Marriage & Divorce - 27 June 2007

So, be honest? What would you change about your sweet hunny?

2007-06-27 07:00:00 · 16 answers · asked by ~Brenda~ 4

how long would you wait for the man or woman you have loved for 3 years to grow up and get their act togther, to get a career and start supporting you and helping you.

2007-06-27 06:53:46 · 8 answers · asked by lovely 3

What would you do about a jealious husband that doesn't like you talking with any men even if you job call for it? This has been going on for 6 years a least I've been married 10.

2007-06-27 06:52:45 · 12 answers · asked by Lon-Lon 1

My second cousin and I have been having "fun" together for about a year. We work in the same building and she is kind of slow, so it makes it really easy. She is putting alot of pressure on me to make this official. I am trying to make a decision as to when to tell my wife what is going on, so that we can get married and start a new life. From what I understand, the law doesn't care about 2nd cousins, but I haven't done any research yet. Is this true?

2007-06-27 06:52:11 · 7 answers · asked by apphelp1973 1

I’ve been seeing a great guy for 2 mos. Im divorced and have 2 kids. he’s never been married and has no kids (if that means anything) Last night as I came home from a date I called to check on my daughter and she said her dad was outside waiting for me. To avoid a scene I told boyfriend to drop me off a block away. He was pissed but did it anyway. Then I told my ex that if he ever did that again, I’d file a restraining order. I spoke to boyfriend later on and he told me he liked me and enjoyed my company but that he didn’t need this. That I didn’t not have control of the situation. I told him I took care of it and not to make any hasty decisions. Today I text him and he text back but I could tell he was still pissed. I don't blame if he wouldn't want to see me again. what to do?

2007-06-27 06:52:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-27 06:49:19 · 4 answers · asked by jwfjemm 1

I'm currently in a relationship with an American guy for almost 2 years. He was married May of 2004 to a Filipina while, I at time was just separated. This woman doesn't want to sign the divorce papers filed by my BFin the US. He still supports her and her 4 kids (from her 1st husband),even though he don't have any kid with her. They'd lived together for 6-mos. & forced himself to return back home l(ast 2005) when she asked him to leave after working on her visa and her children's & felt he wasn't wanted anymore. She refused to sign it by simply telling my BF that "she was too busy finding a job", etc. where the fact is, she knows that she still can get support for her kids if she wont. I am planning to think that she is too selfish & clever to tell my BF that "she have all the right because she's still his legal wife?

We just want to start a family & want to spend our lives together until we grow old. I don't think that we can move on if she is still there. I am terribly sad.

2007-06-27 06:45:07 · 4 answers · asked by chromite76 1

and a friend or two others.

2007-06-27 06:34:47 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous

hes 6-every day there is a physical altercation with him and someone else.sometimes other children /other adults.its seems futile the many discussions day in and out about not using violence to solve our problems fall on deaf ears-living as though LL HE CAN CONCENTRATE IS THE DYING/KILLING THAT HAPPENS IN TV,GAMES OR HOW HED LIKE TO DO IT/i dont know what to beleive-hes gotten what he wanted to be kicked out again due to non compliant behavior-kid just doesnt seem to get the meaning of the word no-of course hes had the time outs,the no priledges act,and even swatted but yet to no evail help im haning on by a string dads not helping screaming im going to take you to a psych center-but has deciedd its time to end this whole family thing and only wants to see him on sundays for a few hours-help-i really need help

2007-06-27 06:27:52 · 12 answers · asked by resigned 5

Mom's divorced friend has been flirting with me a lot and tells me how handsome I am.

I must admit that I am curious to get something started with her but I just want casual. Maybe even hit it and quit it. But my problem is that she is very pretty and I might not want to "quit it". I am scared that she might fall in love and I might have to hurt her or that I might fall in love with her and be stuck with a woman 20 years older than I. Should I just leave it alone and not let it happen. Lately, our chemistry and energy is there and is about to erupt.

2007-06-27 06:23:04 · 36 answers · asked by Trey J 1

I've talked to her and finally just started doing everything myself. I'm tired of it! She does nothing but clean the cat box. I do everything - EVERYTHING else. What to do?

2007-06-27 06:19:07 · 25 answers · asked by NewAger 1

I am married with 3 little boys that are great! My wife and I have been married for 3 years, I do not drink, my wife on the hand does about 1 bottle of Wine a night, I use to drink but with the boys I stopped after our youngest was born.

Our sex life is non existent. And has been this way for about a year. I am really frustrated and tired of her drinking all the time, she explains to me that its okay because she drank the bottle over the course of 3 hours. I have asked her to cut it down and she says nothing, I also said she may have a problem and she says that its my problem not hers.

I have been considering Separation, I really don't know what to do.

2007-06-27 06:14:51 · 25 answers · asked by ? 2

who feel like they treat their wives/girlfriends with extreme respect and love, feel like we only get backlash as if we do everything wrong all the time in their eyes. Are you tired of it? How do you deal with it? Give me some good, not rude, suggestions because keep in mind I love my wife and I want to know if its me or not?

2007-06-27 06:14:30 · 8 answers · asked by baresbroncsbullsbuster 1

Wife has put pin number on phone thus locking it.......
When confronted with old adage of nothing to hide nothing to worry about she didnt really give a ,,,,
And No i dont lock mine
i know some guy texting her
Am I paranoid Is this wrong
LADIES please i need ur perspective its driving me insane

2007-06-27 06:07:07 · 27 answers · asked by seth E 2

2007-06-27 06:01:13 · 37 answers · asked by Nevin J 1

I've recently discovered that my husband has been unfaithful with another married woman. I know that 2 of his Marine Crop buddies helped him commit the act (intentionally providing the place and items necessary) They are all Marines and I would like to know exactly what sort of trouble they're facing should the truth be uncovered.

2007-06-27 06:00:50 · 13 answers · asked by branwen_morgaine 2

Have been in a relationship for 7 months now with a woman i have admired for 8 years. We get along fine. she has been divorced for 6 years and is very afraid to enter into another committed relationship. Problem is she runs hot and cold. One day she is ready for marraige, next day she is thinking about calling off our relationship. No exageration. Her excuses range from "she needs space to decide", to "God showed her in a dream to get back in church" and stop this "distracting" relationship". We have "stopped " seeing each other too many times to count but one or the other will initiate contact after a few days. I have always chalked this up to her fears but it is taking a toll on me physically and emotionally. (ive lost 15 lbs in the last month and i wasnt overwieght)
Her past relationships have all been with alchaholics, i am NOT. She says i treat her better than shes ever been treated. other factors, but space doesnt allow explantion. question is, more patience or move on?

2007-06-27 06:00:12 · 32 answers · asked by dpeslinger 1

My fiances 13 year old sister is "talking" to a boy. Her mom always swore she would never let her date before 15. Well now that her and her husband are going through a divorce a lot of her old rules have changed. We tried telling her that there were some questionable things on her myspace page but she got mad at us for even mentioning them and said someone hacked into her myspace and did it. Okay whatever like I wasnt 13 a few years ago. The reason why we are so concerned is because this girl is really smart in school but shes going through a rough time right now because of her parents divorce. I know that know is the perfect time for her to start messing up. Her mom and dad put her in the middle of things and dont even think twice about how its affecting her. Shes growing up really fast and no one is noticing how she starting to withdraw herself from everyone. Their mom is in denial .We tried talking to her but she gets mad, like we're calling her daughter a sl*t.Should we give up?

2007-06-27 05:58:15 · 9 answers · asked by Princess Rach 3

2007-06-27 05:57:36 · 13 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

2007-06-27 05:24:59 · 14 answers · asked by Elizabeth T 1

I have been w/ my fiance for almost 4 years, and I just don't feel like He and I are on the same Page anymore.... When I try to bring it up he takes offence and says things like "oh so all of our problems are MY fault" and I say "not its not you, this is about me and what i'm feeling" then he runs off at the mouth and says "if you are that unhappy then just leave" its like he wants to guilt trip me or like he just doesnt want to talk it out w/ me. THe last time we tried to work it out was a year ago, i actually moved out..... he went and got my name tattooed on his chest.... made me feel trapped and I went back to him w/ hopes that things would change...they haven't i'm unhappy and IDK how to bring this up to him w/o him getting so upset and not talking about it. Please help!

2007-06-27 05:11:54 · 17 answers · asked by bad girl 2

I can't help but think if I am "ok"..... (you know what I mean)

2007-06-27 05:00:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for five years, been with my husband for 8 years. We're in love, but sometimes, we miss those early dating years! What are some ways you and your partner keep the love alive and feeling fresh? Thanks! :)

2007-06-27 04:49:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Shouldn't you exhaust all other options first?

2007-06-27 04:40:15 · 12 answers · asked by Kristy s 2

my husband and i have been together for 14 years(married 6) and having children was always a goal of ours. I have a daughter from a previous marriage and he has none. I had the surgeries to correct my problem but even with fertility drugs we were still unable to concieve. Last July I had to have a radical hysterectomy due to signs of cervical cancer returning. After recoverey my husband tells me he doesnt know if we can stay together or nt b/c of baby issue. We are still together now but I feel guilty for not being able to provide him with his greatest need. He says he loves me and doesnt want to lose me but he still cant forget his desire for a child. He has even suggested that we separate for a time so he can go and have this child with someone else then come back home to me with baby in tow. Now I think this is a recipe for disaster b/c it just leaves too many ?, for him, me, the baby, and that baby's mother. I have always thought that if i couldnt fulfill this i would walk, doUno

2007-06-27 04:24:33 · 28 answers · asked by loggerswife 2

My spouse died due to suicide but I cant get a handle on what he went through and I need to know. It was a short drop from a pergola...he kicked away a stool he stood on. His face was white when I found him (maybe 4-5 hours after the fact)....no protrusive tongue...peaceful expression on his face...black hands from blood flowing back to them I guess...he had clothes on.so I dont know the rest.

Its like....10 years later but I still need to know how long or if he suffered at all. No-one has been able to say or havent and its...I just need to know. Ive been clouded in judgement and fear but my best friend died and I want to know how he felt. I want to be with him when he died....so when he comes back to me, as he does sometimes (all the time). Maybe it will lay some of my questions to rest. I know why but dont know how.

Do any medical people, mediums or afterlife people.....please no guessers or comedians reply. Please tell me how my 18 year old marriage ended as it did...why?

2007-06-27 04:23:03 · 10 answers · asked by Scully 4

2007-06-27 04:17:18 · 12 answers · asked by laura32_13606 1

I am having a serious problem. I am married, 4 years now. Have had a "best guy friend" for about 2 years now. I am really falling in love with my best guy friend. He thinks I have left my husband, which I have before but stupid me, went back. My husband has told me that he married me for money and he doesn't do anything I ask of him, affection, helping with the house, etc. He wants to do what he wants, when he wants, where he wants and with who, talks to other females intimately, proven. It's like my husband and I make each other miserable. My best guy friend, I know loves me and wants an intimate realationship with me and will be there. He has told me he wants kids with me and my husband does not. My husband makes me feel low and I dont' have any self confidence anymore but when I am with my best friend, I feel pretty, wanted and have the attention I need. Another problem, my family, they will never talk to me again if I leave my husband for this other man so I don't know what to do.

2007-06-27 04:12:35 · 3 answers · asked by Misery 1

What's the difference between a marriage license and a marriage certificate? my fiance and i are wanting to get a legal document saying we are married but we aren't having the ceremony until later. i'm just confused on the whole marriage license deal. l live in texas if that helps any. thanx!

2007-06-27 04:09:09 · 7 answers · asked by meagan k 2

I am not sure if my husband is having an emotional affair or if hes even doing anything wrong in the first place.My gut tells me yes but I want to know if I'm overreacting.This is a girl that works at his work and hes also known since highschool.They hadn't talked since highschool and were excited to reconnect at work after so many years.It didn't seem like a problem to me at first when they had lunch together every other week and talked online all day at work until she came to our wedding.She spent most of her time following him around.There are more pictures with him and her than with me and him, he left me on the dance floor several times and started dancing with her (he says he didn't realize he did that), and when I viewed the photographers shots of the reception online, they had taken a pose of them kidding around and she had her arms around him and he had her leg in his hand. I'm sick.Everyone at my wedding wanted to know who she was and they did not like her. Whats he doing?

2007-06-27 04:07:27 · 19 answers · asked by Nancy W 1