i am a wife and a mother for two kids i love my husband but i dont know why i am always searching for a nice look from a handsome man , somtimes i am imaging myself with another man , like to take care of myself too much and look at the mirror manytimes a day and feeling that flirting is the most interesting isuee in my ls that normal to think that way as i am 35 old .
2007-06-27 07:01:04 · 17 answers · asked by loddy hana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hard schlock!
2007-06-27 07:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 and 2, no. There are increased risks for certain conditions for women who are older, but the "magic" cut-off age where doctors are really concerned about those things is 40. Older women also have a higher incidence of twins, and all of the extra risks that are associated with multiple births. I take a pre-natal aquatic exercise class twice a week and one of the ladies who had been in my class when I started was in her early 40's and expecting her first child. And my great grandmother had her last child when her first son was having his first child so she was also over 40 at the time. More mature mothers often actually have a bit of an advantage over younger moms because they have had more time to learn patience, which is important when raising kids. 3 and 4, how the heck should we know? We know nothing about you other than the fact that you're in your mid-thirties. Age has almost nothing to do with how many children you'll have or how good a mother you will be.
2016-04-01 07:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are perfectly normal! Just because you are a wife and mother does not mean you are no longer a vibrant alive woman! Fantasy (when it remains safely in that category) can add some spice and excitement to a somewhat dull day. You are also wrestling with the age thing. When our moms were 35, most of them were out of shape, and had resolved themselves to becoming matrons. Not so with the women of our generation. We workout, have good bodies (for the most part) and take care of our appearances. It is only natural to enjoy someone other than your spouse showing appreciation for all your hard work.
2007-06-27 07:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal. You are looking for affection, even if just i the form of a glance of approval from a stranger. You need the reassurance that you are still a good looking woman. Shoot, who doesn't? Especially in our mid 30's when we used to have great bodies, pre baby, and we knew walking into a room all men would turn and look.. now only 75% of them do! lol But I understand....I think you flirt as a way to confirm your sexiness to yourself. And I don't see anything wrong with that.
2007-06-27 07:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is that not normal at 35! Every one loves a bit of attention! Your only human. Is your husband attentive? Does he make you feel special? Perhaps you guys need a romantic weekend together away from the kids. x
2007-06-27 07:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love direct attention, whether they are married or not. Girls aren't allowed to act interested though in most cases. If a guy says "nice butt" we say "a s s hole" because if we "like" them saying it we are considered a s l u t... when in fact we like the comment. We are just unable to react. Most women don't think about it so much, they just enjoy when they are getting it. Since you are thinking about it a lot, maybe your husband doesn't compliment you enough... when you get dressed up for something does he tell you that you look nice? Maybe your striving for some type of compliment because its rarely given to you.
2007-06-27 07:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by mommy_to_mason2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it's normal... in my colledge days,, i must have been with 4 married women with at least two kids and in thier mid 30's...
I think that's when the light turns on because of all the crap you have gone through...
dealing with a husband that loves you but dosen't show it very well. Pushing out two kids, and having to deal with all thier screaming.... and everyone comes to you for everything!!!
you need a break at 35,,, you need another man to sweep you off your feet, and give it to you good!
Then, after you have gotten what you wanted, you can go back to your life, and have something to always remember...
the end... happens all the time...
drop me a line....
2007-06-27 07:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wish I knew. I was with a women that put more value on the attention that she got from other men and disregard the attention that she got from me. Be careful, he notices.
Do you need to be reminded constantly that you are apecial to everyone? Are you special to your husband and kids? When is it good enough? This is a need that will never be satisfied and when you are older, what are you going to do for sexy looks then?
2007-06-27 07:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by ∞ sky3000 ∞ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are just looking for a man other than your husband to find you attractive. While it's ok to look and be looked at......don't cross the line. You are married and maybe you should try making yourself more attractive to your husband.
2007-06-27 07:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by Kimberley E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just demand for peace and good care from dady and dont look round.
2007-06-28 22:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by jackson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal. Very normal. Got a good "toy" store in your area? It will help keep your head clear. Good luck.
2007-06-27 07:07:12 · answer #11 · answered by GB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋