Marriage & Divorce - 27 June 2007

Whether you are married, in a relationship, or not, do you really feel that people are interested looking for love or not. In my experience it seems that men are only looking for some one to have sex with. All they want is an orgasm, doesn't really matter who gives them that. Some women are only looking for men to give them money or sex. Even marriages sometimes only seem to be about social status, and not having sex outside of marriage, just something to soothe there conscienous. What do you think?

2007-06-27 04:07:05 · 6 answers · asked by veronica r 3

Any of you ever had a platonic friendship with a married person and it turned into something more after sometime and was succesful?

2007-06-27 03:44:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-27 03:43:58 · 18 answers · asked by TanTan 1

I noticed that some married women seem lost when their husbands are out of town. Their whole routine changes and they don't know what to do with themself.

Then, I look at myself. I am divorced and my daughter does not live with me.

I have had to adjust to being alone and its been hard at at times.

Are married women better off because they have a companion to depend on for support?

I really don't talk to anyone about my internal thoughts and feelings. Maybe I am missing out on something.

2007-06-27 03:38:29 · 11 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

I am 23 yrs old. My husband is 32. We have been married since I was 17 yrs. It was not choose and we don't have babies. I was brought here from a third world contry. He is controlling. As long as I stay home, cook, not watch TV, do landry and pcik him up from work, he is fine. His mom found me a job as an exceutive assistant. He had no idea I worked for about 4 months I leaves the house at 7 am and thats when I wake up and get ready to go to work. I make sure I am home by six.He found out last weekend when I receieved my insurance package to the house. He hates for me to have money, so after him yelling and screaming at me he decided okay, 'work as long as I get all the money.' Now I need a $100 for roll on, a shirt, a book and don't know how ask him. I make $18 an hour. How do I ask him for a $100 from my paycheck?

2007-06-27 03:31:11 · 6 answers · asked by K.S 1

hello, i want to leave my deadbeet husband, and i am saving up the money to do so,he is an a$$ whole and mentally and physically abusive towards me, and it is not good for my son. so, if i just up and leave to anothe rstae without telling him first, what will happen? what paperwork do i have to get to leave? i want to be in a, before he really knows that we are gone, if i serve him the papers while we in the same state he might do something crazy!! help me, i have got to get me and my son out of this realationship. what do i do????

2007-06-27 03:23:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently found out after 18 years my wife has cheated on me. It started off with an online relationship. She had a doctors appoint in a neiboring town, I stayed home with the kids, he showed up at the hotel. She said he tried to kiss her and she freaked out and screamed. She said he left, and that was the end of it, but she say she feels guilty she played on the computer and it lead up to this. She said she was only playing around because it made her feel wanted. Everyday, she has been trying really hard to fix our relationship, but I have so many mixed feelings right now. I have never cheated, and I don't know exactly what happened or what she said to lead up to this. In short, I guess I have lost my trust. Has anyone else been through this? I love her dearly, but everytime she turns on the computer, I get this bad feeling now. I have been trying very hard to give her the attention she felt she lacked, but I always have that question, why? what actually happened? Advice?

2007-06-27 03:19:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just got married and i am going to social security to get it changed over in my new last name

2007-06-27 03:15:22 · 9 answers · asked by sheryl_stahl 1

The marriage talk how do you bring it up and what exactly do you cover in the conversation topic wise?My bf whom i love and i have wacky history but share a 9 yr old son together.I met the my sons father when i was 17 going on 18 and he was 16 going on 17 both of us were in our senior year.He was the bad boy from another town and i was the good girl who went to private school this caused all kinds of drama including the pregnancy kind we broke up twice the second time he left me for another girl.Then a year later he was looking for a fling the relationship w/ his gf was not at its best and i was lonley college student.This fling went on for 8 months it resulted in our now 9 yr old son.After my son was born we got engaged and tried to make it work for 1.5-2yrs without sucess.We still stayed in contact he saw our son ever now/again and he paid his child support relativley on time.We dated other people ect.during these years.Four years ago he anted more involvment with our son and we became friends again.Started dating again casually 1.5 later and have been together for last 2yrs.I am now 29 yrs old and he is 28 yrs old.He wants to bring up marriage talk?

2007-06-27 03:11:42 · 7 answers · asked by Andromeda M 1

I personally dont care if he reads Maxim, Stuff, or any of those guys magazines but I think that when they have naked girls its too much. He says its not a big deal to him but he still asks to read them. I personally dont like them but is this wrong to feel like this or do I really have low self esteem? Has anybody gotten over things like this. Weve been married for 8 months now, I dont know if that helps.

2007-06-27 03:11:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-27 03:07:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't find anyone attractive any more. I have been hurt by all the guys I have been with and getting hurt now from the one I married. I have been trying to look but I don't find anyone attractive. Let me fix that last sentence, I have been looking only to test myself not because I am looking to stray. I know it is normal to look even if you are taken. Do you think it is because I am so mad or is there something wrong with me?

2007-06-27 02:52:17 · 22 answers · asked by ♥ Nikkee D ♥ 4

Hi, a couple of months ago i was talking to my mother in law and she said that it tore her apart when my husband broke up with his ex-wife, because of the children. I thought it was not very fair to share that with me and I said that sometimes divorce is a good thing. I also told her ins secret that i wished my parents got divorced when i was a child (there were reasons). Now I am sorry I said that, i feel like i betrayed my mom and dad. I dont want to apologise to them because of this, cause that will really upset that that i said that. I also dont want to speak to my mother in law about this again, because she probably already thinks i am stupid and at the end of the day it really is none of her business, i made a mistake by sharing this with her. I talked to my husband about that - he says that we all say stupid things and she probably forgot it. However I still feel guilty talking to my mom right now, but maybe some things are better kept secret and forgotten? Help!!!

2007-06-27 02:49:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of 15 years left me for a girl young enough to be his daughter 3 years ago. He seems to have re-invented himself, dressing very young (He's 53, she's 28) and he's treated me dreadfully. I've kept a stiff upper lip, and not told me children or my family most of what he has done, I've had her texting me calling me a sad old cow, which in a funny sort of way makes me feel a bit better because it displays exactly what sort of person she is. But the fact that he has handed over my mobile number to her, and allowed that to happen is destroying me. My children would kill him if they knew, my parents would be heartbroken, so I'm saying nothing, keeping a dignified silence, but it's backfired, because he is taking courage from my lack of response, and they go past my house and he beeps the horn to make himself look the big man. He's showing off in front of her at my expense. I'm shattered that the man who I thought had a special bond with me can do this to me. PLEASE no joke answers

2007-06-27 02:48:21 · 45 answers · asked by myfavouritelucy 7

as you have all heard chris beniot and his family(wife and child) were found dead in their home over the weekend. Apparently he did it. So many familes suffer from the ultimate abuse but what as fellow human beings can we do to help others before this happens? Ileft my husband for abuse but some women just can't do that and I understand.

2007-06-27 02:12:07 · 10 answers · asked by wildirishrose19522000 5

Whether man, or woman, and you could get married to a person with lots of money, would you? How necessary is love in the equation? Could you grow to love them, or would the availablity of money, satisfy your needs? Be honest! We don't know each other anyway. I think I could marry someone, strictly based on the fact that for the first time in my life, I would have money to do things I have always wanted to do. What about you?

2007-06-27 02:06:00 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner was previously been married when he was very young, just wondering if any one knew if we could get married in a Catholic Church - His previous marriage was a civil ceromany.

2007-06-27 01:15:14 · 17 answers · asked by katie 2

My partner moans about everything I do. He belittles me and everything I have taken an interest in. My 20yr old son died last year and instead of his patience and support he makes the depression im going through much worse. I am not allowed visitors, he moans about the cat my son left behind, he slags me off in the pub, moans constantly when I go on the computer and go out anywhere and constantly chips away at what little self esteem I have left. I didnt want to be on my own but is this worth staying for. My partner is a heavy drinker and all he cares about is where his next drink is coming from and I have spent a lot of money buying things for this house should I walk away and leave him everything or just cut my losses and start again. The only thing I can say in his defense is that he has never hit me but he is a verbally nasty man.

2007-06-27 01:08:15 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was previously married for 10 miserable years.
In my first marriage, my husband cheated many times with many different women, and usually only admitted it after being confronted. He had 3 children with 3 different women, I only discovered after we filed for divorce that all 3 of the kids were conceived during our marriage.
It has been 7 months since I remarried.
In the last 6 months my husband has compared me to his ex-fiance several times. They still work together daily.
Recently he's been going to work earlier then scheduled, and telling me he has "meetings" or events that he has to be at work early for. (Normally they schedule him as required for special events or "meetings", since they've been refusing overtime, and regulations allow only 9.5hrs/day)
He's also been coming home late, or when I call him for some information he's requested they say he's not working.
Am I being paranoid?
Even discussing it with him, he gets offended and angry that I even ask if he's cheating.

2007-06-27 00:48:00 · 15 answers · asked by arcticraven77 2

Its been a while since we interacted in bed; I work three jobs *mainly night shifts* to support our family. I just want to provide my children the life I never seen and it was my wife’s’ idea to make me work three jobs.

I barely get any sleep and I am always depressed & on anti depressants. My wife purchased a toy to satisfy her needs & I was fine with that because I can understand she is at her peak and I am always out doing night shifts.

But lately it has got too much for her; she expects me to work three jobs and work her thing day and night too. I am a human not a machine, I am tired as anything when I get back from work. Now she is seeking and fulfilling her desire outside and has filed for a divorce.

She filed for it on the grounds that I can not satisfy her needs in bed and not a man anymore. I am shocked and devastated, I am turning to alcohol to beat my depression.

2007-06-27 00:41:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here is my theory; women who don't happily give oral, probably also prefer not to be on top. Put those two together and you are obviuosly just lazy, which is why so many men are unhappy with their sex lives (and why some women have trouble getting a man to marry them).

2007-06-27 00:25:48 · 15 answers · asked by SvetlanaFunGirl 4

yourself

2007-06-27 00:22:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is telling every one I have a diaper fetish and I dress up in diapers . every one who I meet smiles and LOL. Most of her friends know this now . She said she has no problem now that our trust is gone.

2007-06-27 00:16:52 · 22 answers · asked by skillwithtools 1

If it were a very good reason would you really do it? My friend came over last night and she is panicked because she has lied to her husband and cant figure out how to get out of the lie.
She only works part time because her husband is ok with that and he makes decent money. The thing is that she is really bad with money.
He took control of paying all of the bills himself and gives her only like $20 or $30 a week.
She has control of the visa debit card and when she was doing things such as buying groceries or something she would use the debit card.
It adds up to almost $2000 and they have been saving this money to buy a piece of land. Now she is panicked and wants to runaway from him. They have been married a long time. I told her I did not have an answer but I would check with you all and see what kind of advice to offer to her.

2007-06-27 00:03:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex and i had a baby 19 months ago but he has been absent throughout my experience. i'd love to meet his mother as he told me she was not alive when we met only later to find out that, that was not the truth and she is alive and well. i'd love for her to know she has a granddaughter and would love to meet her. all i know is the family surname and that she lives in the states. i know which state. but i haven't a clue where to start. or how to approach her if i was successful. as my ex and i finished on ugly terms. and i live in the uk.

2007-06-27 00:02:18 · 2 answers · asked by stella h 1