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2007-06-27 00:22:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry sweet but you think too much
2007-06-27 00:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure I could. If a relationship or a marriage is not working, sit down and make a list of things that are causing you to want this divorce. Then talk it over with your mate. Sometimes, things can change, but if you can't explain even to yourself why you're so unhappy, don't do anything until you can figure it out.
2007-06-27 00:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See Marriage play very import role in a life. Not only for you but it is related to life of everybody. When you are thinking about divorce you are not only separating from your partner but you are separating to 2 family also. It affects by so many ways mentally, finanncially, Socially, emotinaly not only to both of you but to both of yours family. So if you are thinking for a divorce it is not a crime or a big sin. Every human being has got their individual right to lead their life as per theire wish and you are not the 1st person who has demanded divorce for the first time on this earth. Off course you can demand but what i want to tell you is that there should be some logical reason behind that which really restrict to work your relationship. I don't know as you have not mentioned your reason to ask for divorce so ican't tell you exactly that whether you go or ask for divorce or not.
-> See you can also repair your relation by communicating to each other.
-> You can also tell to your partner which is that thing which really hurting to your heart
-> You can also go for outstation or hill station with your partner and try to adjust with eachother and refresh your relatuionship.
See there is way out to save any marraige from breaking. Marraige is not a game but if your reasons are like that.
-> You don't love your partner
-> You are by any way either mentally or sexually not satisfied with your partner
-> Or you may be in love with somebody else
Then you must go for divorce and release your partner because by telling him or her lie that i love you & i m only loyal to you is a biggest cheating .
Instead of that be very practicle and loyal and accept the fact that i m very sorry that i m not able to lead this relationship anymore but i have no option. Incase in future if you need my help i will be always there as your friend i have no bitter feeling for you i will be always remain one of your well wisher but i can't carry this relation anymore. Be very clear and honest. First try to get correct reason & then only go for any decision don't hurry. You can again ask this question by putting exact reason i will give you the proper answer. I will help you out. Don't feel guilty dear.
2007-06-27 01:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I can honestly give myself an answer. I think I just don't want such a drastic change in my life right now. After 16 years of marriage, I still love her. Like I love my sister. We have our seperate lives, and respect our privacy, but I just cant see myself without her in my house.
2007-06-27 00:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by dewhatulike 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Timing. It's easier to stick with the status quo for now.
I'm not unhappy now but I know things will come to a head one day and then it will be curtains for the marriage.
2007-06-27 00:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by Louise H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i could explain. cuz i hate the way my husband treats me and my kids. he tells f#$%K BI#% H@#, if you wouldnt be with me you would of been a hoe. he hide all my skirts dont like me wearing white caprees. asshole, he was hitting on his brothers girlfriend. he goes fishing everyday and comes late doesnt dedicate time to me or the kids. he doesnt kiss me, well only tap kiss thats about it. the calls my son cabron and my daughter ***** i hate him the worst part is that i have to stay with him cuz all my family is in PR i dont have noone to run too. and the rent is to high here
2007-06-27 02:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love.
2007-06-27 00:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by lawlis1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me a long time but I finally plan on doing something about it.
2007-06-27 00:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by mikemja316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you r in love w/ another man that would be a good reason ...don't ya think?
2007-06-27 00:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by quen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More details please - why do you think you should be divorced?
2007-06-27 00:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋