Marriage & Divorce - 27 June 2007

I have read where in order to be imancipated in Ohio you have to either do something with the armed forces or a lawful marriage. But how can you do that when you are underage anyways.

2007-06-27 09:24:00 · 3 answers · asked by joshyzgirl 1

i would like a christian man to be my best friend , someone i can grow older with. he must be kind and gentle and always be on my side

2007-06-27 09:21:42 · 5 answers · asked by BrenBren 1

A hot temper. I don't lose my temper where I start throwing things or anything like that, but my wife says that when we argue she says I get hot. Hot like where I argue heavily for stupid things. It is ruining our marriage. How do I recognize this and control it?

2007-06-27 09:19:15 · 25 answers · asked by Mike 4

So my wife, a very attractive 46 year old women, is tired of plucking her eyebrows and wants to get them tattoo'ed on. She says they are great and save time and look completely natural. I think they look like magic marker and are completely freakie.

I firmly believe in letting people make their own decisions and you could probably count on 2 fingers the number of times that I have insisted on something in the 19 years of our marriage. But this is yucky.

Any married people have advice or opinions on this?

2007-06-27 09:19:11 · 9 answers · asked by Alan 7

Having a lady/ man that you spend a few hours a week just talking and hanging out with that spouse or other close to you know nothing about. Kind of develop a space with that person where nothing from you everday lives comes into play.

2007-06-27 09:18:28 · 31 answers · asked by Brian 5

I'm making an assumption I'll likely connect with another person that's divorced, right? Quite frankly I'm terrified about dating, starting over again etc....Perhaps I'm looking for words of wisdom from other divorcees. Is there still a "stigma" attached when you tell someone you're divorced?

2007-06-27 09:15:43 · 19 answers · asked by Perplexed 2

my boyfriend and i just broke up because he thought that i was cheating on him which i wasn't. but he went through my Sidekick and found pictures of my and my bestfriend (which is a boy) when we were on vacation. and he flipped out.....HELP ME!!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-06-27 09:04:33 · 14 answers · asked by Love Karma™ 2

It's our 10th, so it's a special day in our trailer.

2007-06-27 09:03:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please share your love story whether you believe in it or not...

2007-06-27 09:03:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fiance never really spends any time with me , and doesn't like to talk to me . but he seems overly happy when he says he's going to a strip club , he says he likes to look at them . he also looks at porn on the computer somewhere along the lines of 5 hours a day . when i come into the room though he clicks out of it real fast. i keep telling him that its not the porn that bothers me , but the fact that he closes it looks like he's hiding something a million times worse. anyway ... for some reason i become enraged inside when i can see that he enjoys looking at other girls ( in strip clubs ) over me ( not to sound conceited here, but i'm not ugly ) . its not the fact that he's looking at them, but the fact that he would rather see them than be with me , that bothers me so much . i know that every guy on earth goes to strip clubs and looks at porn for hours a day ( so he tells me ) .. so knowing that, is it actually me that needs to grow up and get over it ? i need some advice thnx

2007-06-27 09:00:16 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-27 08:59:09 · 18 answers · asked by Ting 4

I want to get a present for my husband that is very,very special and very meaningful. Something that he will treasure forever. The thing is, is that he is really hard to buy for and nothing I get he ever seems to like. Do you have any ideas?

2007-06-27 08:35:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

His mom doesn't like me. All we do is hang out with his family every day and all weekend! Now he son is starting to live more on his own and she doesn't like that at all! She is rude to me and frankly I'm rude back. I don't like her at all!

2007-06-27 08:26:52 · 31 answers · asked by ang 1

If your spouse doesn't like you watching porn shouldn't they be the one to go get therapy to get over their issue with porn and let you watch whatever you want?

I'm talking about view legal porn, not the illegal sick stuff.

Don't we have freedom in this country to try and do what we want to do and doesn't that include viewing porn?

Its seems to me that the person with the issue should be the one to fix themselves instead of trying force the other to do what they want. Am I wrong?

2007-06-27 08:21:40 · 27 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

I have been married for 5 years and have fallen out of love with him. I care about him but do not want to be married anymore. I am in love with my dance partner and dont know what to do.

2007-06-27 08:19:23 · 20 answers · asked by lia 1

Its just a picture on a screen or in a magazine, and if you can't compete with that you can't be much of a woman. You have to be incurably insecure, it would seem to me.

2007-06-27 08:12:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I know most people say that all men look at it, that's just their nature, blah, blah, blah, but I think it is just crap and it is just an excuse to continue to be disrespectful toward their wives. I recently discovered my husband looking at it again and he has in the past and he knows my feeling on it, yet it is a slap in the face when he does it again. It just makes me feel so rejected, unwanted and undesirable. He still pays attention to me, but it hurts becuase I don't think he understands how much I am bothered by it even though I have told him. He says "we'll you act like I went out and slept with someone" That doesn't friggin matter, it is how it makes me feel about myself. He has agreed to counseling, but he says he want us to go together....should I even give him that option...is counceling together a good idea, or should he just go alone...I don't think he has an addiction per se (don't see that he views it even for hours at a time) but I am afraid it can develop into one

2007-06-27 07:50:45 · 50 answers · asked by ssgeorgia 2

My sister’s husband loves her to death does everything for her, but my sister caught him watching porno at his shop, at home. He told her that he will stop doing that but a week ago she found it in the house computer. He swore to her that it wasn’t him and that it was his friends. Last week she was on the computer it wasn’t there. She is a really good computer person so she knows how to do all those things. Why would he do that?? He has never cheated on her and is always with her except when she is at work. Why??

2007-06-27 07:42:18 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

it took me about 3 years to even think of going out with a guy again, I met three people since then, but all have ended and everyone around me seem to be either divorced or unhappily married and envy me for being free!!! Right now I am happy to be alone after breaking up with the last guy, and feel cynical about the whole marriage thing, how about you divorced guys and girls out there?

2007-06-27 07:40:04 · 9 answers · asked by piano19 3

ladies,
seems to be that the guy always wants sex more that the woman does., but i that is not always true...

when your husband makes advances, do you cringe or go with?
if you cringe, what are some of the reasons why? what are you missing from your husband ? if anything.
does this build resentment, and it is the pent up resentment that prevents you from feeling lustfull towards your husband?

2007-06-27 07:38:25 · 28 answers · asked by Shake-Zula 3

I'm in my early 20's and pursuing a college degree. In my culture most people are married and have at least one child by the age of 20. However, I came here when I was a few years old and have a completely different mentality than my family members. I don't feel anywhere near being ready to get married and start a family. I want to finish college, work on my career, and then, once I feel that I am independent and completely self sufficient, focus on marriage and kids. My parents tell me that I am being selfish by pushing off having kids at a later time - they say that it's much better for kids to have young parents who can relate to them more and have a longer life span which translates to having parents around for a longer time. Last week during a family gathering, my aunt said that I could have had two kids by now. I'm feeling very pressured to pace myself, but I don't feel like I am ready.

2007-06-27 07:36:58 · 21 answers · asked by ♥ 2

He always looks for me. When I'm driving he pops out of nowhere.

2007-06-27 07:36:44 · 22 answers · asked by OO7 3

I decided to call her to get the real scoop on what really happened becasue there is always 2 sides to any story. She was afraid to talk to me at first but I assured her that i just wanted to know how she got involved with him. We ended up talking and she told me her side-- i want to believe her and i know when i talk to my husband he will deny her side becasue i do feel he was leading this affair from what she told me. What should i do? i did forgive him but i feel he did not tell me the real side of what he did.

2007-06-27 07:25:09 · 27 answers · asked by ubetalkin 2

The world has changed, women are more independent, and gender-roles in the general relationship seem to have been diluted due to many factors. I need your sincere beliefs on the following please.

WOMEN:
---- If you are a working wife who earns an EQUAL OR GREATER SALARY than your husband, do you think that your husband should still pay the majority or all of the bills as the man in the relationship or would you split it 50-50? Or would you base the bill contribution on who makes the highest income, even if it's you? Why or why not?

MEN:
----Would you rather marry a woman who is a stay-home wife or has a low paying job? Why or why not?

---If your wife earns a salary of EQUAL OR MORE than you do, would you expect or desire for her to contribute to any bills? If so, how much: 50-50 or depending on who makes the most?

2007-06-27 07:18:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a wife and mother for two kids i am 35 and i love my husband but i lost interest in sex with him i always imagin myself with onother men , but i do love my husband and respect him but our relation is turned to be like friends brothers , i dont know . is that could be a reason to separate

2007-06-27 07:18:48 · 31 answers · asked by loddy hana 1

Will someone please tell me how this whole "friends with benefits" thing came into existence and how it works? I have only recently returned from overseas and I was gone a long time. So I feel a sense of cultural deprivation because I don't know about this phenomena. From what I understand by piecing it together, it is basically like a sex buddy, right? But what else does it entail? Is there ever an emotional commitment that evolves? Is that the whole idea? Is it for single people only? Young people? Do married people have friends with benefits? If you are a person who has a friend with benefits, please tell me what it is like. I really want to know.

2007-06-27 07:17:53 · 22 answers · asked by John Timothy 5

I mean the way he thinks and acts and he doesn't even look like a 15 years old boy...u can't imaginge he's 15 if u meet him and talk to him...I don't think about sex but i really do love him... he says we can get married in 5 years...i reallly adore him ...what do u think

2007-06-27 07:17:34 · 53 answers · asked by LiLi 1

My fiance' has a lets say "habit" of swearing at me when I wont "shut up". When we are arguing he will say something that I dont like or agree with and start to argue back and he tells me to shut up. If I stop talking when he says he doesnt want to discuss the situation further there will be no talk of the prior situation at any point down the road.(I have tried this).
So when I continue to "argue" with him he will proceed to call me a f_ _ _ _ _ _ b_ _ _ _ _ or the famous c word added in . I told him that this hurts me when he talks to me like this and he says that he feels bad and doesnt want to call me names but its the only way he can get me to shut up so he says cause I usually end up crying or shutting up cause I am apalled at what he just said. I told him he has issues with anger and he says no its me that I am crazy and need to get a life.
My own mother and sister recently mentioned that they feel he has always talked down to me? How sad I never even noticed until recently.

2007-06-27 07:04:47 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a wife and a mother for two kids i love my husband but i dont know why i am always searching for a nice look from a handsome man , somtimes i am imaging myself with another man , like to take care of myself too much and look at the mirror manytimes a day and feeling that flirting is the most interesting isuee in my ls that normal to think that way as i am 35 old .

2007-06-27 07:01:04 · 17 answers · asked by loddy hana 1

2007-06-27 07:00:51 · 21 answers · asked by Carla B 1