It is your body and no on and I mean NO ONE should touch you unless you agree. I am not one for usually saying this, but get him out of your life and go to the police as quickly as you can and make a statement of statutory rape, but get it done as soon as it is possible.....if you need to email me then please do so. David
2007-06-27 21:56:36 · answer #7 · answered by David Wilson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself to a safe place and tell someone, work out what you want to do and if you are really frightened call the police, you cannot let your partner abuse you it is not right however much they may apologise!!
Take care of yourself xx
2007-06-27 21:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by Katie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh bless you!, Cry as much as you need to then start thinking logically!, First of all get the hell outta there!, does he remember what he has done?? I would say that after what he has done you need to 1: Report him if you feel able to. 2: Pack your bags and get out. Is he normally like this? does he drink alot? I know it is easier said than done but think of what you want and the fact that you are certainly worth a lot more than that!! If you stay (even if he is profusiouly sorry)....what's to say it wont happen again...is he worth hanging around to find out???
2007-06-27 21:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by vampini 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you pack some gear and go to one of your relations places to stay for a couple of days, this way it gives you time to think and sort yourself out and it gives your partner time to think of what he has done. This way you can state your not going back unless he changes his ways. Also state that if he can't respect you, then you will find someone who will, plus treat you alot better. Cheers and good luck.
2007-06-27 21:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the police,he needs reporting,they can also put you intouch with people who can help you,can you also talk to a family member or friend who can go with you for support? and leave this horrible man NOW, do not stay with an abusive partner.get some help. im sending you a hug xxxxx
2007-06-27 21:51:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋