2007-06-27 06:01:13 · 37 answers · asked by Nevin J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because she's a ho, or a closet lesbian, take your pick
2007-06-27 06:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by urstruly8604 5 · 4⤊ 6⤋
you need to be very careful and make sure this is what you want, my wife and I go to sex parties and do threesomes with some of her friends and mine, and I have to tell you while most men think this is what they want, I have seen quite a few relationships end because of this, and right now there are so many women leaving their husbands for other women they are doing a study on the affects that it has on a man, when two women have sex with each other it is quite a bit different then having sex with a man, yes I know we can do the same things to them that the other women can but it is different, it is hard for some men to see their wife getting pleasure from someone else, you should sit and talk with her about this and set some rules and if you decide to give it a try good luck, I have to say it has been great for us, and we have been married now for18 years and going strong!
2007-06-27 06:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife never did this before, I suspect she's taken on a female lover and doesn't want you to be angry about it. Sometimes people get bored in the bedroom (how long have you been married?) maybe you need to step up your action. Sometimes they just have fantasies that they want to bring to the marriage. Sometimes they want to bring in a couple and exchange couples. More times than not this kind of situation ends in divorce. Review your marriage with your wife and see just what her intentions are and what plans for the future she has. Sometimes these fantasies come from inside and from reading magazines, or sometimes come from outside influences like friends.
2007-06-27 06:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by sophieb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And you're asking us??? I know most men would be jumping at the chance for a threesome. But since this is not what you want, you should probably ask your wife. I'll be she wants to experiment and have you included. Believe it or not, many women have the 'curiosity' bug about another female. Or, she might want to see you respond to another woman with her watching. If it's not your thing - just tell her.
2007-06-27 06:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all... ask her. But in the meantime, my guess would be:
1. She's bored and therefor wants to try something new sexually. Its common for marital sex to get bland.
2. She has someone in mind that she wants to invite in the bedroom. Now if it's that... that can be bad. There may be an emotional affair going on there and that = drama
3. She's bi-curious
2007-06-27 06:06:47 · answer #5 · answered by Amazon Woman 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's either 2 things
1: She read that it's the ultimate fantasy 4 a man and wants 2 indulge u
2: She wants 2 xplore a lesbian or bisexual fantasy of some sort
B4 even thinking about doing this-u might want 2 ask her the reason.
2007-06-27 06:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's bored with the marriage. If I were you I'd sit down an talk to her about what is going on in her life to make her think this.
Chances are she is trying to spice up something she is not happy with. She may not want to admit it is not working for her and this is a way to get "excited" again.
The problem is that she is interested in inviting an outside influence into a very special thing called marriage. Think of it this way...would you want another man making love to her? If the answer is "no", then you already know this is wrong. If not, well, keep your head buried in the sand....
Good luck
2007-06-27 06:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by Alchemist 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am not a prude here...I think people should do whatever they want. Definitely should talk about it however, I was married before and we opened our marriage thinking that nothing could break us up. Guess what? We are wrong. Its been over a year now since the divorce was final. Just something to think about.
2007-06-27 06:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is curious about it, at least she is doing it WITH you and not behind your back? Maybe she is just trying to spice things up a little, depends on your comfort level, if you can deal with it? Talk about boundaries, and expectations and make the decision about whether you will try it or not.... someone below said she is a slut? since when is a woman a slut who wants to experiment with something new, she asked to have her join BOTH of you. Geez some people in here are prudes.
2007-06-27 06:09:37 · answer #9 · answered by Lori S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just wants to try something new, proceed with caution. I know it is a fantasy for some men, but how is the reality of the actions going to go over?
2007-06-27 07:04:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. She is bored with her sex life, and wants to spice things up.
2. She is afraid that you are getting bored with your sex life, and she wants to improve it before you cheat.
3. It's a fantasy of hers and she wants to fullfill it.
4. She is a lesbian but settled with a man.
(It is most likely 1,2, or 3...)
No matter what we say, only she has the answer...talk to her about it..find out
2007-06-27 06:18:59 · answer #11 · answered by Enchanted One 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋