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If you want him to remain your husband, you don't. You could distract him from doing such things. but if he's looking at porn. he's gonna do it anyway. and your only gonna come off as a controlling (insert bad word here.)

2007-06-27 07:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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2016-07-27 16:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

By leaving him. You can set up website blockers of various types and complexity, but all that's going to do is upset him. Just tell him you don't feel comfortable with his habit, and you insist he stops. If he really wants to look at porn regardless of your feelings about it, he's going to find a way to check out porn regardless of a website blocker.

The real question is: Why does it bother you so much? If it's not child porn or something, all he's indulging is a fantasy. Would you rather be the one doing anal sex or be the center of a gangbang? Not to be crude, but porn is a healthy outlet for fantasies that wouldn't otherwise be realized. However, if he prefers porn and masturbation over having sex with you, then there is something wrong, and he needs counseling. You can try to spice up your relationship in the bedroom to the limits of what you're comfortable with, but after that it's up to him.

2007-06-27 07:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

What is wrong with him looking at porn? As long as he wouldn't rather look at porn on the pc than have sex with you.....I say leave it alone. However.....if it is a problem. You need to talk to him directly and look into parental control software to block the sites. Good luck.

2007-06-27 07:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberley E 3 · 0 0

Some people dont like pornography, but if your sex life is on the verge of being non existant than maybe he is looking for new ideas to roll around, if you know what I mean. Me and my husband look at them together and take it as a learning experience, then we try the postions out. If he has an adiction then he needs some help, that could be the case. Most Men are worried about how they are in bed just as women are concerned about being sexy. Give it a chance and maybe try getting aroused about it. or watch the clips and pretend he is the guy in the video:)haha

2007-06-27 07:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by deedee 2 · 0 0

lady a few days ago i ask question like this why women make it a problem when their spouses look at porn,
frankly i believe you should talk to your husband,but on a serious note you can't stop him from watching porn
i don't wanna tell what to do be you are a woman and you need to be innovative
buy yourself some "toys" and be creative with your "hubby"
but then again that's just my opinion
good luck

2007-06-27 07:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by treekgomon 4 · 0 0

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2007-06-27 21:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Rather than simply blockig the site he goes to (because you could put a child's filter on the computer, but he can get around it), why not address him directly? Ask him what he is getting from the porn sites that he feels is missing in his life. And if his doing this is causing you grief, you should be able to express this to him - if you can't, you both need marriage counseling.

2007-06-27 07:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

Don't block those sites. Join him in looking at them.

My wife and I have great sex after going to porn sites.

2007-06-27 07:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by ddpk_bd 4 · 2 1

You need to figure out why this is going on. Does he know that it is hurtful to you? Have you guys really ever talked about it? Most men do not think it is a big deal because "it's what guys do". Put a password on the computer its self, not the sites, and not just the internet. Talk to your man.

If this is a sex issue, men are not nasty in wanting sex, it is a way to feel close to you, and accepted by you. I say, give it to him anytime he wants it. :)

2007-06-27 07:10:17 · answer #10 · answered by Ivy_Woman 3 · 0 1

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