So, be honest? What would you change about your sweet hunny?
2007-06-27 07:00:00 · 16 answers · asked by ~Brenda~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Great answers men! Keep them coming! So, it seems you men want your ladies to have more of a sexy drive and the ladies want you men to have better attitudes. LOL
Don't thumbs down the dude that wants more bum play...if she did it once it is fair to want it again. LOL
2007-06-27 07:50:06 · update #1
She is a wonderful woman and I wouldn't change anything except her sexual drive. Mine is higher than hers and I would enjoy if hers was equal to or grater than mine!
She is a wonderful lover I just want it more often!
2007-06-27 07:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wish she could be content.
Don't get me wrong - I have a GREAT wife, but she's one of those people who are never satisfied. She has trouble relaxing in the evening unless everything (and I mean EVERYTHING) in the house is just-so. Everything must be picked up (we got 2 kids, so this is a challenge). All laundry must be done, etc.... Jesh, just relax - we've done a couple loads today and we'll do 2 more tomorrow. Just sit down and take a break and watch a show w/ me or something.
I swear sometimes she flitts around the house like a little hummingbird !!!
I try to joke w/ her that they'll be dirty dishes and laundry the day she dies, so they don't ALL have to be done at once.
She also finds things in our 4 year old house that "Needs to be replaced / upgraded / changed". However, 4 years ago this house was "perfect" and "It has everthing I could ever want in a home". I'm not talking general maintinence things - I'm talking replacing perfectly good doors, upgrading coutertops and cabinets (both are in fine shape, but we have tile and she wants granite), etc....
She sometimes suffers from anxiety attacks and can't seem to relax.
I wish she could just sit back once in awhile and ENJOY what we have and appreciate it, instead of always looking for the next best thing.
I think this is a trait many people have - especially in a consumer driven / keeping up with the Jones' kind of world. I also tend to believe that most men can be satisfied / happy with less material possesions than their wives. Maybe its just me ?
2007-06-27 07:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by aa889d 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her sex drive. It's down to about once a week. When are are slangin and bangin it's great but I still want to hit it daily. The actual intimacy has gotten BETTER and we have expanded our love making (idea's and passion wise), but I want more.
I am still very attracted to her (we both are 45). I think she looks simply wonderful. She's picked up some pounds since we first met. I've known her for 23 years and she's gained about 40lbs, I've picked up 10. I attribute it to her having my three really cool children and her not exercising. She was quite slim when we met so where she is now is what I expected at this age. She wants to lose some of her belly fat but will not make a commitment to do it. I would like her to commit to doing that IF that's what she really wants to do.
2007-06-27 07:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexually adventurous and less self-conscious in the bedroom.
When she was preggers she'd get so worked up when we made love her hand would wander between us and she'd time us so we'd finish simultaneously.
Now the furthest her hand wanders is grab the remote so she can watch her Soap reviews
2007-06-27 10:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by scott_v1963 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her lack of sex drive. Her lack of desire to please me or make me happy (all she does is try to prevent me from being unhappy enough to leave). the way she makes everything about her. THe fact that her dream life is to sit around with the kids in daycare and do nothing all day. Her low self-esteem. Come to think of it, her presence would about cover it. Unfortunately I love her.
2007-06-27 07:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by s1lvermidnight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her attitude about life.
She always sees everything in a negative light.
2007-06-27 07:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her obsession with her weight. Seems like every woman has it. Very unnecessary.
2007-06-27 07:15:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She would be 50#'s lighter!
2007-06-27 07:16:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing thats why I married her
2007-06-27 07:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
We wouldn't be married. We'd just date forever.
2007-06-27 07:08:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋