Cell Phone Locked?

Question

Wife has put pin number on phone thus locking it.......
When confronted with old adage of nothing to hide nothing to worry about she didnt really give a ,,,,
And No i dont lock mine
i know some guy texting her
Am I paranoid Is this wrong
LADIES please i need ur perspective its driving me insane

Answer 1

In a marriage there should be no secrets. If a guy is texting her, it should be something she can share with her husband. My husband and I keep the same password on everything and are able to access each others e-mail, myspace, etc..... there is no such thing as "I need my privacy , unless there is something to hide"

Answer 2

In a marriage I don't think that it is approiate to have members of the opposite sex text messaging each other unless it all out in the open and on the up and up. What she is doing is wrong. You are not paranoid. If she had nothing to hide she wouldn't have locked her phone. There should never be these kind of secrets in a marrage. Now a days, it seems that alot of peoples ideas of moral behavior in a marrage are going completely down the toilet. You are feeling this way because you know that is it wrong, and your right.
Good luck

Answer 3

She is your wife and not girlfriend. So its not like you can let her do anything with her phone. She locked it for a reason. A reason that she does not want you to know. Talk to her and ask her why she did this. She probably wont tell you. If you think she is up to no good, the only alternative thing is to get your mthly statement and find out if shes making any phone calls/ txt messages to some other guy.
Hope this helped and wish you the best!!!

Answer 4

Why did she have to lock up the cell phone in the first place? Are you going through her purse, her cell phone, and other things that you would only be going into in order to snoop? Women get sensitive about those things, and she is probably locking the phone because she caught you looking around when you didn't really need to. I am guessing that you broke her trust by looking at her texts, and now she is breaking your trust by locking the cell phone.

Answer 5

Yes, it is absolutely wrong. The only thing locked in our home is my husband's work blackberry and that's because he's military with a clearance so it may contain sensitive info. Sounds like she is doing something she is not supposed to. The politically correct thing to do would be to try to talk to her and work it out, but I can be mean sometimes so I would get her phone disconnected. But I'm not telling you to do that, because it would probably just cause more problems between you, but yes, she is up to something. Good luck.

Answer 6

Call the phone company and request a copy of the text messages. Why would anyone lock their phone if they didn't feel they had something "valuable" to hide?

Answer 7

Call the service provider and tell them that from now on you want an itemized listing of every call and texting with the monthly bill. Once you add up the frequency of calls and texting per day and month you will have something to seriously talk to her about. Plus she also would have a harder time denying it.

Answer 8

The only time i lock my cell phone is when i dont want someone knowing whats going on inside it .. shes hiding something.

Answer 9

So what will you do if that is true? You cannot control your wife's behavior, and you either trust her or you don't. Leave it alone. In the meantime, get your act together and learn how to be a better husband to her. She's missing something if she's looking outside.

Answer 10

based on the info provided she is hiding something that she doesnt want you to see...who's name is the bill in? if it's you call the cell company and ask for a detailed call record of her phone # and you'll at least get the # she is texting...